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Sometimes we need to make our emotions and moods less volatile by learning new ways of coping and re-interpreting some of the things that trigger negative feelings. If anxiety is a problem, you may need to follow a routine of gradual exposure to the things that make you anxious, rather than avoiding them entirely, so that over time you retain your mind not to trigger anxiety so easily.
— Feb 21, 2026 07:58PM
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One reason for exploring the social aspects of depression is to highlight that suffering from depression can arise from real social hardships and is not about being a bad or weak person. There may be things in your life that make depression more likely. Once you give up blaming yourself and feeling inadequate, you might begin to see how to make changes.
— Feb 25, 2026 10:31PM
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Indeed, knowing what our needs are, and being able to express them, is important for mental health, especially if we are successful in eliciting supportive signals from others.
— Feb 23, 2026 12:31AM
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Sometimes we need to make our emotions and moods less volatile by learning new ways of coping and re-interpreting some of the things that trigger negative feelings. If anxiety is a prob, you may need to follow a routine of gradual exposure to the things that make you anxious, rather than avoiding them entirely, so that over time you retain your mind not to trigger anxiety so easily.
— Feb 21, 2026 07:59PM
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If our responses are being too easily triggered, we need to become less sensitive to events that trigger our emotions and moods—to desensitize ourselves.
— Feb 21, 2026 07:58PM
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If you can learn to challenge the inferiority thoughts and break the link between subordinate feelings (e.g., anxiety, unhappiness) and behavior (hiding away, loss of confidence) and stress, you will feel better.
— Feb 21, 2026 08:30AM
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But depression can also arise from too much closeness. We may feel trapped and weighed down in relationships and can’t get away, or don’t have enough space or distance from others. And we might feel guilty about even wanting to get more space.
— Feb 20, 2026 04:43AM
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Lonely, despair-type depressions can arise when it seems that we cannot get close enough to others; we feel cut off and solitary. When people are depressed they often feel emotionally alone and isolated—this is the part of the depressive experience. It can feel as if there is a barrier between oneself and others.
— Feb 20, 2026 04:43AM
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Depression is not just psychological or ‘all in the mind,’ or a sign of weak character. Depression is about how our bodies and brains respond to stress. Depression is about genetic and developmental sensitivities. And, of course, being depressed and tired can itself be stressful and depressing.
— Feb 20, 2026 02:47AM
