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حس خوبی نیست، یک کتاب 600 صفحه ای شروع کنی و صفحه 200 ازش خسته بشی.
Yet we persist with the hope of finding some gems.
— Jan 10, 2017 10:19AM
Yet we persist with the hope of finding some gems.
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در منطق كودكان قانون بر اين است كه از جز به كل برود. مثلا اگر مادر كودك درباره نيازها و انتظاراتش نامرتب و نا هماهنگ عمل مي كند يعني زماني كه كودك گريه مي كند گاهي به سراغش مي آيد و زمان هايي او را ناديده مي گيرد، در اينجا كودك صرفا نتيجه نمي گيرد كه مادر غير قابل اعتماد است، بلكه ممكن است تصميم بگيرد كه هيچ كس قابل اعتماد نيست، و يا زن ها قابل اعتماد نيستند...
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This theory is one of biggest and greatest revolution in psychology world
P.S. my above question is what my mind is entangled with. So, decided to share with friends who are into TA to find the answer.
Sara wrote: "Amir, now that you're reading TA, how can I differentiate an introvert and someone who has secluded himself because he suffers from "Don't be close" and "Don't be Important" life scripts?How an I ..."
Sara it's a profound question you asked and I don't feel competent enough to answer it.
I guess messages like "don't be important", or "don't be close" are amongst primary reasons why a person might become an introvert. (Both genes and nurture are determining factors).
If you came up with an answer make sure you let me know Sara :)
Bita wrote: "This theory is one of biggest and greatest revolution in psychology world"And it's quite fascinating Bita, I'm okay, you're okay was a delicate book. This one's a bit rigid. Do you know any other practical TA book you would recommend?
Amir, read "Games people play". It is a little boring, but indeed worth it.
I have asked the question from several ppl, once I get anything worth to share, you will be the first to know.
I have asked the question from several ppl, once I get anything worth to share, you will be the first to know.
@Sara > Actually I started reading this book as well as couple other books (I'm okay, You're okay) as prerequisites to "the games". :)
I recommend you to read Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking...to understand introverts :) Im reading the same books ;)
@Arezu > Thanks Arezu, actually i've shelved it for quite a time but I've been so hesitant to read it. How's it?
How an I say, someone is "extrovert" without having this though in my mind that he is suppressing "Don't belong" and "Don't be close"?