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"Nelson Mandela once said, “If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.” He was so right."
May 29, 2025 09:30AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 320 of 322
"“You know,” I said, “for once I cannot argue with you. The gun, the bullets—I can’t explain any of it. So I’ll give you that much.” Then I couldn’t resist teasing her with one last little jab. “But where was your Jesus to pay your hospital bill, hmm? I know for a fact that He didn’t pay that.” She smiled and said, “You’re right. He didn’t. But He blessed me with the son who did.”"
May 29, 2025 10:08AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 319 of 322
"She looked up and looked at him straight down the barrel of the gun. Then she started to pray, and that’s when the gun misfired. Then it misfired again. Then it misfired again, and again. She jumped up, shoved him away, and ran for the car. Andrew leapt in beside her and she turned the ignition and then her memory went blank."
May 29, 2025 10:08AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 319 of 322
"The last I heard he still lives somewhere around Highlands North, not too far from my mom."
May 29, 2025 10:07AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 319 of 322
"He got a good lawyer, who continued to lean on the court about the fact that he had children at home who needed him. The case never went to trial. Abel pled guilty to attempted murder. He was given three years’ probation. He didn’t serve a single day in prison. He kept joint custody of his sons. He’s walking around Johannesburg today, completely free."
May 29, 2025 10:07AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 319 of 322
"So Abel was out. The case slowly ground its way through the legal system, and everything went against us. Because of my mother’s miraculous recovery, the charge was only attempted murder. And because no domestic violence charges had ever been filed in all the times my mother had called the police to report him, Abel had no criminal record."
May 29, 2025 10:06AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 318 of 322
"“You need to man up,” the cousin said. “This is the coward’s way. You need to turn yourself in. If you were man enough to do this, you have to be man enough to face the consequences.” Abel broke down and handed his gun over to the cousin, the cousin drove him to the police station, and Abel turned himself in."
May 29, 2025 10:05AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 317 of 322
"She broke out in a huge smile and started laughing. Through my tears, I started laughing, too. I was bawling my eyes out and laughing hysterically at the same time. We sat there and she squeezed my hand and we cracked each other up the way we always did, mother and son, laughing together through the pain in an intensive-care recovery room on a bright and sunny and beautiful day."
May 29, 2025 10:04AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 316 of 322
"I was still afraid I was going to lose her. I was angry at myself for not being there, angry at the police for all the times they didn’t arrest Abel."
May 29, 2025 10:04AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 316 of 322
"My mother was out of the hospital in four days. She was back at work in seven."
May 29, 2025 10:03AM
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Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury
Nabila Tabassum Chowdhury is on page 315 of 322
"The bullet took off only a tiny flap of skin on the side of her nostril, and it came out clean, with no bullet fragments left inside. She didn’t even need surgery. They stopped the bleeding, stitched her up in back, stitched her up in front, and let her heal."
May 29, 2025 10:03AM
Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood


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