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It’s not about how you reach out, nor is it really what you say. It’s just the fact that you thought of that person enough to reach out and check in with them.

Practice empathetic listening and active listening to ensure you are aware of where that individual is at and if now is a good time to pursue the conversation or if you should follow up with them later.

It’s okay to not know what to do!

One thing many of us learn, is we can’t trust our pain and fears with everyone.

People are judgmental.

It can make us feel less secure in sharing our personal problems

And that’s partially because

People don’t want to be blamed for their problems or feel the need to defend the choices they made.

There’s medicine in forgiveness. Forgiveness comes when we’re able to recognize that the other person’s actions were more about them- their own motivations and context- than about us.

* that insight may or may not justify their behavior.

We don’t forgive to forget, but we forgive in order to learn about others, about ourselves and let go of resentments that hold us down.

“You are the light to my dark, Sunshine, without you I’m lost.” Alex

“Beautiful words that made my heart pound… but I couldn’t help noticing none of them were ‘I love you too’.”
Ava

“The less you know, the more you fear, so go learn more.”
Banks

Love!!