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"The problem was that I still looked at things as though there were something to be fixed. I was desperate for it to be over..."

"Queerness involved a process of becoming, undertaken in a world built around heterosexuality [...]
Sexuality was constructed into selfhood, into identity, as I grew up. I moulded myself in contrast to - or in consonance with - the world as I found it; I regulated myself, I policed myself."