Status Updates From Ce se întâmplă în iubire

This section is simultaneously so juicy and boring?? Finding it harder to follow the author's quips of philosophy/reflection since the vocabulary is so advanced.

"The most superficially irrational, immature, lamentable, but nonetheless common of all presumptions of love is that the person to whom we have pledged ourselves is not just the center of our emotional existence but is also, as a result---and yet in a very strange, objectively insane and profoundly unjust way---responsible for everything that happens to us, for good or ill."

""I'm sorry, Rabih," says Kirsten, turning serious. "I'm a bit of a bitch when you go away"...Kirsten's words act like an immediate balm. Rabih is flooded with love...Neither he nor she have to be perfect, he reflects; they only need to give each other the odd sign they know they can sometimes be quite hard to live with."

I teared up at this, why does this make me feel so seen.