Status Updates From Surrender Experiment

I see the appeal of surrendering to life but rn it feels like he’s surrendering to what other people want from him. for him, that leads to status, power, and opportunity. i dont think this philosophy works the same way for ppl with less privilege. for ex, for women, surrendering to what others want can quickly put us in danger. there’s value in surrender, but without discernment, its not universally applicable.