Status Updates From The Course of Love

Ughhh idk it’s getting hard for me to continue reading this book after the cheating part, but I still want to finish it

"At the very heart of a sulk lies a confusing mixture of intense anger and an equally intense desire not to communicate what one is angry about...We should add: it is a privilege to be the recipient of a sulk; it means the other person respects and trusts us enough to think we should understand their unspoken hurt. It is one of the odder gifts of love."

"How logical, then, that we should as adults find ourselves rejecting certain candidates not because they are wrong but because they are a little right...We chase after more exciting others, not in the belief that life with them will be more harmonious, but out of an unconscious sense that it will be reassuringly familiar in its patterns of frustration."

"And yet, we should insist, none of this has anything much yet to do with a love story. Love stories begin not when we fear someone may be unwilling to see us again but when they decide they would have no objections to seeing us all the time; not when they have every opportunity to run away but when they have exchanged solemn vows promising to hold us, and be held captive by us, for life."

"The remark is hardly off-putting for Rabih, who reminds himself of the maxim that cynics are merely idealists with unusually high standards."