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AND SHES CITING FICTION AGAIN AAAAAAAA

And she's citing fiction. Again.

The problem is that Deborah seems to think oppression is about feelings when it's actually about material conditions

You can't say "as a linguist and researcher" to explain your deliberate decision to ignore extremely well documented and validated repeatable studies just because they make your thesis fall apart Deborah

She's now saying that we should ignore the power dynamics at play because she finds them inconvenient to her stupid bullshit thesis

Bitch shut up

I'm gonna be so real man, I don't give a shit about who Nancy Reagan disliked or why

Now she's doing that thing NYC dickheads so where they pretend being from NYC makes them oppressed send help

See now she's talking about real and documented cultural differences and she's about to use those as an excuse to justify misogyny

Again

Mom come get me she's pretending interupting someone doesnt count as interupting someone in the interruption was "justified"

I hate this woman I think

Yeah so even in her example of "an interuption that isn't an interuption when context is considered"

It was still fully an interuption.

That is sort of the heart of the entire issue with Deborah's theory here though.

She completely fails to acknowledge any kind of power dynamics between groups of people. Like cis men hold power over cis women. Parents hold power over children. Hosts hold power over their guests.

And if you don't acknowledge that your analysis end up deeply flawed

Why would you include an anecdote about how a Spanish woman was being racist towards a specific ethnic minority on purpose to try and provoke her guest.

Obviously the guest isn't going to push back the host HAS POWER OVER THEM DEBORAH

And now she's being extremely weird about an abuse victim

Again, there very much is a reason why cishet women do not feel like they can tell their cishet men partners "no" but it's not "cultural communication barriers" it's what happens to cishet women when they place boundaries on their cishet man partners.

Yeah Deborah is there maybe a term that could be used to refer to the phenomenon where women's time is seen as less valuable than men's time? Is there maybe a word for that?

Deborah I am BEGGING you to acknowledge systemic misogyny

Yall will never believe this but she's citing fiction YET A FUCKING GAIN

She's now citing an anecdotal account about a hypnotist.

This woman is so fucking unserious

See Deborah I'm ACTUALLY challenging your authority and expertise because your ideas are stupid and you keep citing anecdotal evidence consisting of a tiny handful of people at best and LITERAL FICTION af worst.