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Key idea promoted by author: gender inequality is the real cause of women abuse
How does the below fit into this ‘theory’?

Icelandic studies reveal about 40 % of women report gender-based or sexual violence in their lifetimes—despite Iceland ranking #1 on gender equality

Was great until now. The author has let her toxic feminist beliefs plague the latter part of the book.
She begins to challenge certain truths and norms, blaming domestic abuse faced by woman on a society that doesn’t treat men and women identical. Doesn’t it make sense to treat different things different??

The abuser uses charm to disguise abuse and manipulation, punctuating the abuse with regret, love and tenderness.

Jealousy is used as a tool to cement power and control. The abuser presents his jealousy as a sign of his deep and unwavering love.

advances in technology have afforded abusers an arsenal of high-tech gadgets with which to terrorise women

An abuser will often use social abuse to undermine his partner