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"After you have finished your true stories sometime, why don't you make up a story and the people to go with it? Only then will you understand what happened and why. It is those we live with and love and should know who elude us."

One of my favorite books of all time, and one I re-read or re-listen to every year. Have probably read or listened to it two dozen times and it still teaches me new things every time.