“I wish my dad had walked out on us.'
'You don't mean that.'
'I do. He was a dad to remember, not to keep; he still is.”
― Umami
'You don't mean that.'
'I do. He was a dad to remember, not to keep; he still is.”
― Umami
“Imagination is kinda like ...
a torch.
So we can remember what is true.
- In the cave of any faith.
Definitely.”
― How to Loiter in a Turf War
a torch.
So we can remember what is true.
- In the cave of any faith.
Definitely.”
― How to Loiter in a Turf War
“I wonder if knowing the meaning of now will be enough to prepare me to embrace tomorrow.”
― Super Model Minority
― Super Model Minority
“In the 1970s, the literary critic Lionel Trilling mused that the authentic self, though best left undefined, was most likely the 'distinction between an inner true self and an outer false self'. The internet has created a strict line between these selves, where we understand our extrinsic self to be one crouching inside our smartphone and our intrinsic self to be hiding at home on the sofa. But it is not enough to have these separate selves; it is inauthentic to present one self online and another at home. And so we attempt to break down these boundaries through endless sharing, turning ourselves inside out for the consumption of others. Sharing has become how we socialise.”
― How Do We Know We're Doing It Right: Other Essays on Modern Life
― How Do We Know We're Doing It Right: Other Essays on Modern Life
“The exhaustion the family collapsed into after he'd walked off slamming the door, like a kind of post-coital bliss, only post-violence. A silence so passive it felt like peace.”
― Umami
― Umami
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