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Ashlynn
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Jul 19, 2012 09:40AM

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You know... I never thought about it like that, but I do a similar thing.
I still live with my parents (and for a short time my great-aunt) and I was in the habit of turning my books upside down on the table when I left them outside of my bedroom so they didn't see them.
However, my Grandmother is on Facebook and sees my Goodreads feed there.
I don't do much reading in public, but I think that reading novels with racy covers (or doing anything outside the "norm" for that matter) around strangers is more likely to make you feel judged. Strangers are more likely to stereotype you based on what they see you reading or doing. People you know probably know you well enough not to push you into the stereotype corner.
I still live with my parents (and for a short time my great-aunt) and I was in the habit of turning my books upside down on the table when I left them outside of my bedroom so they didn't see them.
However, my Grandmother is on Facebook and sees my Goodreads feed there.
I don't do much reading in public, but I think that reading novels with racy covers (or doing anything outside the "norm" for that matter) around strangers is more likely to make you feel judged. Strangers are more likely to stereotype you based on what they see you reading or doing. People you know probably know you well enough not to push you into the stereotype corner.



Then I quit reading romance novels for about 15 years.
Slight tangent: I borrowed an urban fantasy book from a friend (one of the Dresden Files books). Since I take a book with me everywhere, I would be pulling the book in and out of my purse and as a result the books would get beaten up. I beat up the borrowed book so much, I was embarrassed to return it in its present condition, so I ended up buying my friend a new book.
Right after that, I went and bought a couple of book covers at B&N, which solved the problem of beat up books really well.
And now back to how this relates to this topic, it now serves to keep the cover away from nosey and judgmental eyes.