Hereafter question

Love does me you want the best for the other person. I was recently put in this situation. My ex from 9 was back in my life as a friend. I was happy with that. He had been dating somebody while he was talking me. His gf had a jelous streek the size of texas. He couldnt just any of his go out of his life. He kept all his exes in his life as friends and she didnt like that. One day i needed a friend and he was the one that i went to. Well she saw i had called and went through the roof. she broke up with him that same night. When me and him were together it wasnt the best of circumstances and it was my fault we broke up. When him and his current gf broke up caues of me calling. I had the oppertunity to get him back. I fought morally and ethically bout fighting to get him back. But when she said she would take him back if he cut off all contact with all his exes he called me and asked me if i was willing to keep true to what i said that i would give him up completly if i knew they could get back together. So unfortunitly i let him go again. It broke my heart and i cried but i knew he was going to be happy. and really that is all i wanted for him was to be happy. I would have rather him be happy with me. but then the whole morals and ethics kicked in and i let him go again. Sometimes we dont do what is morally and ethically right for our own selfish means. but sometimes if we know the other person is going to be happy then we have no choice but to let them go.

i am sorry to hear.. i am going thru something like this and i let him alone, he has a gf but has fallen for me. i am letting him free to make his decision, whatever is the best for him. i am silent now, and he will find me if he wants me