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100% agreed.

The fourth? Well ... it was not only boring but also full of silly political correctness. I couldn't finish it.

This series provides me with a uniquely cozy reading experience. The atmosphere is something like attending one of my own family's annual reunions - catching up, getting reacquainted with some quirky characters, hearing some of the same stories but still enjoying the company, and there's always at least one incident or two that leaves you chuckling. There's a familial, stress-free charm in the telling.



Personal opinion of the series over all Meh

Maybe put it down for a bit and read something else. I need to do that sometimes.




The third book rather disappointed me. First of all, Jondalar has to be the worst male lead ever. He is the whiniest, drippiest, most insecure guy. I can't believe it took the entire third book for him to get over himself. UGH. Ayala annoyed me too, for all of her strength, she didn't have the guts to just flat out ask Jondalar what the heck was wrong with him and then tell him to cut the childish crap. I loved Wolf though and the relationship she built with the people though and I think the book would have ended much better if Jondalar would have got over himself sooner, quit pining away for a home on the other side of the continent, co-mated with Ayala and Ranec and settled right there with the Mamuti (sp?).
The fourth book started to loose me. The constant repetition of descriptions of the land and plants in exhaustive detail were mind numbing. I enjoyed it in the first. Didn't bother me in the second, wasn't too bad in the third, but by the fourth, come on, give the readers some credit.
I also didn't care for the repetitive, explicit loves scenes. Yes, we get it, they have an over the top, sensual, love life, even though neither one has bathed in weeks and you've been sweating and riding horses all that time.
The fifth book, I had to drag myself through. Won't read it again. I think there is a book after that, but I haven't gone looking for it. If I see it at a garage sale, I might pick it up.

I find it interesting that so many people dislike the Earth Children books by Auel because of the sex in the books. When someone writes about relationships between men and women, sex is a pretty big part of whether or not a relationship will be successful. Why do people believe that having sex or romantic relationships in novels some how diminishes its credibility? Other than my children, the strongest and most important relationship in my life is between myself and my husband. Sexual intimacy is one of the things that keeps relationships strong. Some of the best classics in history revolved around romantic relationships: Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights, Tess of the D'urbervilles, North and South, Middlemarch, etc. I think this puritanical idea concerning sex can actually be harmful to some marriages. Women (and men to a lesser degree) are taught from early on that sex is bad and sex is dirty. Then they get married and they are supposed to immediately dump all of that baggage and decide that sex is now good. IMO, we need to get over this notion concerning sex and understand that it is an extremely important aspect of life.

I don't think the romance part of it took anything away, people fall in love, it makes sense to have there. But it just seems like she took it a little too far. Especially the love triangle thing in the third book.

It has been a very long time since I read the books, so I cannot recall the repetitive nature. I have no problem with criticism of writing because of repetitiveness or redundancy. I guess my question is why are we so squeamish about sex? I love Stephen King and he spends half of his books mired in blood, explosions and death. Yet it SEEMS we find this more palatable than something that is crucial to our survival. I just don't get it.

I agree, angela- that was part of what turned m..."
This is exactly what I was thinking for the last three or four books. Ayla is the BEST!! She is the smartest, most beautiful, exotic, talented, etc.... Enough already!!
And the SEX! My goodness, I got embarrassed just reading them sometimes because my dad got the books for me for Christmas when they came out!! EWWWW! Not that I wouldn't have been taken aback if he hadn't gotten them for me, but still... I just thought there was a lot more in it than necessary in books 3-5. Book 6 had toned it down considerably, but still lots of Ayla worship!

I agree, angela- that was part of..."
Maybe it is just that I am old now, been married for 28 years and sex no longer causes me to blush. I just feel this puritanical approach to sex is just plain silly at this point in my life.

I don't read a lot of Stephen King. Some, but not a lot because some were just too gory for me.
Books don't tell every time a character stops to have a bowel movement and tell exactly what that bowel movement was like and whether it passed slowly or was more runny than usual or any of that. They also don't tell every time a characters urinates and exactly how that feels. These functions are also quite necessary for our continued survival. Most books don't detail every meal eaten either with description given to every bite. It might mention they ate, or mention some of the food on the table, but not take the reader by the hand and walk them through every move of the jaw and every swallow.
So why, do people think that we need that for intimate scenes? After 18 years and 3 children, I am well aware of the mechanics of it. If you want to show how great it is between two people and want to detail it, it can be done in one or two scenes, not have the story littered with it. Also, intimacy and sex scenes can be shown without actually walking the reader through every move.

To each his/her own then. ;0)





at least that was better than the ..."
I made it to the third one, and my disappointment grew with each turn of the page. It had so much potential. I'm a huge fan of that period of pre-history, but a sappy love triangle was not what I expected. Stopped reading and gave the following books in the series away.


yeah, it was Darryl Hannah.

oh, is that the series that started with People of the Wolf? I loved that series! or, well- up to a point...

awesome! I've so rarely come across anyone on here who's even heard of that series! which one is your favorite? (mine is people of the lakes)

"Goodreads" reeeaaadddsss.

people all this is a journey on the way towards this main discovery.



This was my Favorite of all the books.



Good stories, but I gave up after hearing about Jondalar's penis again and again... zzzzz

"Shelters of Stone" is the the second to the last in the series. The last one is "The Land of Painted Caves." It is so bogged down with description that I am having a hard time finishing it.


I haven't read The land of Painted Caves yet, curiosity may yet drive me to pick it up at the library.

I'm really glad I read the series, though...I felt educated afterwards.




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