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How do you know when to stop reading a bad book?
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Wow, that's harsh - but each to their own.


That's about the way I do it, too. If I've struggled for a week and only made it halfway through, it just isn't holding my attention.

If a book is too ..." I can't believe someone else did this, too. Once I found a book so filthy and violent that I not only threw it away so no one else would read it, I remembered how my son, who was a garbage collector used to bring home "stuff"so I tore out the center of the book!




hahah!me too!actually i don't throw them away, i just locked it up!




The Brothers Karamazov
Don Quixote
I have no idea why everybody likes those books.
I did not finish the audios.
That's how I feel too - life is short and I'm not spending any of what time I have left reading books I don't like.
As for forcing myself . . . good gawd! There's enough the world forces on us - why force ourselves?


I, for instance, get some books through LibriVox - the readers are volunteers and I appreciate they've done this work.
But what I don't appreciate is people who do not bother finding out how words are pronounced. And you don't dare say anything about it or they think you're being bigotted, of course.
I went through a few chapters of War and Peace - there was one reader who mangled a lot of the English language.
Had she actually listened to the other readers she might have realized it. But she went on and on, re-writing the English language to suit her own.
Grrrrr!
Another thing I don't like are English/British readers who speak in too prim and proper a manner - it drives me nuts. It distracts from the story when somebody makes it sound like an address from the Queen.
Though I must say, most British readers are very good.

So now, if I'm not feeling it I put it aside which is not often I may say. Anyway it's stuck in my Kindle forever so I may re-think it later on.
One thing I do to help myself before I read a book is to do some research, check customers reviews (without reading the spoilers, check the author and ask around. People are usually very honest about how they feel about a book.




If you aren't enjoying the book, turf it.




A book I am fighting to get through currently is Tana French's In the Woods. Not too long ago I read Faithful Place by her and could not put the book down. This one, however, I haven't been able to pick up even after starting it at the beginning of summer and thrice renewing it from the library. I don't know how to stop reading it (even though I'm not actually reading it) without remorse. Maybe I'll get lucky and someone will reserve it so it cannot be renewed again!

Probably I should read previous replies before adding my own comments, but I did so after I had posted this already... just wanted to add that I really like the idea of a discussion on whether to stick with a book or not even if the start hasn't been great.

Hello, Janice. Thanks for the warm welcome!
Another one I couldn't get through was The Poison That Fascinates by Jennifer Clement. I loved the title and it seemed like it would be an engaging read, but alas, alack I didn't find it to be so.
While I don't believe I'm getting pickier as I get older, perhaps my patience to slog through a grueling book is waning. I don't mind reading books that hold opinions contrary to mine, that make me think till my brain hurts, that make my heart ache from joy or sorrow, etc. It's the ones that feel like a chore and don't hold my attention (bad sign if I'm contemplating the dusting I ought to be doing instead!).


Since dusting is one of my least favorite tasks, I would take that as an indicator that I should close the book and call it done. LOL!
If I'm giving up on a book, it's usually when I start asking myself, "why am I reading this?" However, the book I'm currently reading, The Gaslight Dogs, was interesting in the first half of the book. Last night, I was bored with it and thinking that I should plod through since I only have two chapters left.

Otherwise, for me the cut off is actually 150 pages, or halfway. Or when I feel like the book is an example of everything gone wrong with society, like On the Road and its fundamentally damaging view of male sexuality and hipness or perhaps Little Women and its childish view of how great it is to be weak and to just give up your dreams in order to sacrifice for others, because, you know, you're a woman.
It's also around that page when a really good book gets to the point where I cannot put it down.



The time bit is a really good way to look at it and may help make the decision to stop reading less painful!

...and then I grew up.
There are WAY too many books and WAAAAAY too little time to waste on something you're not enjoying.
In fact, I learned an important tip that may help some people:
Abandon a book earlier rather than later.
If you keep reading an iffy book, adding "just a few more pages" to see if it will eventually take off, you may find yourself too deep into the page count to easily let go ("Well, I've come this far...")
I can often tell whether a particular book/writer is going to be for me in just the first few pages...
...and sometimes in the first few paragraphs.
I have rarely, RARELY ever found a book to improve that struck me as bad to begin with.
Don't torture yourself.
Worlds await.
Todd

I gave a quick look to your Bookshelf. While we disagree about "THE PRINCESS BRIDE" and the relative merit of book vs. movie (I'd rate the book higher)...
...your "output" for 2011 alone is intimidatingly impressive...
...and there are still 3.5 months left in the year!
Todd


I gave a quick look to your Bookshelf. While we disagree about "THE PRINCESS BRIDE" and the relative merit of book vs. movie (I'd rate the book higher)...
...your "output" for ..."
Sorry to disappoint you about The Princess Bride. We'll have to agree to disagree. :)
I started out the year relatively low in expectations. I knew I would read 6 books for my book club so I doubled that to make my goal to 12. I had to adjust my goal a few times.
I generally give books 100 pages to excite me. If they fail to do so, I stop trying and pass them on to used book stores, the library, or people I think might get more out of them than I did.
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It cetainly makes me hesitate before spending more of my hard earned money on any more of their books.