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Favorite moment from Pride & Prejudice?
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I also like the exchange at Rosings when Lizzy plays, and Darcy talks to her - it's the first 'intimacy' between them I think.
Later on, there is a wonderful exchange of glances when Lizzy has protected Georgiana from Miss Bingley's sarcastic reference to George Wickham (intending to get at Lizzy - but oh, it backfires!), and Lizzy rushes back to the piano. As Georgiana starts to play again, Lizzy and Darcy exchange glances, and Darcy's gratitude for what she's just done for her sister warms in his eyes. Lovely!
As for Mrs Bennet, I love the remark she makes when she hears about Darcy proposing to Lizzy along the lines of 'I hope he will not mind my having disliked him so very much'!!! Also priceless. :)


https://mollands.net/etexts/prideandp...
"Miss Bingley," said he, "has given me credit for more than can be. The wisest and the best of men, nay, the wisest and best of their actions, may be rendered ridiculous by a person whose first object in life is a joke."
"Certainly," replied Elizabeth -- "there are such people, but I hope I am not one of them. I hope I never ridicule what is wise or good. Follies and nonsense, whims and inconsistencies do divert me, I own, and I laugh at them whenever I can. -- But these, I suppose, are precisely what you are without."
"Perhaps that is not possible for any one. But it has been the study of my life to avoid those weaknesses which often expose a strong understanding to ridicule."
"Such as vanity and pride."
"Yes, vanity is a weakness indeed. But pride -- where there is a real superiority of mind, pride will be always under good regulation."
Elizabeth turned away to hide a smile.
The two things that I want to emphasize here:
1) the phrase: I hope I never ridicule what is wise or good. Follies and nonsense, whims and inconsistencies do divert me, I own, and I laugh at them whenever I can..
2) the second is that last moment when Elizabeth has to turn around to hide her smiling at what Mr. Darcy says about his intelligence preventing him from being "too proud". Which is just not true (in general and even about Mr. Darcy himself): he makes such a statement (such a false statement that Mr. Darcy, who is so intelligent and whose pride is under such good control, should have at least qualified it the moment he finished saying it), so earnestly (so unironically), that it is difficult not to at the very least, smile at.


Omg yes! This is my favorite as well!


I also love when Darcy tells Caroline Bingley he is think about the fine eyes of Elizabeth. She tries so hard to gets his attention but he is not interested!


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Indeed, and then she baits him with it at Pemberley, and says how astonished she was to hear that Miss Elizabeth Bennet was considered attractive ....to be crushed by Mr Darcy saying that he has now long considered her to be one of the most beautiful women he knows....
Ooh, and ouch ouch ouch, Caroline Bingley!!

I love Mr. Bennet's wit even if he is sometimes cruel and neglectful of his family. I especially enjoy his quip regarding Elizabeth marrying Mr. Collins. Her mother won't speak to her again if she doesn't marry Collins but he won't speak to her again if she does.

But of course, humorous as it is, and though we know Lizzie 'should' never have married Mr Collins, it's all very well for her father to say what he does, but then he won't be around (ie, he'll be dead by then) to see what happens to his widow and daughters if none of them marry men who can provide for them....
And I do feel for Mrs Bennet bewailing that one day Mr and Mrs Collins will be living in her own home, using her china, etc etc.
Of course, the obvious daughter for Mr Collins to have married was Mary....!!



Seriously it's hard to pick. But first one I thought of when I saw the thread, honestly, was Lizzie and Lady Catherine.


I agree that Mrs. Bennet's bemoaning the prospect of the Collinses moving into her house is well founded - you see how it works out in Sense and Sensibility when the Dashwood ladies are ousted.
One of my favorite moments, that never makes it into film versions, is when Elizabeth tells Mrs. Bennet that she's engaged to Darcy. "Ten thousand a year! Jane's is nothing to it!" "I shall go distracted!" How he has to forgive her for having disliked him so much before.

I think its Let Me Know. I try hard to deduce these based on the context, but there are so many acronyms (or texting shorthand, if you prefer) that I am frequently left scratching my head! :)

Yes! Mrs. Bennet learning of Elizabeth's understanding with Darcy is hilarious. If you go back and read the text, one of the things she says is "Can it be true?". I love this line. Like Elizabeth would go running around lying about an engagement to a man that she couldn't possibly force to marry her.


What happens to the Second Mrs Dashwood and her daughters is dreadful, and shows how completely it all depended on the moral character of her step-zone (zero backbone) and that of her step-daughter-in-law (no morality at all....)


He starts off well "Allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you!" and then it derails from there. I don't like seeing that line on t-shirts and things because it gets taken out of context. From Mr. Darcy, at that point in the novel, it's pomopus and arrogant. The proposal is all about HIM. Poor Lizzy!


Wait a minute, Wickman said some highly suspect things to someone he barely knew.
Jane Austen's works are so well crafted. The rising action. the universal themes.

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Yes, his eagerness to diss Darcy should have raised warning flags, but it simply fed into what, essentially, is Lizzie's pique at overhearing she is not handsome enough for Darcy's tastes....

I like to think I would have responded in exactly the same way, but I would probably have resorted to "I shall marry whoever I like and it's none of your damn business. If you have a problem with that, you'll have to talk to Darcy about it".
Of course, that is what Lizzie means, but she says it all so elegantly and never forgets to say 'your ladyship'! Whereas Lady C can only stamp off, going "I'm leaving, and I'm not even going to say goodbye, so there!"
That scene gives me the same feeling that I get towards the end of Labyrinth when Sarah looks the Goblin King in the eye and says "You have no power over me". Yeah!



WHEN DARCY actually smiles a little...

Runner up: Mr. Darcy's first proposal,..."
ha, great answer.