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Jun 19, 2012 03:13AM

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23. welcome! :D and the seniors aren't that bad once you get to know them. they only seem intimidating right know because they are older and unknown. the first step is always the hardest one. ;D


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Okay so it was break one and he was off sitting by himself, kind of just looking towards where my group sits and then friends (the idiots they are) decided it would be fun to try and drag me over there telling me that he really wanted to meet in ftf and then i freaked out...got all nervous and started shaking all because he actually wanted to talk to me of all people. It was in credibly horrible
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Im sorry for letting you all down...try again tomorrow? Oh and i dont know what to tell him now.
29. aww. it's okay. why wouldn't he want to talk to you? you are a wonderful person. do it when you feel comfortable not pressured. tell him the truth.


35 - Yes, I think it is something everyone's friends do occassionally. My friends know that if they are planning on doing anything like that, they have to be prepared for me to be all go from confident and loud to quiet and shy. I just can't seem to be confident in front of people. :(

38. it's because you don't know the others so well, and they don't know you and your personality like your friends do. you become self-conscience because you don't know what they're like and how they act.

40. if you believe you can do it - you can. if you think you can't - you won't. believe in yourself as a person and the things you do. the world doesn't end if you get something wrong. you learn from your mistakes. you can only be yourself 'cause everybody else is already taken. :D
42. hmm..... how about, "Hello ____(you know his name right?), my name is _____. We talk together on _____." (ummm..... *thinking*)
"I would love to see you drawings in person if you don't mind." smile.
"Sorry I haven't come sooner, but there have been others things I've needed to take care of." -confidence, strength, belief. it doesn't tell him why you haven't talked to him, but is also not a lie. it is the truth without revealing everything. he's probably as nervous as you are, so just be yourself.
i don't know how you act and the certain way you do things, but this could be a guide line to help. :D.......
"(go on from here, depending on his response)......."
"I would love to see you drawings in person if you don't mind." smile.
"Sorry I haven't come sooner, but there have been others things I've needed to take care of." -confidence, strength, belief. it doesn't tell him why you haven't talked to him, but is also not a lie. it is the truth without revealing everything. he's probably as nervous as you are, so just be yourself.
i don't know how you act and the certain way you do things, but this could be a guide line to help. :D.......
"(go on from here, depending on his response)......."


47. @ Bree. yeah, i know, that quote is one of my favourite too. :D
@ Bron. do whatever feels right at the time - there is no right or wrong answer. it only takes a few seconds of gut and nervousness to go up to him, and then the rest is easy. don't let you conscience overpower you. remember to smile, though. let the smile work it's charm. ;D you'll become a stronger woman once you do it. believe in yourself because we sure do believe in you. =D
@ Bron. do whatever feels right at the time - there is no right or wrong answer. it only takes a few seconds of gut and nervousness to go up to him, and then the rest is easy. don't let you conscience overpower you. remember to smile, though. let the smile work it's charm. ;D you'll become a stronger woman once you do it. believe in yourself because we sure do believe in you. =D
49. you go girl! the more you say to yourself you can do it, you will. don't talk yourself out of it. YOU CAN DO IT!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!! the more you say it over, the more it becomes real. :D
56 - Well... Good luck. I'll take the advice that I gave a friend today - 'Where there's a will, there's a way.'

69.. I didn't post twice (just deleted it now) because someone else deleted theirs which is annoying.
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