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Daughter #1 was not into Barbie, Daughter #2 was. And by the time her girl cousins had unloaded their old Barbies and sent them to her, we had something like 75 of them in the house. The girls can repeat my anti-Barbie rants ad nauseum.
Some of my ranting may have paid off, as both girls (so far) seem well-adjusted and not in need of a ton of male validation. Whew.

The above Legos for girls (or children lacking all imagination) are awful. I don't like them now, and I wouldn't have liked them as a kid. We had the normal, regular Legos as kids and we loved them. When my nephew was growing up, Legos had gotten super fancy and you would buy kits that made fighter jets and such. Which I also didn't approve of too much because again, you're limiting the kid's imagination to a specific thing. The less you limit imagination, the better.


I tried to provide her with a variety that she could play with and use depending on her mood.
As long as she wasn't hurting anyone or herself I was O.K with it.
Most of her games were creative and imaginative with or without toys and we encouraged her individuality.



He has a lot of LEGO kits that build specific things, but they almost always end up getting jumbled together so he can make his own creations. We keep the instructions and occasionally he'll hunt down the correct pieces and construct them again.

I'm not a teacher or an expert on child development, so I don't have the proper terminology, but...
The point of Legos - and block type toys in general - is to get kids using their imagination. Blocks can be turned into buildings or spaceships or mountains or monsters. They are designed for open ended play. Even if you buy one of the sets that is supposed to have the right pieces to make a pirate ship or whatever, they can still be used to make other things. And if these become the de facto girls' legos, the implication will be that all the other fun sets are boys' legos. A girl who wants to play with an awesome regular Lego set may be told that those are boys' toys.
Look at the toys in that picture.
Those blocks can obviously only be used to make one thing. No imagination necessary. Just follow instructions.
Then add to that the choices that girls have - again, as it says in the article: outdoor bakery, salon, house, vet's office. Such limited scope.
Sure, your kids will have more to deal with as they get older, but that doesn't mean they have to be limited now.
Compare that to this awesome ad: