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Lynnm | 3025 comments I started to do some research on the book, but sadly, there were too many spoilers so I stopped.

But I did read part of this critical essay that I thought you all might be interested in: Susan Fraiman, "The Mill on the Floss, the Critics, and the Bildungsroman," Publications of the Modern Language Association of America, January 1993.

Fraiman looks at another critic - Nina Auerbach - in 1975 who explores Maggie's character, and talks about the "demonism" in Maggie: "Auerbach cataloged not Maggie's weaknesses but her power to terrorize: kills rabbits ... mutilates dolls..." (137). (Some of her examples would be spoilers so I took them out). Fraiman also talks about how Auerbach's assertions "oddly" construct Maggie as somehow "evil" and give a type of Gothic interpretation to the novel (138).

Fraiman says that beginning in the late 70s into the 80s, feminists began to look at Maggie's character in a different way. Fraiman herself says that Maggie "is dominated at every turn" (138).


Silver I really enjoyed the domestic scene between Mr. and Mrs Glegg, in many ways they seemed almost like a modern couple. Mrs. Glegg certainly gives the impression of being the one to wear the pants in the relationship particuarly with the way in which she is given the liberal use of her own finances. She seemed to have a lot more influence and power within the domestic sphere than one would typically expect for the time period. Though of course most women did not have husbands that were so willing to allow thier wives to have independent control over thier own money.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments Oh yes, Tom loves Maggie and Maggie loves Tom but that doesn't prevent problems arising, as in many families.

Tulliver's expectations were those of any Victorian father who would look after his son's prospects and not his daughter's. Also, he did not want his son to compete with him and seek to take over the mill, so saw a different profession as preferable to this. In this, he was running counter to the thinking of his age when most fathers expected their eldest sons to inherit their business.


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Kris | 19 comments Silver wrote: "One thing I wanted to mention which I find curious about Tom's behavior, is the fact that while on the one hand spouts this very unforgiving sense of justice which he is quick to impose upon others..."

I think Tom's behavior towards animals is a reflection of his own personal view of justice that has been mentioned earlier.

If the animal doesn't follow Tom's expectations--like Yap not chasing the water-rat and, by acting 'un-dog-like', embarassing him in front of Bob--that animal deserves to be punished just like he would punish another person.


Silver Kris wrote: "Silver wrote: "One thing I wanted to mention which I find curious about Tom's behavior, is the fact that while on the one hand spouts this very unforgiving sense of justice which he is quick to imp..."

Though when they were fishing, he had to reassure Maggie that the worm did not feel any pain when he put it on the hook, but he reflected to himself that in his opinion, it didn't really matter if it did.

There was also a reference to him liking to throw stones at the animals on Pullet's farm when they went to visit there.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments It is significant that Eliot brings up the question of cruelty towards animals because this was a great philosophical question of her time. In the 18th century David Hume argued that human intelligence and animal intelligence functioned in the same way. He said that “we should be bound by the laws of humanity to give gentle usage to those creatures”. It was not a matter of mere justice. It is not, Hume said, “the cautious, jealous virtue of justice” but humanity. Hume led to Bentham and Eliot was a great admirer of Bentham and an editor of The Westminster Review, which he founded. More than anyone else it was Bentham and his philosophy and active persistence that resulted in a changed attitude towards animals. “The question” said Bentham in his Introduction to the Principles of Morals and Legislation, “is not, can they reason? Nor, can they talk? But, can they suffer?”

Prior to these thoughts about animal welfare, Victorians had taken the biblical standpoint that man had 'dominion' over animals and was therefore superior to them. Tom is reflecting that 'old fashioned' view.

In 1849 the Cruelty to Animals Act imposed forfeiture and penalties for the ill-treatment of animals. This law, became the foundation of future legislation in England and the model for the common law of other countries.


Lynnm | 3025 comments Silver wrote: "I really enjoyed the domestic scene between Mr. and Mrs Glegg, in many ways they seemed almost like a modern couple. Mrs. Glegg certainly gives the impression of being the one to wear the pants in ..."

I liked that scene as well. I've been reading ahead so I'm afraid to comment too much because I can't remember if what I'm thinking of is in the first book or the second.

But anyway, I was surprised that it was her 500 pounds to control. I thought generally that woman gave up the rights to their wealth when they married, and their financial property automatically became their husband's property.


Lynnm | 3025 comments MadgeUK wrote: "It is significant that Eliot brings up the question of cruelty towards animals because this was a great philosophical question of her time. In the 18th century David Hume argued that human intelli..."

Thanks for the information, Madge. I find the intellectual reasonings, philosophies, and societies in the 19th century to be fascinating. People at that time tried to understand issues from all perspectives, and advanced knowledge was highly respected.


Silver Lynnm wrote: "But anyway, I was surprised that it was her 500 pounds to control. I thought generally that woman gave up the rights to their wealth when they married, and their financial property automatically became their husband's property.

Yes I was surprised about that as well. Though it was my impression that her husband is the one that allowed her to have control over the money, so that if he had wanted he could have had all control over it. So her only rights to it were her husbands generosity in allowing her to have those rights.


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Liz wrote: "I think I will join you in this read--I'm not sure what happened to the other group I was in, I loved Silas Marner and haven't read Mill on the Floss."

Silas Marner is my favorite of Elliot.


Georgie | 107 comments So I wonder if there is a link between Maggie being likened to all manner of animals - ponies, puppies etc and Tom's desire to master her and in turn his cruelty towards her.
In chapter nine the narrator speaks of Tom's 'desire for mastery over the inferior animals wild and domestic, including cockchafers, neighbours' dogs, and small sisters' so it's interesting he lumps poor Maggie in with the animals. It somehow makes up for his lack of mental alacrity perhaps.
The Brontes were also big on cruelty against animals - particularly in Agnes Grey where the little boy goes nesting.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments Yes, I was trying to remember the Bronte refs Georgie, thanks. In Jane Eyre too, her boy cousin is cruel to an animal I think...


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Kris | 19 comments There was another part of Tom's and Maggie's relationship that struck me. In a couple places in Book I Maggie, Tom, and I think even Mr. Tulliver comment that Tom and Maggie will live together when they grow up and Maggie will keep Tom's house.

I can see why a boy like Tom might not be thinking about a future wife (like most boys his age I'm sure his response would be 'girls! Yuk!') and I can even see the younger sister thinking that her adored older brother is the only man she would need.

What surprised me was that Mr. Tulliver would also imply that Maggie would remain a spinster. Was he thinking that no man out there would be good enough for 'his little wench'? Or was he thinking that because he was allowing her to be a bit wilder/freer than most people approved, he was making her a poor match for any potential husband?

The other part of it that struck me is that Mr. Tulliver took the time to warn Mrs. Moss not to let her daughters kling to their brothers as they get older, but to look for good matches.

It almost feels backwards to me--shouldn't he be more concerned with Maggie's future and how she will make it in the world?


Silver Kris wrote: "There was another part of Tom's and Maggie's relationship that struck me. In a couple places in Book I Maggie, Tom, and I think even Mr. Tulliver comment that Tom and Maggie will live together when..."

That is what I had been trying to say from the start. That it just did not seem like a good plan to me that Mr. Tulliver is going on the assumption that Maggie will be solely dependent upon her brother. For he himself ought to know well enough that odds are Tom will eventually marry, and that might make things difficult for Maggie.

I think perhaps his presumption the Maggie will remain a spinster might in part have to do with he himself not wanting to let her go. He does not want to think about her being married off because he wants to keep her with him. And perhaps like many fathers he does not want to really think about the idea of his little daughter being grown up. I think he does have this idea of her simply staying with him to the end of his own days.

The advice in which he does give to Mrs. Moss certainly does seem to be ironic, and hypocritical, but than I think it is often the case that the faults one sees in others they are often blind to in themselves or they convince themselves that their own situations are different. Or perhaps he recognizes that his treatment towards Maggie is a mistake, and yet he cannot bring himself to correct it in himself, but wants to warn his sister not to make the same mistake he has made with his own child.


Silver BunWat wrote: Secondly even if she could be "fixed", its not a father's job to educate a daughter that's the mother's job. His input is limited to telling her to mind her mother. Its up to her mother to teach her to sew and make good pastry and sit nicely on a stool and speak softly. If her mother can't do it, well her father certainly can't step in. That would be upending the order of things.
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But even if her father was not in a position to try and prepare her to be a good wife as it were, he does encourage within her behavior which he himself admits is likely to be harmful to her in the future.

It may not be his place to teach her exepcted domestic duties, but when she does misbehave or act as a way not considered proper for a girl, he pets her for it and endearingly calls her his "little wench" and laughs about it.

And while supporting and loving his daughter, and accepting he for how she is, might seem to be an endearing trait in her father, considering the time in which they live in, it can set her up for a downfall in the future and leave her in a very uncertain and perilous position.


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Carol (goodreadscomcarolann) BunWat wrote: "I think that to some extent the attitude both of the Tullivers take about Maggie is that they love her, but its a great pity she's defective. Much as they would respond if she was handicapped in some way ..."

I agree. Think of it as someone today who has severe depression or Schizophrenia. Back then she could have been admitted to an asylum, but what loving family would do that? As an adult she would live with her parents until their demise and then the responsibility for her care would go to the oldest son.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments Defective??! Admitted to an asylum because she was a tomboy?! Maggie is just a hoyden and not very pretty, there is no indication that she was mentally ill - on the contrary she is very quick witted and brighter than her brother.

Keeping a girl at home was quite a common thing for parents to do in Victorian times - they were in lieu of a 'pension'. Who else would look after them in their old age. Mr Tulliver didn't want Tom to oust him from the Mill before he was ready but he and Mrs Tulliver know that they cannot rely on a son, or a son's wife, for tender care in their old age.


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Silver MadgeUK wrote: "Defective??! Admitted to an asylum because she was a tomboy?! Maggie is just a hoyden and not very pretty, there is no indication that she was mentally ill - on the contrary she is very quick witt..."

While I agree with you that Maggie is by no stretch mentally ill nor do I think there are any grounds upon which one would consider putting her in an asylum I would like to point out that intelligence is not necessarily proof of sanity/mental stablity.


Georgie | 107 comments I agree Madge - I think the more intelligent the more likely there is for mental problems. I've always said I'd like to be dumb and happy rather than a tortured genius.


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Lynnm | 3025 comments My goodness. Maggie mentally ill? Committed to an asylum?

As others have said, she is a tomboy, she is independent, and that does upset the social order of the day. Unruly and ungovernable, yes; mentally ill, no.

Personally, I don't think she is unruly or ungovernable. She's just a spirited young girl, not much different than millions of other young girls throughout the ages.

There are numerous examples of spirited young ladies in literature from the 18th and 19th century. Maggie is one of many.

I like Maggie. She's very sensitive and wears her emotions on her sleeve, and willing to put her heart out there.

As for why her father isn't pushing marriage on her, is one, she's very (very!) young at this point in the novel. And two, as Madge and BunWat wrote, this isn't unprecedented. It is the wife's not father's role to get young ladies ready for future life/marriage (which Mrs. Tulliver tries to do unsuccessfully) and many women at that time didn't get married and stayed at home.


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Carol (goodreadscomcarolann) I was not saying that Maggie was mentally ill but that others viewed her behavior something similar to that. Her behavior was atypical -- how much time past before she realized that she forgot to feed the rabbits before they died? I think that she is very intelligent girl but definitely not your average girl. Because she's very different, I think it limits her chances of marrying and raising a family like other girls.


Silver In a way I think it is quite ironic how others view her as being "independent" becasue in fact while it is true her behavior is very unconventional and her intelligence and love for learning goes agasint what was exepcted of girls. So while in some ways she does have very much her own mind, yet on the other hand emotionally she is in fact very dependent upon the approval of others. She is marked by a very passionate and deep need to be loved and not just by her brother, though perhaps her need for his love and approval is greater than it is for other people. But she cannot in fact stand the thought of being criticized by anyone even though she acts in a way that would be seen as quite contrary.

In fact many of the things which she does, she does hoping they will win her affection by others, but unfortunately the outcome usually has the adverse affect. As in the example with cutting her hair. She was wounded by comments about her hair made by her aunts, and the fact that she did not look the way it was thought she ought, and so she cuts her own hair with the hopes of earning thier approval.

So it is often her rash efforts to try and appease others which ultimately makes her so unlike everyone else.


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Deborah (deborahkliegl) | 4617 comments Mod
I read this book a long time ago, and have been lurking because I always learn so much from the discussions. I do have a question. Do you think Maggie represents Elliot? Do you find the character and the author to be similar?


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments That was a misunderstanding.

Sorry about that folks!:)


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments Do you think Maggie represents Elliot?

Certainly Eliot had very unruly dark hair, as can be seen from her portraits. And she did have problems with her brother in later life after he broke off their relationship when she went to live with Lewes.

http://www.earlywomenmasters.net/art/...

From Wikipedia: 'The young Evans was obviously intelligent and a voracious reader. Because she was not considered physically beautiful, and thus not thought to have much chance of marriage, and because of her intelligence, her father invested in an education not often afforded women.'


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Deborah (deborahkliegl) | 4617 comments Mod
BunWat wrote: "I think Maggie has a lot in common with George Elliot, but I'm not sure she represents the author. Or maybe its more fair to say that she does, but she does more than that as well. The story isn'..."

I didn't think it was autobiographical but Maggie does remind me of Elliot. Love your response.


Silver Deborah wrote: I didn't think it was autobiographical but Maggie does remind me of Elliot. Love your response. ..."

I had read somewhere that this book is considered to be autobiographical. Though I am not certain if it was written with that intent or just came to be considered so later.


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Interesting. And so much for me just lurking.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments Great observations Bunwat.

In Maggie's case it seems to me its going to be a particularly hard road for her - because her family and her society so determinedly want her to be something very much other than what she is.

This was so for Eliot and a great many other women of this period so Eliot is probably writing about The Woman Question:-

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_woma...

(You are a lovely lurker Deborah:))


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Susan Margaret (susanmargaretg) Has anyone noticed that the speech of Maggie and Tom seems to be more grammatically correct than that of their elders? The children also appear to not have a distinct dialect whereas the majority of the other characters have one. I wonder if there is a reason for this?


Silver Seeuuder wrote: "Has anyone noticed that the speech of Maggie and Tom seems to be more grammatically correct than that of their elders? The children also appear to not have a distinct dialect whereas the majority o..."

That is interesting, I had not noticed it. It may be a sign of the children being granted a better education than their parents received.


Georgie | 107 comments Silver wrote: "Seeuuder wrote: "Has anyone noticed that the speech of Maggie and Tom seems to be more grammatically correct than that of their elders? The children also appear to not have a distinct dialect where..."

It's also asking a lot of the reader to try and decipher pages of dialect - perhaps Eliot considered this too.


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Lynnm | 3025 comments Silver wrote: "In a way I think it is quite ironic how others view her as being "independent" becasue in fact while it is true her behavior is very unconventional and her intelligence and love for learning goes a..."

Silver, you make a great point.

But for her age, I think she has an independent streak. It might not be consistent, but it is there. She loves Tom, as many younger children look up to their older siblings. (As the youngest in my family, I consider myself to be independent, but that didn't stop me from shadowing my older brother every minute when we were younger.)

But at the same time, she ran away from home, she cut her hair, etc. Maybe we might call it impulsive behavior rather than independence? But either way, she marches to the beat of her own drums.


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Lynnm | 3025 comments Seeuuder wrote: "Has anyone noticed that the speech of Maggie and Tom seems to be more grammatically correct than that of their elders? The children also appear to not have a distinct dialect whereas the majority o..."

Interesting point. I also didn't notice it.

My first reaction is that they have a wider field of acquaintances than their parents. They are off at school where they go beyond their parent's circle. (Much like children of immigrants here in the U.S. who speak English fluently after being at school for only a short time, while their parents are still struggling with the language).


Lynnm | 3025 comments BunWat wrote: "In that same section Mr. Glegg says "Did ever anybody hear the like 'i this parish? A woman, with everything provided for her, and allowed to keep her own money the same as if it was settled on her..."

In other words, Mr Glegg actually has legal control of Mrs Glegg's money, but he 'allows' her to decide what to do with it. Probably because she would nag him to death and play the martyr card at every possible opportunity if he didn't. More than one way to skin a cat. "


True.

Which also is an amusing example (or sad, whichever way you want to look at it) of how people who aren't treated equally in society need to get that equality. The party being treated in an inferior manner has to "nag" and fight their way into a position of equality, and the party who has the power has to give away some of that power in order to achieve equality.


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Deborah (deborahkliegl) | 4617 comments Mod
I looked up this work in the Bloomsbury guide to women's literature just to see. Too many spoilers to put it all here, but the gist was this. Maggie is forced to internalize all her intellectual and spiritual energies. Many women have identified with eliots semi-autobiographical portrayal of Maggie. Simone de Beauvoir once wrote that this novel seemed to translate her spiritual exile into words.

Now I have to stop lurking because I need to complete my readings which are not yet started. And I thought lurking on this one would help me keep on track.


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Silver Lynnm wrote: "But at the same time, she ran away from home, she cut her hair, etc. Maybe we might call it impulsive behavior rather than independence? But either way, she marches to the beat of her own drums...."

She is definitely impulsive, but it just seems to me that a lot of her behavior which makes her appear to be independent, she herself is doing not for the sake of being different, or because she wants to be different, but in fact because she is attempting to conform to the expectations of others. Unfortunately her efforts just always have the exact opposite effect.

I think she really does want to be a Lucy, she just does not know how, in addition to the fact she cannot control certain aspects of her physical appearance which are scorned by others. She has a great admiration for Lucy. She does not look down upon Lucy for being so "perfect" and conventional, and I think this reflects her own inner desires.


Lynnm | 3025 comments Silver wrote: "Lynnm wrote: "But at the same time, she ran away from home, she cut her hair, etc. Maybe we might call it impulsive behavior rather than independence? But either way, she marches to the beat of her..."

Disagree. (Sorrrrry.) I don't think she wants to be like Lucy at all. She wants to be herself and doesn't know how without upsetting everyone. Maggie has dreams for herself.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments It often seems to me that Victorian children were older for their years than modern children, who, in general, do not have any responsibilities or chores and whose parents expect them to behave like little adults. Maggie's nine years might be translated as 13 today.


Educating Drew (educatingdrew) MadgeUK wrote: "One thing I wanted to mention which I find curious about Tom's behavior...

Eliot seems to be setting Tom up as a typical, spoilt, Victorian male. She had problems with her own brother, so perhaps ..."


I tell you, I'm so over Tom I just want to give him a good walloping.


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments I tell you, I'm so over Tom I just want to give him a good walloping.

A very Victorian response!! :)


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MadgeUK | 5213 comments You must have well behaved children around your way Bunwat - those I see are very emotional indeed and often out of control in a way which earlier generations of parents would not have permitted. 'Being seen and not heard' was a Victorian adage for children. Severely beating children and tying them down to beds or chair were common methods of punishment in Victorian times.

http://www.ancestryaid.co.uk/boards/f...

Victorian children like Maggie and Tom would have been expected to help with various chores around the house and the Mill but I find that children today are rarely expected to help their parents and instead lead a very carefree life. This was a period when children were working down mines and in factories. In the countryside they were employed as bird scarers and to pick up stones as well as generally helping with the harvest.


Silver MadgeUK wrote: "You must have well behaved children around your way Bunwat - those I see are very emotional indeed and often out of control in a way which earlier generations of parents would not have permitted. '..."

I have to agree with you there. Hitting, pushing, throwing things hardly seems like unusual behavior for children.

And what you say about children not being expected to have as many responsibilities now as in former times reminds me of when my parents were babysitting my nieces (Though they are younger than Maggie and Tom) my mom called them lazy because she went out into the backyard to pick some weeds, thinking they would help her, and she was talking about how when she went to her grandma's house she was put to work, but my nieces just wanted to plop themselves down and than make demands to be waited upon. Constantly "Would you get me that" "I want this"


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Not only different expectations, but kids today are inundated with stuff - school, sports, Internet, etc. Victorian kids had some school work at home typically or little or none if poor. Kids now learn to read usually before going to school. I remember when sports (speaking only for the U.S. now) were seasonal. Now the one sport is year round. When I was a child (geez I sound old), there were a few after school activities. Now kids are overscheduled and have little time to play.

I'm a firm believer in each person needs to have responsibilities and chores at home as well as clear expectations. I'm also a believer in boundaries and consequences for poor decisions for kids. Our kids handle a lot more "stuff" on a day to day basis than Victorian kids. I know I heard once at a seminar that we (and this was quite a while ago) are inundated with more information in one hour, than they had to deal with in their whole lifetime.


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Silver BunWat wrote: "No I don't think I have unusually well behaved children around my way. I just think the children I know are subject to a different set of expectations. The idea of being seen and not heard would ..."

While I found Maggie's utter neglect of the rabbits to strike me as being somewhat abnormal behavior, but Maggie pushing Lucy in the mud seemed fairly mild and not at all shocking or like something a child of today would never do.

Children still do get into physical alterations with each other, it is not as if children of today no longer fight with each other, or that siblings no longer push and hit one another. My nieces can get quite violent which each other, of course they get in trouble for it when they get caught, but that doesn't stop them from doing it next time they get upset with one another.


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Janice (JG) BunWat wrote: "At this point in the story Maggie is nine years old. I think it would be an extremely unusual nine year old that didn't crave the approval of others, particularly her family members. It would also..."


Here is a wonderful passage where Elliot describes the pain and anguish of childhood:

"Very trivial, perhaps, this anguish seems to weather-worn mortals who have to think of Christmas bills, dead loves, and broken friendships; but it was not less bitter to Maggie -- perhaps it was even more bitter -- than what we are fond of calling antithetically the real troubles of mature life... We have all of us sobbed so piteously, standing with tiny bare legs above our little socks, when we lost sight of our mother or nurse in some strange place; but we can no longer recall the poignancy of that moment and weep over it, as we do over the remembered sufferings of five or ten years ago. Every one of those keen moments has left its trace, and lives in us still, but such traces have blent themselves irrecoverably with the firmer texture of your youth and manhood; and so it comes that we can look on the troubles of our children with a smiling disbelief in the reality of their pain... Surely if we could recall that early bitterness, and the dim guesses, the strangely perspectiveless conception of life, that gave the bitterness its intensity, we should not pooh-pooh the griefs of our children."

It seems obvious in this passage, and in her depictions of Maggie, that Elliot actually recalls these moments clearly and acutely. The way Maggie behaves feels very familiar to me, too, growing up as a little girl who wanted only to share childish joys and discoveries, and yet instead seeming always to do the wrong thing at the wrong time. I too think that we forget these imprints with the loss of the naturelness ("perspectiveless") of childhood, as we become adults and create the structures of our lives.

As for Maggie living with Tom and keeping house for him -- I think Maggie's spinsterhood might have already been silently accepted or agreed upon by her parents because by all possible standards of the time, Maggie just isn't marriageable material. Since Maggie is already 9 years old, and since girls were married or arranged at very early ages, I think the whole point had already been decided, however mutely.


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