Biracial/Mixed Race Literature discussion
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Biracial vs. Bicultural vs. Interracial - Discuss
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Hello Hannah,
I love your discussion here. I also respect how well you've made distinctions between biracial and interracial. Job well done!
Before I proceed, I'd like to make one thing clear: I totally respect the views of writers who comment. We all come from differing world views, perspectives and have a wealth of experiences, but may I please interject a few thoughts from my perspective here as a mother of a biracial daughter? I hope you don't mind me referencing your quote here:
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……. and the other is a little more internal, though still external as well (i.e. you deal on a daily or regular basis with having to choose, or not wanting to choose, or having to navigate between two sides of your family and possibly also dealing with your appearance not matching the group with which you identify, etc.).
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I know full well that you wrote this to make a valid point -- well taken by the way; however, I just wanted to let all realize that I began to write books primarily due to your statement above. I do not believe that a person who is biracial has to experience, or encounter much of what you've described here. In fact, I ensured that my daughter didn't feel the need to grapple between both races because I showered her with the culture of both. She heartily tells people that she is neither African-American nor Hispanic, but both. She doesn't have to decide which culture or ethnicity to dwell in because she has friends and family in both races and they/we interact very well together. My daughter talks and speaks with pride and shares stories of experiences with pride from both cultures.
I actually wrote an article about this. It's posted on my website (see tab labeled Blog) if you are interested in reading it. Someone once said to me that my daughter would have psychological issues because she's biracial. Well, she doesn't. She self-identifies in a healthy way. As a mother and author, it's important for me to ensure children love who they are, find goodness in themselves and everyone they encounter. They must have pride and realize the importance of their talents and self-worth (affirmation and self-fulfilling prophecy). No one should tell a biracial child, or any child for that matter, which ethnic group they are a part of, and biracial children shouldn't feel the need to choose. If they vacillate between the two, that's fine. I want my child to tell others who she is, and not let others decide for her, and she does that very well.
In fact, biracial children will share the same everyday "run of the mill" experiences any child experiences. It's usually adults and ignorance that point out anything else.
I suppose since my parents raised my siblings and me with colossal self-esteem, we raised our children the same way whether monoracial or biracial to have ample love for self. When issues, rudeness, meanness ever comes into play, they realize it isn’t them who has the problem, but perhaps the perpetraror.
Thank you for letting me share my thoughts here. Deep-seated empowerment is key.
Cherrye S. Vasquez, Ph.D.
Website: http://www.BooksThatSow.com
I love your discussion here. I also respect how well you've made distinctions between biracial and interracial. Job well done!
Before I proceed, I'd like to make one thing clear: I totally respect the views of writers who comment. We all come from differing world views, perspectives and have a wealth of experiences, but may I please interject a few thoughts from my perspective here as a mother of a biracial daughter? I hope you don't mind me referencing your quote here:
Begin Quote below --
……. and the other is a little more internal, though still external as well (i.e. you deal on a daily or regular basis with having to choose, or not wanting to choose, or having to navigate between two sides of your family and possibly also dealing with your appearance not matching the group with which you identify, etc.).
End Quote here -
I know full well that you wrote this to make a valid point -- well taken by the way; however, I just wanted to let all realize that I began to write books primarily due to your statement above. I do not believe that a person who is biracial has to experience, or encounter much of what you've described here. In fact, I ensured that my daughter didn't feel the need to grapple between both races because I showered her with the culture of both. She heartily tells people that she is neither African-American nor Hispanic, but both. She doesn't have to decide which culture or ethnicity to dwell in because she has friends and family in both races and they/we interact very well together. My daughter talks and speaks with pride and shares stories of experiences with pride from both cultures.
I actually wrote an article about this. It's posted on my website (see tab labeled Blog) if you are interested in reading it. Someone once said to me that my daughter would have psychological issues because she's biracial. Well, she doesn't. She self-identifies in a healthy way. As a mother and author, it's important for me to ensure children love who they are, find goodness in themselves and everyone they encounter. They must have pride and realize the importance of their talents and self-worth (affirmation and self-fulfilling prophecy). No one should tell a biracial child, or any child for that matter, which ethnic group they are a part of, and biracial children shouldn't feel the need to choose. If they vacillate between the two, that's fine. I want my child to tell others who she is, and not let others decide for her, and she does that very well.
In fact, biracial children will share the same everyday "run of the mill" experiences any child experiences. It's usually adults and ignorance that point out anything else.
I suppose since my parents raised my siblings and me with colossal self-esteem, we raised our children the same way whether monoracial or biracial to have ample love for self. When issues, rudeness, meanness ever comes into play, they realize it isn’t them who has the problem, but perhaps the perpetraror.
Thank you for letting me share my thoughts here. Deep-seated empowerment is key.
Cherrye S. Vasquez, Ph.D.
Website: http://www.BooksThatSow.com

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For me, the distinction between "interracial" and "biracial" is exceedingly important. First, I'm just a grammar nerd and I think correct word usage is important--therefore I get annoyed when people talk about "biracial romance" or something, because they're just using the word incorrectly. "Biracial" means two races within, "interracial" means between two races. But I also make the distinction because it's important to my research and my creative work. Finally, I think it's important because the interracial experience and the biracial experience are different (no less valid, just different), because one has to do more with grappling with outside forces (i.e. you've grown up identifying comfortably and strongly with one racial or ethnic distinction and are confronted with being close to and possibly in conflict with another when dating someone from a different one if you're in an interracial relationship) and the other is a little more internal, though still external as well (i.e. you deal on a daily or regular basis with having to choose, or not wanting to choose, or having to navigate between two sides of your family and possibly also dealing with your appearance not matching the group with which you identify, etc etc).
Since postings here indicate to me that most of you are comfortable combining "biracial" and "interracial" into the same discussion, or at least the same literary category, can we discuss it? What made you suggest the books you did? How do you think the experiences are similar or dissimilar? Do you think the distinction I'm making is important, or is it detrimental?