Question #9: Identity

[Lauren]

Identity – whether in a community or a family – and the obligations that identity creates shape several decisions and actions by different characters throughout the novel. How do these obligations restrict the characters? And how do different characters balance those obligations with divergent desires and/or conflicting obligations?

[Ashley]

Most overtly, Islam limits Abdul Wahid, Mrs. Ali, and others.

The Major is painfully British and well-mannered. I mean, the guy can't bring himself to say or do anything that could POSSIBLY be considered rude. He sees his identity as very old-fashioned, in the best sense. But his politeness--which is a great virtue, for him--prohibits him from ever treating Mrs. Ali with anything less than total dignity and respect. This willingness to see the best in people, before they prove themselves idiots or racist or too American or whatever--is what makes the Major so likable. And Mrs. Ali does everything "right." But I love that everyone enters the Major's radar at the same level--they don't have to earn his respect, but they can certainly lose it.

BUT Roger pursues an identity DIFFERENT than the one the Major would have for him. It's hollow and materialistic, but the Major is SO FREAKING judgmental. Instead of seeing the vulnerablity and insecurity of his son, as he pursues all these empty goals, the Major is simply disappointed in him. So, perhaps the Major can tolerate other identities, so long as they fit his ideal of good manners and being widely read? Which means . . . Mrs. Ali isn't different from the Major at all. She's just a different race. And Muslim.