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Did anyone else think that the ending was kind of sad?
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I loved the ending. I thought it was not only real but different from other books. This is one of my favorites Nicholas Sparks' books because of the ending. It different and although it is sad. It makes sense knowing John's character.






That was my take on it!

I hated Savannah but it made the book what it is it wouldn't have worked any other way

But anyway the book end was realistic and unpredictable.



In the book I did not like what Savannah did to John while reading. It was after I finished that I began to think about it and understood why she made the choices she made. John reenlisting put a strain on the long distance relationship. Then her best friend becoming ill. She was needed by Tim and it give her life purpose and something to focus on. She loved Tim and Alan but never truly in love like she was with John. So in some sense later I felt her grief for both the love she lost in John and the love she eventually lost in her best friend and husband Tim.




I would stay loyal to him.
He would be important to me."
I completely agree with you. I would have kept my word and would have at least tried to be loyal and true to him. If my feelings had changed, I would have spoken to him and explained everything, not be suddenly married to someone else....
Heidi wrote: "Zoha wrote: "Krizza wrote: "but if u were savannah?? what would you do??? hmmm..."
I would stay loyal to him.
He would be important to me."
I completely agree with you. I would have kept my word..."
yeah, I think she should have told him she was married.
I would stay loyal to him.
He would be important to me."
I completely agree with you. I would have kept my word..."
yeah, I think she should have told him she was married.


Yes!! The ending is what made the book all of Nicholas Sparks' books have some kind of sad or unexpected ending that bring out emotion and that is what makes the book so good.

I felt an understanding with savannahs position, personally I don't know what I would've done but it was so unfair to her I am not taking sides because I feel like both of them were right and both of them were wrong but love is unpredictable and when you're lonely everything is harder, I don't feel as if she married Tim a much as out of pity but more so out of human nature and natural desire, love is complex and unexplainable its obvious that she cared more about John but looking in from her perspective its possible she also loved Tim. You can love more then one person but there is always that one, and I feel it was unfortunate but realistic the way sparks wrote this book. I completely sympathize with all three savannah, john, and tim.




Me too. I love john or should I say Channing Tatum

Me too. I'm in love with him

You sound really familiar. I loved the book and movie. I love Channing Tatum.

But in the movie..."
In the movie they show a few years later and yes. They end up together book wise no

“I finally understood what true love meant...love..."
So true so true. Loved dear john and a walk to remember.

I believe in karma and true love. If I were in a relationship I wish my true love would write me letters.
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