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age and relationships...
I have dated both older and younger men and for me it is not so much the age as the common interests. That being said, my last serious relationship was with a man 8 years older. He was always tired...:(I have a customer who is about 60yrs old and her 80yr old husband is now quite ill. She will lose him and that is a downside of marrying someone that much older.
Phil wrote: "So someday my pubies will turn gray? Weird. I hope they don't lose their curl."According to my limited research, yes.
I have a friend. We've been...close for about two years, and he's...let's just say he's over twice my age. I was talking to him on the phone today, and he was kinda snappy with me, and I was really anxious, and I just needed someone to talk to, and then he starts going on this rant about how he's busy, and I wouldn't know anything about that because I do nothing all day, and I don't have a job, and I was like, "whoa whoa whoa, buddy, I don't know where the fuck you get off patronizing me, talking to me like you're my fucking parent. You know, I just wish you were (however many number of years) younger, and then you would fucking understand what I'm going through right now, asshole."And then sometimes I just want to TALK. But he goes to bed at like, 10:30, and I'm like, "I wish you were 19. I mean, I love you because you're not, but sometimes I wish you were because then you would know how it feels to feel the need to talk on the phone for hours about absolutely nothing with the person that you care about."
Jesus. It's like....sometimes I'm his sweet girl, but then when he's busy I'm a snot-nosed whiny brat. Asshole. Sorry, I had to vent.
janine wrote: "Clark wrote: "Cannont understand some of my peers' infatuation with 20-something women, as if talking about Lady Gaga, hearing every statement intoned like a question, and watching them constantly ..."
Yeah, I know. Gross generalization to make a point.
Yeah, I know. Gross generalization to make a point.
King Dinösaur wrote: "I don't believe in chronological age.Or maybe that's just what I'm telling myself so I can continue dating a smoking hot 25-year-old? >:)"
Smoking is a bad habit.
King Dinösaur wrote: "I don't believe in chronological age.Or maybe that's just what I'm telling myself so I can continue dating a smoking hot 25-year-old? >:)"
What happened to your name change? It was cracking me up.
I was wondering about the name change, too, KD. Is this something to do with that famous Olympian contest Chelsea is thinking about entering? I saw a reference to a King Douchebag, and was wondering if they meant you. :)
King Dinösaur wrote: "What is the famous Olympian contest, Jackie?"It's part of this Best of Olympia thing sponsored by The Washington Center and The Weekly Volcano.
http://www.bestofolympia2011.com/
Chelsea Baker is considering running for it, and someone said this on her thread:
Kevin Taylor I hear King Douchebag is a pretty big deal... but Deputy Dickweed might split his votes. Go for it!
I have a yellow cat (Tiger) named Henry. He weighs a bit more than your Henry, though. He's on a diet, down to 19 pounds from 22.
HENRY! too cute... I just want to squeeze him!BearCub! whenever I see a Siamese, I think of Lady and the Tramp.
Aww, Lyzzibug, I'm sorry. What a beautiful cat!Yes! Henry would be an awesome biggest celebrity in Olympia! I'd vote for him!
KD, oh my God! Why didn't Chewbacca get an award! That's not right!
Old men check me out in my jeggings.and not the old men like I like, but the old men like, "I haven't had sex with my wife in 10 years" old men. I don't like it.
Haha! jeggings!I had something like that happen. I was walking into a convenient store and a man on a motorcycle looked like he was going to break his neck looking at me. He actually turned around and pulled into the parking lot. Then I recognized him, it was my Dad. Heehee
I know age shouldn't matter , but at a certain point it does. When there's a difference of at least 15 years you're dealing with two separate generations . Also it's just creepy to know that at that point the older one could technically chronology-wise be the younger one's parent . LOL !
Yeah but sometimes things like that just happen. My approx. 30 y/o niece was married to a guy older than her dad. It was strange for my b-i-l -- but it worked out. Unfortunately he died of cancer last year (the husband). And yes, he was of a whole different generation.
Ok, this might be innocent but...Jeremy Piven on Miley Cyrus..."I think I must be an 18-year-old girl because we got along really well," Piven told E! News while promoting his new drama I Melt With You at the Sundance Film Festival in Park City, Utah. "It was just so much fun. I had so much fun with her and we had great chemistry. It was really really weird -- we're like polar opposites."
http://www.usmagazine.com/moviestvmus...
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Yeah, I've heard rumors about the two of them--you didn't put in enough ew.ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew!
between husband #1 and husband #2 I dated someone 10 yrs older than me. It bothered him enough that he found a woman closer to his own age and I found husband #2. He did come back to tell me I was right: he should have stuck with me. He wanted me to leave husband #2 and go away with him but I'm not that kind of woman. I make vows and promises, I keep them and I loved husband #2. If he hadn't turned into a lush, I'd still be with him. My son was attracted to older women when he was younger and I mean 10 -20 yrs.older. He said they actually had something to talk about unlike women his own age. I told him he was not looking hard enough.
Double darnit. I can't keep going with the old man/underage girl comments. Why do you keep feeding me things to comment on RA?
Because he's really a teenage girl and you're actually a 67 year old man. Dirty bird, go read a Barely Legal.
RandomAnthony wrote: "Ok, this might be innocent but...Jeremy Piven on Miley Cyrus...
"I think I must be an 18-year-old girl because we got along really well," Piven told E! News while promoting his new drama I Melt ..."
I find them both distasteful, therefore they make a perfect match in my mind. Regardless of age. I hope they get married.
"I think I must be an 18-year-old girl because we got along really well," Piven told E! News while promoting his new drama I Melt ..."
I find them both distasteful, therefore they make a perfect match in my mind. Regardless of age. I hope they get married.
Stacia ~ the plucky heroine wrote: "Double darnit. I can't keep going with the old man/underage girl comments. Why do you keep feeding me things to comment on RA?"Hee. Why does your mind keep going to that place, Staciamy?











Heidi! I did a very similar thing... we referred to mine as "The Editor" because in chick lit, the editor is often the older smarmy fella that the girl goes for before she realizes her neighbor's nephew is the bee's knees.
I hung out with him for just under a year and it was weird most of the time. I was attracted to him because he was smart and funny and strong and fun, but there was also part of me that was hanging out with him because most of my friends were married and this was something that I could do that they would never do and it would make a good story. He was 20 years my senior and had kids older and younger than me (I didn't know about the one that was older until I was Facebook stalking a year ago) including a 4 year old. I was fine with all of it until I found a grey pube on me.
I have recently been hanging out with someone who turned 26 this week... I am apprehensive because I feel like maybe he's hanging out with me so he can go talk to his friends about older ladies. On the plus side, no grey pubes...