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I used to feel bad when things had been in my TBR pile for a long time but then I decided that books, in essence, are patient... waiting for the right reader to come along... and perhaps I'm just not the right reader for a particular book yet :)
My crazy organization comes once the books are read and applies mostly to the physical copies. Don't get me started on how I organize my bookshelves...! LOL

My system for picking books is pretty much the same as Stacie. I don't read more then a line of two off the back of the book. I feel often way too much information is given away. I also will pick up books from the library as well as the 500+ unread books I have at home. One other thing I try to do is to read an older book at least every couple of months. I just read a book that I've had for 15+ years! It was the Stone Diaries by Carol Shields and I loved it.

(Sigh)
I think what I really need is to be paid to read, and then be given about a 32 hour day!

not really the ideal way of picking, but it worked for me this time.


Mostly he picks a number (my to read list here in GR is numbered) and I read the book he picks by just saying a number. I've read books that way that would've collected dust otherwise and that have been major good reads.

He's made me read The Caine Mutiny, and all I can say is that I was astonished at how great it was! The thing that does help with him picking, is that he doesn't read much himself so he is completely unbiased in his choice.
Nath, I always say to Brian, if there was one thing I could change about you I would make you a reader. He tells me that when he is old and he has nothing else to do he'll start reading. He humors my reading addiction as long as I'm willing to read while he watches TV and I don't fall asleep with my book light blinding his eyes.


When I'm reading, to him it's that I'm doing nothing. :)
I've learned to live with it, he doesn't mean no harm with it, he just doesn't get it.
And I got the same response, when he's older. I think we better get that in writing.
Although I did manage to make him read The Road by McCarthy, The Long Walk by Stephen King and at the moment Pirate Latitudes by Michael Crichton. He's getting there.
His revenge? He chose a book for me this morning. The Divine Comedy by Dante. Yep, there are those days I wonder if he does it on purpose. :)
I know Brian would love many og the books I read, he would just rather watch sports in an endless manner.

I need to hold the book. Look at it for awhile and then I either put it back or I read it. Something just clicks in me and I know. Though, I HAVE been wrong. And those books were a HUGE struggle to get through.
Dawn Michelle, I can easily see why it would be bad to let hubby pick out your books! On the hand, it might get you reading a lot of different books...lol
By the way, I like your new pic! :)
By the way, I like your new pic! :)

I actually have read books the DH has recommended. Which is why I usually steer clear LOL!!!

I do that, I always try to be optimistic in thinking it might get better, but usually it doesn't.
Now I've got a system that I read about a quarter and if I still don't like it, I'm giving up. Luckily that doesn't happen very often.

I have the annoying habit of not being able to put down a book once I start it even if it is crappy. I am getting better at this though and almost came close with two bad books recently. However, I do put them to the side and then pick them up now and then and read some. Sometimes it is just the mood I'm in that can make me love or hate a book. Odd huh?


I'm the same way! I can't stop reading a book no matter how bad it is. I always feel the need to finish it because otherwise, what was the point of starting it? I have put a bad book down and come back to it later in hopes of it being better, but it usually doesn't happen...

And I find that if its a book that someone has recommended to me (especially if its one of their FAV's)I want to keep reading to TRY TRY TRY to find something redeeming about it so I don't feel stupid for saying "Thanks for the recommendation, but that book just SUCKED big time". Which, usually never happens (finding something redeeming that is!).
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I started doing it this way, in an Excel file, because just keeping one big TBR list here on GR got to be so overwhelming. Now I just keep the short list on here; makes it much easier to shuffle books around as my mood changes, without feeling guilty for ignoring something that's been sitting there for months and months in favor of newer additions.
Am I the only one who puts this much thought into my TBR? How do other people decide what to read next, and what to put off till later?