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The TMI Thread
Larry wrote: "Janine has a blog? Shouldn't we get a link?"there's a link on my profile.
After all the recent bullying and suicides of young gay people in the news, a childhood friend of my daughter produced the following PSA. His father is gay and a local theatre actor. People always talk about how parents will accept their kids when they come out, but this young man and my daughter both had fathers that came out. They had a lot to deal with in addition to the regular high school crap. They know that their father's orientation has nothing to do with their love for them. I am so proud of these kids.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlaZzk...
Ms. P, kids don't need the grief of bullying, no matter what the issue. I HATE IT! I preach standing up to bullies to my kids all the time, even if it gets physical. I'll pick up the pieces and deal with the school if need be.
Kudos to your daughter's friend. Nicely done...
Kudos to your daughter's friend. Nicely done...
Usually standing up to a bully will take care of the problem. A bully doesn't like to be bullied. However if the person is just plain mean, physicality may not even take care of the problem.
@Janine -- *wanders off to find a Berlitz Dutch course*
Larry wrote: "@Janine -- *wanders off to find a Berlitz Dutch course*"keep me updated on your progress.
I want your love and all your lover's revenge/you and me could write a bad romance whoa oh oh ohhhhJust got back from the GBLTSA Fall BALL, and it was THE JAM. I HAD SO MUCH FUN DANCING WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT A GUY WAS GOING TO COME BEHIND ME AND HUMP MY ASS, AND IF HE DID THAT MEANT I WAS DOING SOMETHING RIGHT, BUT IN REALITY THAT JUST MEANS HE'S DRUNK AND HORNY AND AN ASSHOLE.
Instead, I just enjoyed myself. HELLLSSSS YEAAHHHH.
Time to crash. Night.
Straight Alliance, Phil. They used to be called LGBTQ, but some people didn't like "queer" being included, and then some people said, "what about straight people?" so yeah. The acronym is pronounced "ja-blitza," and besides "panqueques" it's my favourite thing to say.Thanks, ms.petra! It was such a blast! And now I have an entire day of paper writing to look forward to!
Yeah, you like talking to me about music film and literature, but how do you feel about my tits?
Um...Probably somewhat firmly, yet gently, whilst standing behind you with arms holding you gently in an embrace?
Phil, why did that make me cringe?
Hey, I didn't say it was me. I was answering your question in a general sense.
Yeah, I know, but I've never understood the appeal of the from-behind hug
*backs out of the thread*
No one ever need back out of the TMI thread. Some may back in, but backing out? Heck no.
Britt-Britt wrote: "Yeah, I know, but I've never understood the appeal of the from-behind hug"It's a tit-access thing. Can't really get to them with a hug from the front. Also makes for great neck nibbling.
::quickly slides from in front of Phil::
Aw Jim, I can't reach your neck from over there. :-P
Phil wrote: "Aw Jim, I can't reach your neck from over there. :-P"I'm ok with that Phil ;-)
Barb wrote: "*skoots in front of Phil and waits*"*sets up webcam*
hands off the ficus! he will sue you for sexual harassment!
pfft, oldest excuse in the book. what are you doing between the legs of that woman? - hiding!
Britt, I was and still am overweight. I am losing weight right now but diabetes gallops through my family. ..anyway, I found that the more I was NOT looking for a guy they always seemed to find me. Even when I was carrying 80 lbs of too much weight. The "I am not available" vibe seemed to just attract them like flies to honey. Don't stay on the pill more than 3 yrs without taking a 6 month break. Diaphragns may work especially if you never gave birth. I took the pill for 10 yrs straight without a break and ended up with a deep vein thrombosis that took 9 days to melt. Use the pill for awhile then take a break. I did not smoke & never have so the doctors concluded it was using the pill so long without a break. Sex is great but it is better with some emotional connection. You do not need a male to be complete. you are a vibrant,smart,aware,precocious woman. Good Luck!
Thank you for that, Michele. You are so genuine.
Britt-Britt wrote: "Thank you for that, Michele. You are so genuine."well,thank you right back and you are genuine too.you remind me of myself way back when ..or at least the self that was buried under all the "what is appropriate behavior for daughters" prevalent in the 50's and 60's. For me, 30 was my very best year.
I think Barb is trying to tell you something, Phil.
msg 542 is why I always feel a little uncomfortable eating a banana in the office. :P
From me to my friend a couple of minutes ago: "I'm not crazy about sex. I'm crazy about what leads to sex."
Britt sees me as a perverted banana?Well, I suppose she's half right. :-P
You guys, I'm not in a good spot right now. I'm just not. I'm breaking down.This isn't good.
Okay, feeling better than I was 20 minutes ago.
I mean, I just have this thing where I think I'm disposable to everyone I know. If I'm not in their lives, if I'm in their lives - it doesn't matter to them. Sure, I'm amusing and convenient while I'm here, but if I wasn't, it wouldn't make a difference. That's why I have this take it or leave it attitude - I have to try and separate myself from people because they can leave me at any time.This could be fever talking. I dunno. I'm burning up.
Damn, Britt dont' be so hard on yourself or so quick to judge others. I promise you, if you were to quit posting on here you would be missed and we would notice your absence. I wish I could give you a hug in person (and if you knew me well you would know that is not something I would do for just anyone).I hope you feel better in every way soon!
Thank you, Alecia. I need some serious hugs.I should explain about earlier. I had a fever, and I was trying to get comfortable in bed, when my internet kept going in and out, and finally it just stayed out. So I was on the phone with customer service, with a fever, for about two hours (I have to say that my niece was very sweet. She knew auntie wasn't feeling well, and sat with her very quietly while she dealt with customer service). While I was on hold with CS, I was sending very lengthy texts to someone whom I almost lost trust in, and I was getting upset about that and everything just ugh.
Britt, I look forward to reading your posts every day and I would miss the hell out of you if you were to simply disappear. i would send you messages saying "Where the hell are you and why aren't you posting?" I look forward to reading another warrior woman. You are intelligent, articulate,passionate,you have this wonderful future spread out ahead of you and I can't wait to see what you do with it. Hang in there my friend...If I can see the bright side of life with all my daily migraines, so can you...live each day fully even when you feel like shit.
Yay! Petra is back! I was missing you!!!!!!!!!!
I missed you! but I had a fun time with my girl and 3 nephews.
Hi Britt, hope you feel better soon. I miss your posts. and your wit.
One of my classmates was lying on the floor, and it was hard not to stare at the bulge in his pants.
So I had a crush on one of my close friends. I no longer have a crush on one of my close friends because he didn't want me, and it was thought that he didn't find me sexually attractive. Now I hear from a mutual close friend that he said that he wasn't lying when he told me that he just didn't want to be attached to anyone, and that if I wasn't a virgin, he'd have sex with me.I know that's not a compliment, but a boy has never said anything remotely close about me and sex in the same sentence. It doesn't make me feel any better about myself, but....hmmm
How old is this guy? Who says that? That's a weird thing for a guy to say.
See, that seems really weird to me. Guys, when you were 20, would you turn down sex with someone just because they were a virgin?
You must be shitting me... Hopefully she fulfilled the prophecy of being voted “most likely to be found dead in her hotel room” during senior year.
Even I have my limits.