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Demons never turned my crank. You'd think a lot of folks would've picked up on it when the Exorcism of Emily Rose and all those exorcism movies were rolling out a few yrs back.
I want to see more m/m similar in theme/feel of 1408. Or Rose Red. Haunted house. Don't screw the ghost; don't become friends with the ghost, FGS. SURVIVE the ghost. I'd be all over that.

Oco wrote: "Totally type-o, *lol* I stared at the word for a bit, thinking that corporeal was bodies and all, and then said, 'fuck it'. Promise I wouldn't do that for a story to be published. :D
But it is funny - I picture Vic scolding people while he is astral projecting. (GhosTV)
With m/m, one can start at an equal baseline and examine the kink/power dynamics without all the baggage. A big old pretend game, frankly.
That - starting at an equal baseline without baggage - is one of my favorite things about M/M.

Ew. I don't want one as romantic hero. I want one (thousand) to try to eat my heroes and not in a fun way, either. LOL.
Dawn of the Dead...with smut. REAL smut. Not just a few flashes of T&A to give the teen boys their jollies.

Ain't that the truth. But also gives you a lot of latitude to play without ever actually leaving kink altogether, which is cool."
Including dubcon! You're just fighting an uphill battle trying to make that distinction, huh?

Nope, no can do. I've been conditioned by 30yrs of zombie annihilation. No way could I make a hero out of one. :-)

Oh, I surrendered that field a looooooooooong time ago. At first I was horrified when people labelled/tagged Spoils as BDSM (slavery as cultural convention, NOT a choice) and then there's the not-so-little matter of BDSM requiring consent (Micah is in no mental state to objectively consent to anything)...
Then, readers started yelling at me. So I tried drawing a line between BDSM and kink, but that didn't wash either. So I just gave up.
Fine, says I, I write BDSM. Here's the next story. Rock on.
;-D

N..."
Zombie werewolves -- Buy One Phobia Get One Free! :D

That, Kari, is a big one. And I have to say that I don't blame readers for wanting to know which one they are getting.
Dubcon, noncon, slavery, all are what I call writing/reading the fantasy of BDSM. I prefer it to actual BDSM stories, of which I like few. Even so, I sympathize with a reader who wants safe/sane/consensual and mistakenly picks up a book that is more about the fantasy that SSN BDSM tries to capture.
Have you read Thom Lane's Dark Heart series? It's brilliant (IMO, especially the first one), he world builds wonderfully, his writing is subtle and rich. But it's a slavery society, about slaves who by and large love being 'abused' by their masters... pure fantasy. And man, has he gotten slammed on GR for that. Lots of people griping about how it's not BDSM (I know you understand from personal experience). I get annoyed as a reader, because it artificially depresses ratings and I have trouble finding the good writing when people's ratings are politically driven.
I'm ranting, I know. In part I blame publishing (though with the understanding that they have to draw lines somewhere) for lumping these two separate types of stories into one description. As far as I'm aware (and I looked), Lane NEVER described his books as BDSM. But the publisher (Loose ID) did. And that's what people are punishing his stories for -- the publisher's description.
Rant over.
No, no Josh, thank YOU for keeping me happy with my reading. You've got so many books I don't have yet, and it's bugging me just because so many of them are books I want to read. Not being able to finish Dangerous Ground or I Spy are two of my biggest grrrrs. lol. Now that I've got a Kindle, yep, I just made myself very happy last night... and figured I'd make you happy in the process.
btw, I think "Thank you very kindle" should be our new catch phrase. I like it! ;-)
btw, I think "Thank you very kindle" should be our new catch phrase. I like it! ;-)

Dubcon, noncon, slavery, all are what I call writing/reading the fantasy of ..."
Yes, I ADORED Thom Lane's Aramanth (sp?) stories and if he got his ass handed to him over his non-standard BDSM (I prefer kink, FWIW), I can definitely relate, you bet.
I wouldn't (and don't) blame LI for the tagging/labelling, though. LI, I think, is just responding to what readers by and large identify these fringe sorts of books as. My gloriously smutty but no less dubcon I Omega was just voted #2 BDSM for the MMR Group's Member Choice awards last weekend. That pretty much says it all as far as what readers identify my work as.
If anything, my books (and I'm sure a good many of my readers would agree) are a primer on how NOT to do BDSM. I get graded down for that sometimes, but them's the breaks. When I can't take the heat anymore, I'll get out of dubcon. Until then...For every reader you find who protests that I don't write BDSM, you'll find ten more who swear I do. Sometimes, I get clobbered. But so far, it's still worth it.
I thought IO was a great twist from traditional BDSM. And sometimes I like it when an author takes something we all know in our minds and turns it around. Same was true with Collared too. A nice twist.
lol, or maybe I've just been reading/writing too much fanfic so that I like twists on the ordinary. It makes it extraordinary, in my opinion.
lol, or maybe I've just been reading/writing too much fanfic so that I like twists on the ordinary. It makes it extraordinary, in my opinion.

I Fell in Love with a Zombie

I own that one, Charming. Haven't read it, but I do have it on my K3.

And again, I DO sympathize with people who squick at dubcon (e.g.) wanting a way to identify it. I think it would be helpful for publishers to stop simply describing these titles as BDSM in their warnings, but to find a way to tell readers which variety they are getting. No, publishers can't break down every little thing. But what I'm saying is that this is a BIG one, not a little one. Maybe people who don't get into BDSM see it all as the same thing, but for those of us who do, there is a vast difference that is not purely aesthetic, it is gut-level deep. I'm glad that you are able to take a long view for yourself, but it is still a problem.

Demons never turned my crank. You'd think a lot of folks would've picked up on it when the Exorcism of Emily Rose and all those ex..."
Kari, have you read Oleander House by Ally Blue? Pretty creepy, and the ghosts definitely aren't the love interest. (I'm a total wimp, so my creepy may not be your creepy.)

I Fell in Love with a Zombie

I own that one, Charming. Haven't..."
It . . . wasn't bad, actually. It needed a sequel since it kind of stopped in the middle of the action, but I am guessing Sean Kennedy couldn't figure out what to do with it.


Oh, some readers lurv dubcon. Just lurv it, can't get enough of it.
Others...don't. They really, really don't. LOL. And that's 100% fine too.
When you write fringe stories, you just need to expect and brace for that blowback. Dubcon is the Catch-22 of BDSM is all I'm saying.

I Fell in Love with a Zombie

I wanted to quote the same book. I liked it.

Demons never turned my crank. You'd think a lot of folks would've picked up on it when the Exorcism of Emily Rose and..."
Yes! I read it and liked it a lot! That's what I'm talking about.
Has anyone here heard of the Necroscope series by Brian Lumley? That's the kind of world-building and creepy-spookiness I'd like to see more of inside m/m too. Back in the day, the Necroscope series blew me away. (Please note: I was probably in my early to mid 20s maybe? Having my mind blow was probably a lot easier back then. LOL)

Actually, LI labels dubcon AS dubcon in its content warnings. Not sure, but I think Riptide may have as well? So pubs do try. Readers just don't always (or often, IMO) heed those warnings.

I'd prefer to see a way to separate those two types of 'BDSM'. I don't care what it's called, who gets the title BDSM, none of that. Just a recognition that it is largely two different audiences. There was a similar separation in terms within the historical romance (whichever that term means, I don't read historicals), and also our understanding of the difference between gay fiction and m/m romance. That requires an attitudinal change, one publisher can't affect it entirely, certainly not with piecemeal warnings. But I'd like to see that shift started, at the very least with a recognition from all sides that those are two separate types of writing this big old thing that everyone likes to lump into BDSM.

I'd prefer to see a way..."
Like I said...Pubs are doing it. You get the BDSM label/tag (for the ouchies, the D/s, the bondage, etc) and also the dubcon label/tag (which cues the reader that the SSC of the ouchies, etc need not apply).
You can do as the MMR group did for the Member Choice Awards and have two separate categories: BDSM and also Slave/Dub Con/Kidnapped. But even having those 2 distinct categories explicitly delineated...I, Omega took 1st in one and 2nd in the other. The MMR group made that distinction, but readers did not.
It's not an author failing. It's not a publisher failing. It's authors & publishers responding to reader perception and identification. The hard reality is whether I (or my publishers) agree that my work is BDSM or not is immaterial when the majority of readers identify it as BDSM.

I understand that you are satisfied with the status quo, Kari. I do understand that you perceive it is working fine for you. I am not satisfied, however. I fail to see why wanting a delineation between the two raises your hackles.
You are also hyperbolizing my statements. I'm not accusing *anyone* of 'failing'. That's a straw man. I'm not sure this discussion is at all constructive at this point, so I'll bow back out of the thread.

I understand that you are satisfied with the status quo, Kari. I do understand that you perceive it is working fine for you. I am not satisfied, however. I fail to see why..."
This is neither the time nor the place.
No need to leave the thread, though. Just a matter of agreeing to disagree & moving on to discuss books. :-)
Lou wrote: "Kari wrote: "Ew. I don't want one as romantic hero. I want one (thousand) to try to eat my heroes and not in a fun way, either. LOL."
It's the challenge that gets me excited. Just imagine: if you ..."
Didn't Sean Kennedy write one that seemed to get pretty good reviews? Oh, and I read something years ago by someone...Lydia Thorne? A good idea indifferently excecuted.
It's the challenge that gets me excited. Just imagine: if you ..."
Didn't Sean Kennedy write one that seemed to get pretty good reviews? Oh, and I read something years ago by someone...Lydia Thorne? A good idea indifferently excecuted.
Okay. Just got down to the dubcon debate. What is it about discussing sex that almost inevitably leads to friction?
I agree that publishers labeling needs to be more detailed and thorough. Yes, all the publishers make an effort, but since there's no kind of standardization across the board, it's pretty hit and miss.
And, yes, readers are certainly the last to know -- and the first to reinterpret, but the ultimate responsibility for educating them lies with publishers and authors too -- the entire publishing industry, in short. Readers are following the clues we give them the best they can.
I think what is called for would be some kind of standardization across the publishing board (Oco brought up Romantic historicals verus historical romance, and I think that's a perfect example).
and then greater sub-categorizing so that readers who dislike noncon or dubcon are not having to guess from the story blurb.
Thank you to both Kari and Oco for ending the dialog when it reached impasse and before it degraded too far into personalities.
We're not always going to agree -- and sometimes we may fiercely disagree -- but so long as we focus on the ideas and not people, I think we can still have discussions that the group en large will find useful and informative.
I agree that publishers labeling needs to be more detailed and thorough. Yes, all the publishers make an effort, but since there's no kind of standardization across the board, it's pretty hit and miss.
And, yes, readers are certainly the last to know -- and the first to reinterpret, but the ultimate responsibility for educating them lies with publishers and authors too -- the entire publishing industry, in short. Readers are following the clues we give them the best they can.
I think what is called for would be some kind of standardization across the publishing board (Oco brought up Romantic historicals verus historical romance, and I think that's a perfect example).
and then greater sub-categorizing so that readers who dislike noncon or dubcon are not having to guess from the story blurb.
Thank you to both Kari and Oco for ending the dialog when it reached impasse and before it degraded too far into personalities.
We're not always going to agree -- and sometimes we may fiercely disagree -- but so long as we focus on the ideas and not people, I think we can still have discussions that the group en large will find useful and informative.
What is it about discussing sex that almost inevitably leads to friction?
Ouch. Wordsmithing at its finest.
Ouch. Wordsmithing at its finest.

Ouch. Wordsmithing at its finest."
LMAO -- I didn't even notice until you pointed it out. :)

:-D
Funny you should mention that...."
YO, EVERYBODY! I think a clue has been dropped! :-D

Anne: The Charioteer has characters in it I have never forgotten. Ralph has remained one of my very favorite romantic heroes. Ralph is sexy. Have a ball.


:-D
Funny you should mention that...."
YO, EVERYBODY! I think a clue has been dropped! :-D"
Funny, I noticed that too...


Literary boyfriends are the best. Few real world consequences when they do you wrong, and if they really screw up you can just re-write it in your head!


I listened to you... but gay demons are notoriously rebellious muses.

I have a crush on Javier and Kyle ;) Whichever book I just finished of Ginn's in my favorite of hers. She's that good!

Lol, I thought #3, especially Dark Lady I & II, was the best. I think the first Dark Lady deals in part with the "what-if" theme and it successfully blurs the lines between the good and the bad guys. I thought: maybe that's the best who could happen to Silvio and still...
The second Dark Lady was very seductive and I think it was beautiful to see Stefano and Silvio so close, it was their private moment, I don't know how to define it.
I don't know what to think about Dark Brother. There were elements that I wished were done differently, but the relationship between Franco and Silvio might make you grit your teeth, but it's plausible from Silvio's point-of-view, in my opinion. I think it introduces an element of danger and de-stabilization (is that a word in English) and I really want to know what will happen.
I think #3 is a sort of pregnant pause in the mafia war storyline, let's see what it will give birth to! :)
Candice wrote: "Re: Dark Soul 3. I enjoyed the first two offerings quite a lot. The 2 MC's are very hot, and I was interested in following their romance and their war. Part 3, however, gave me pause. I hadn't r..."
Yes, I can easily see how Silvio's actions in Dark Soul Vol 3 can make you uncomfortable. Aleksandr is definitely not taking the easy road with the storyline. ;) I liked the book worth of 5 stars though and like Emanuela and Lisa, I'm really looking forward to find out where this story finally takes us, because no doubt it's going to to be a bumpy and wild ride all the way! :) Silvio is going to give me gray hair for sure, but it'll be worth it. ;)
Yes, I can easily see how Silvio's actions in Dark Soul Vol 3 can make you uncomfortable. Aleksandr is definitely not taking the easy road with the storyline. ;) I liked the book worth of 5 stars though and like Emanuela and Lisa, I'm really looking forward to find out where this story finally takes us, because no doubt it's going to to be a bumpy and wild ride all the way! :) Silvio is going to give me gray hair for sure, but it'll be worth it. ;)

Hey, I made my contribution before you even started squawking about this. :-)

lol, Anne, no worries, my second novel will have a demon in it! And I can't wait to get to work on it either. Been excited ever since Ginn Hale gave me the idea I needed to fix a failing plot line. YAY!!!
In the last six weeks I've read:
Red White Black and Blue by Richard Stevenson
Blue's Bayou by David Lennon
Mahu Blood by Neil Plakcy
Malabarista by Garry Ryan
Second You Sin by Scott Sherman
A Body on Pine by Joseph DeMarco
INvisible Curtain by Alex Morgan
And five other books which were so bad I didn't finish them.
Red White Black and Blue by Richard Stevenson
Blue's Bayou by David Lennon
Mahu Blood by Neil Plakcy
Malabarista by Garry Ryan
Second You Sin by Scott Sherman
A Body on Pine by Joseph DeMarco
INvisible Curtain by Alex Morgan
And five other books which were so bad I didn't finish them.
Anne wrote: "Wait, you have time to read? I need a sabbatical..."
Yes. Indeed. In fact, I think sabbatical is ALL ABOUT the reading.
Yes. Indeed. In fact, I think sabbatical is ALL ABOUT the reading.
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