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Ella
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Sep 11, 2013 04:01PM
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Guys, I really need help. I hope someone is on.
So I found out that my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. She knows I never liked him to begin with, so if I told her, she might not believe me.
He has always given me a bad vibe. The same day he and his other girlfriend broke up, he asked my friend out. That just wasn't okay to me. He is rude to me- almost literally pushing me out of the way to talk to her, and it really makes me mad. He hogs her like food: only letting you have a little bit, they taking it away again.
There have been several leadings to the situation being true. He hasn't been walking with her like he usually does- we don't know where he is. He only comes on some days. He also bailed on her for homecoming. He said he had "other things" to do. I knew instantly something was wrong.
She has low self esteem and he makes her feel betterish, so that's why I think she won't believe me. That and the fact I don't like him and she knows it...
Help pwease? *desperateish*
So I found out that my best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. She knows I never liked him to begin with, so if I told her, she might not believe me.
He has always given me a bad vibe. The same day he and his other girlfriend broke up, he asked my friend out. That just wasn't okay to me. He is rude to me- almost literally pushing me out of the way to talk to her, and it really makes me mad. He hogs her like food: only letting you have a little bit, they taking it away again.
There have been several leadings to the situation being true. He hasn't been walking with her like he usually does- we don't know where he is. He only comes on some days. He also bailed on her for homecoming. He said he had "other things" to do. I knew instantly something was wrong.
She has low self esteem and he makes her feel betterish, so that's why I think she won't believe me. That and the fact I don't like him and she knows it...
Help pwease? *desperateish*
Umm, okay. I usually don't get involved with this kind of stuff but I like you, Alexis, so I will. So, do you hae any proof that her boyfriend is cheating on her? And, is she (your best friend) the quiet and shy type?
You may want to just come out and say it. Like, "Hey. This is gonna be hard to say and I don't want to beat around the bush and your my best friend and I don't want to hurt you, but you have to know. Your boyfriend is cheating on you. Before you go and make assumtions, you have to ask yourself, is he being himself lately? Has he been around often, is he acting a little strange?" Make her ask herself these questions and encourage her to go and find out. If you have proof that he is cheating, that will be even better so that you can show her. If not, then take her out somewhere where you know her boyfriend (and the person he is cheating with) will be and she can see for herself what's going on.
If your scared that your gonna ruin or risk your friendship, you may even want to stay quiet and let things play out on their own. But if you feel that you have to say something, then say it. Don't beat around the bush and tell her straight out. I think that's the only thing you can do.
Is there someone else who knows it too, Alexis? If so, take them with you for a bit of back up, or refer your friend to them. I agree with Ella that you need to say something. Your friend may not like you for a while afterwards. She may not even believe you. But you owe it to her to tell her the truth, and try and support her and tell her that he is not treating her as she deserves to be treated. Make sure she knows this did not happen because she is not worthy of him, but because he is unworthy of her.
Thanks for the help guys! They're done for now, and yeah, he was. I found proof and...stuff. XD The good news, she was more angry than sad. :)
I FINISHED THE SEASON! The Pandorica Opens and the Big Bang were AMAZING! *fangirls* OMG I loved them! When I saw Rory, even through I knew he was coming back, I still squealed. I missed him. :) I will admit, it was one of the harder episodes to follow.
I FINISHED THE SEASON! The Pandorica Opens and the Big Bang were AMAZING! *fangirls* OMG I loved them! When I saw Rory, even through I knew he was coming back, I still squealed. I missed him. :) I will admit, it was one of the harder episodes to follow.
I'm glad everything worked!!! :D Did she hate you? *worried*YAY! Watcha think? Was it great or was it great?
That's good to hear, Alexis. I'm glad it worked out for the better for your friend.
Carrie wrote: "It's a beauty! xD"I have absolutely no clue why I wrote this. Where did this come from? I don't even remember writing this..
Anyways, I'm really glad that everything worked out. It can be really hard trying to deal with that sort of thing, but you made it through!
Ella wrote: "I'm glad everything worked!!! :D Did she hate you? *worried*
YAY! Watcha think? Was it great or was it great?"
Nope. One of my other friends ended up telling her. She beat me to it haha. Thanks to everyone else for the advice too. ^^
It was BRILLIANT! I loved it!
YAY! Watcha think? Was it great or was it great?"
Nope. One of my other friends ended up telling her. She beat me to it haha. Thanks to everyone else for the advice too. ^^
It was BRILLIANT! I loved it!
I'm glad everything worked out. And I'm proud of you, Alexis. You wanted to do a very good thing for a friend. I'm impressed, not many people would try to do such a good thing. Good job, I commend you for that.FANTASTIC!!! I'm glad you liked :D So, on to the next season?
Ha, thanks. ^^
Nope. Christmas special (done) and the other two episodes after that. :)
Nope. Christmas special (done) and the other two episodes after that. :)
Cool. Wait, you're now on Season 6, right?
I really like season 6... Is that bad?Oh and yeah I'm back!
How could it possibly be bad that you like a season of Doctor Who?
We'll I know a lot of people don't like Amy Rory and 11 (and River, sweetie c;) so I was afraid that was unpopular opinion time...
Haha well no one's going to judge you for liking a season :)I didn't like Amy at first (the flirting and all) but once she got married she grew on me a lot! And Rory is just the bombdiggity all around! That's my opinion on the subject …obviously :p
Wait--there are people who legitimately DON'T LIKE ELEVEN AT ALL?
Yeah... They don't think he's serious enough for the role. And my forensics coach said bit right about Smith leaving: "I think it's time for him to leave because even though they tried with Clara, you can't envision him without his Ponds. It's never been the same since they left, and with this new doctor they can finally start anew."
Yeah, I've encountered a few people who don't like Matt. Some didn't like him at first but have grown to like him more.
Lynne wrote: "Yeah, I've encountered a few people who don't like Matt. Some didn't like him at first but have grown to like him more."I'm one of those who didn't really like him at first. He grew on me after while.
Meanwhile, with Clara, it's the other way around. I liked her at first, but don't really like her so much now. :)
Yes, her character hasn't really developed much.
With Clara, it's like her character is done. After the Name of the Doctor, her character is basically useless. I mean, okay, she's the girl that saves the Doctor. Now what?......... You know?
Yes, they really need to do something more with her if she's going to stay around for a while.
Yeah, I can't believe that her climax would be in her first half season
I think they're planning to develop her character a bit more in season 8. I want to find out more about her family and friends - we only know what we saw in TROA and a little bit in TBOSJ plus we know about the Maitland kids and that's about it. I want to find out about her family, friends, personal life, her likes and dislikes. With Rose we learnt so much in her first episode! I mean, with Clara they were going for the whole mysterious, impossible girl thing but now we know I'm hoping for more character development in Clara :)
That is very true. I hope we learn more, and the Christmas episode pictures I've seen so far look fantastic
Wait there's pictures? Or do you mean the behind the scenes stuff?
Behind the scenes yeah
Man. I want to see that kind of stuff. I've only seen a few random things here and there and I'm not even sure if they're real.
I know how ya feel, Ella...I'm getting most of my stuff from you guys.
I know, right?! I get everything from here...
They're on tumblr
I don't find tumblr interesting, so I don't have one...
Finished the Curse of the Black Spot. Not sure I liked that one much.
Finished the Curse of the Black Spot. Not sure I liked that one much.
That wasn't the best episode, but it was still an episode...
Eh, that one wasn't that good. The only thing interesting about it was that I learned that the Doctor can sneeze. That was pretty much it.
Haha! I don't really like any of the 11th Doctor episodes. Well, I like them, but 10 is just my love. No one can tale his place. It's kinda like when Rose left and he almost immediately replaced her with Martha.
Haha I liked the black spot! Rory was so cute and funny as always :)
I only liked the part where Rory is at the hospital and then Amy has to save him and then all that......
I like Rory when he was like "Im gonna grow a beard!"
The Rory moments were particularly good. But the one thing that bothered me was that in America we learn CPR as 30 cheat compressions and 2 rescue breaths... She (Amy) was doing 2 rescue breaths and 5 chest compressions, but it might be taught differently in England though
I think we're taught two and five here in Australia, so I think that must be the way they're taught in England too.
I also thought, Amy also could have turned him on his side so that the water could fall out, like doctors do with patients that are throwing up...
Yeah cause in a different episode (can't remember which one) someone else did 2 and 5 so that's when I assumed it was taught that way
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