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message 1951: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Thanks, cupcake.


message 1952: by UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish, Naughty Co-Mod (new)

UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish | 1922 comments Lisa Kay wrote: "Thanks, cupcake."

You're welcome, ma petit!


message 1953: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (last edited Apr 28, 2014 05:59AM) (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments One of the tornadoes that killed 16 was south of us about 20 miles. Please pray for our neighbors. Thanks!


message 1954: by UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish, Naughty Co-Mod (new)

UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish | 1922 comments Pamela(AllHoney) wrote: "The tornado that killed 16 was south of us about 20 miles. Please pray for our neighbors. Thanks!"

Will do, honey! Was it close to Cabot?


message 1955: by Sonya (new)

Sonya Heaney Pamela(AllHoney) wrote: "One of the tornadoes that killed 16 was south of us about 20 miles. Please pray for our neighbors. Thanks!"

Oh my goodness, I can't imagine how scary that would be... :(


message 1956: by UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish, Naughty Co-Mod (new)

UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish | 1922 comments I just listened to some news coverage and wow... Just. Wow.


message 1957: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments :(


message 1958: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments The tornado hit between Cabot and Heber Springs. Such devastation!


message 1959: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Oh, dear. My thoughts go out to those affected.


message 1960: by Ipshita (new)

Ipshita (miss_romanceaholic) | 1031 comments That is so terrible. I hope you are doing okay Pamela.


message 1961: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments I listen to people I know talk about the people they knew/know that were affected. Tragic. I didn't know anyone myself. People in Heber are finding debris from the tornado in their yards.


Lisa - (Aussie Girl) | 13013 comments Those tornadoes just look so terrifying. My thoughts go out to anyone having to deal with such destruction and tragedy.


message 1963: by Nikki ♥ (new)

Nikki ♥ | 2103 comments That is so terrible. I have a friend that lost everything in a tornado years ago in Nebraska. When she would tell her story it made my heart ache, just hearing what her and her family went through, I can't even imagine.

My thoughts and prayers go out to anyone having to deal with this.


message 1964: by Hazel (new)

Hazel Cartwright (HazelCartwright) | 5 comments What can you do about bad reviews ?


message 1965: by Hazel (new)

Hazel Cartwright (HazelCartwright) | 5 comments Any thoughts on Ghost Writers ?


message 1966: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments Hazel wrote: "What can you do about bad reviews ?"

As in negative reviews? That rip the novel and author apart?


message 1967: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments Hazel wrote: "Any thoughts on Ghost Writers ?"

Writers that write books for other authors? Depends...if the author drafted the idea, gave input to the book, then I think that's okay. Lots of famous authors use ghost writers.


message 1968: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Hazel wrote: "What can you do about bad reviews ?"

Not sure what you are asking. But there isn't much anyone can do about bad reviews. They exists and I try to weed out the honest ones from the bogus.


message 1969: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Hazel wrote: "Any thoughts on Ghost Writers ?"

never gave it much thought. I know they are out there but I'm not familiar with any.


message 1970: by Hazel (new)

Hazel Cartwright (HazelCartwright) | 5 comments Pamela(AllHoney) wrote: "Hazel wrote: "Any thoughts on Ghost Writers ?"

never gave it much thought. I know they are out there but I'm not familiar with any."

I have heard they are out there too, i just wonder what peoples thoughts are about them existing.


message 1971: by Hazel (new)

Hazel Cartwright (HazelCartwright) | 5 comments Pamela(AllHoney) wrote: "Hazel wrote: "What can you do about bad reviews ?"

Not sure what you are asking. But there isn't much anyone can do about bad reviews. They exists and I try to weed out the honest ones from the bo..."

Oh well i think i may have gotten my first like negative comment so i just wanted to know how people deal with mean spirited people.


message 1972: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments I think it's best to ignore them. No point in taking people like that to task, they'll probably just attack you.


message 1973: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Hazel wrote: "Pamela(AllHoney) wrote: "Hazel wrote: "What can you do about bad reviews ?"

Not sure what you are asking. But there isn't much anyone can do about bad reviews. They exists and I try to weed out th..."


I would ignore and delete the comments unless they are really bad and need to be flagged for whatever reason (inappropriate language, spamming, etc..)

If you reply they will just keep at you. In my opinion it's not worth getting into a major fight over.


message 1974: by UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish, Naughty Co-Mod (new)

UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish | 1922 comments Hazel,

Was it a negative review of a book you wrote? If so, authors have to have thick skin. If you start taking reviewers to task because they share their honest opinion, you'll lose a lot of readers.

When I see authors bitching and complaining about reviewers, I cross those authors off my read list.

Just my own humble opinion.


message 1975: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments I'm with UniquelyMoi. Develop a thicker skin and move on. Don't ever, EVER comment. EVER, no matter how badly you want to set this person straight. If you're going to put your work out there for review, remember not everyone is going to like it.

As for Ghost Writers - James Patterson anyone?


message 1976: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments Hazel, I just read the description of your book on Amazon, and you have a lot of grammatical and punctuation errors. Though I do appreciate that you wrote the entire thing with a wine bias.


message 1977: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments I agree. Just ignore them. If you respond, you'll alienate other readers. I read one blog - the author responded to a four star review (which is pretty darn good, IMHO), and she took exception to the reviewer not interpreting a section of her book "correctly." Reading a book is a personal experience.


message 1978: by Claudette (new)

Claudette Alexander | 10 comments I've read that it's best to have a range of reviews from bad to good. In that way it looks more real as not everybody will like your book. When a book only has five stars then it looks like only friends of the authors are doing the reviews.
So say thank you to those who give you a 1,and 2. They don't even realize that they are just giving your book authenticity.
A 3 is in between 4 and 5 are what authors would prefer


message 1979: by UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish, Naughty Co-Mod (new)

UniquelyMoi ~ BlithelyBookish | 1922 comments The best replies I've seen to bad reviews are the "I'm sorry you didn't enjoy it, but thank you for taking a chance on my story." comments. That said, some reviewers don't like comments of any kind from the authors.


message 1980: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments As a reviewer, I once had an author email me back to thank me for reviewing her book and explaining why she did something I had mentioned I hadn't really liked. Now, I always try to be respectful and I look for good and bad points in a book I didn't love. And I can say, I didn't really appreciate getting that email because I had mentioned a lot of things I did like about the book and yet the one semi-negative comment I made was jumped on.


message 1981: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Hazel wrote: "Any thoughts on Ghost Writers ?"

I know that I probably read a lot of books written by ghost writers but once I know for a fact they are I tend to shy away from them a bit.

I used to read VC Andrews until she passed away and I won't touch the stuff coming out now because in my opinion they should be published under whoever is writing them now with a "based on VC Andrews" note or something on the cover. I don't know why it bothers me but it does.


message 1982: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments Because VC Andrews has no input on those novels? They're not her ideas. I agree with you, the person writing that should make that note or something.


message 1983: by Melissa (new)

Melissa If they would have just finished out the trilogy that was being written at the time of death and stopped it wouldn't have bothered me but they keep publishing new ones.


message 1984: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments Yes, I think that's unethical. Though, isn't it a family member writing under her name?


message 1985: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments Didn't they do that with Francine Pascal, too?


message 1986: by Melissa (new)

Melissa I believe it is a family member. I don't know much about Francine Pascal...


message 1987: by Stories (last edited Jun 11, 2014 05:16PM) (new)

Stories & Verse (storiesverse) | 256 comments Wow, there are a lot of books that have been created under VC Andrews after 1986... all the way up to 2013. I remember reading the Flowers in the Attic series and I think I started the Dark Angel Series but never finished. I didn't know they were still writing for her under a ghost writer.


message 1988: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments I didn't know, either.


message 1989: by Sonya (new)

Sonya Heaney Bad reviews? Ignore, ignore, ignore. It’s not often that an author can respond to a bad review and come out of it without losing fans and sales.

You have to think of your book as a product – it’s going to get reviewed the same way computers and movies and cars are. When authors start kicking up a fuss it only creates a drama that paints them in a bad light.

Case in point: an author went ballistic over one of my reading status updates a fortnight ago. Now my review – which nobody would have even seen if she hadn’t commented – is the #1 rated review of her book and at the top of the book’s Goodreads page.

If you genuinely believe there’s a reason to have the review removed (the reviewer made nasty comments about the author’s appearance, for example), then report it to Goodreads.


message 1990: by Sonya (new)

Sonya Heaney I haven't been in this group much recently. Today is not a good day: our Ukrainian church was trashed by Russians overnight.

People think about the situation with Vladimir Putin as something that's contained within a particular part of Europe. But we've been dealing with hired thugs here for months now. In Australia! It's really hard to not get mad and say things we can't take back.


message 1991: by Ipshita (new)

Ipshita (miss_romanceaholic) | 1031 comments @Sonya Which review was it?


message 1992: by Noor (new)

Noor Al lawati | 57 comments Been reading the Infernal Devices & goimg crazy with excitement .. Yet when i started the final book in the Trilogy I got fever and it was so bad that the words were dancing infront of me that I had to drop the book down


message 1993: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Sonya Heaney wrote: "I haven't been in this group much recently. Today is not a good day: our Ukrainian church was trashed by Russians overnight.

People think about the situation with Vladimir Putin as something that'..."


Wow that is crazy... so sorry you this happened to your church.


message 1994: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Noor wrote: "Been reading the Infernal Devices & goimg crazy with excitement .. Yet when i started the final book in the Trilogy I got fever and it was so bad that the words were dancing infront of me that I ha..."

I hope you feel better soon. Being to sick to read is a horrible thing!


message 1995: by Noor (new)

Noor Al lawati | 57 comments Thank you Melissa ^^
i have and I finished the book today with bubbles of all sort of emotions haha ..


message 1996: by Sonya (new)

Sonya Heaney Melissa wrote: "Wow that is crazy... so sorry you this happened to your church."

I'm not really religious, but in our community of immigrants the church is the heart of everything. To have people write things like, "burn in hell" all over the walls... I have relatives who were in the centre of the capital city in Ukraine when the snipers came out and started shooting people (and I saw it live on TV), but to have it happen in Australia - it is so personal and offensive.

At least it made national news headlines in Australia - so people here are learning how aggressive Vladimir Putin's regime is.

Ipshita wrote: "@Sonya Which review was it?"

Beauty and the Barbarian (Highland Force, #3) by Amy Jarecki

I'm going to delete the review soon. I don't want to make such a huge fuss and have my name attached to it... but I'm just really annoyed at authors who build up "Street Teams" of readers who spam the internet with five star reviews, and then attack anyone who doesn't like the book.


message 1997: by Noor (new)

Noor Al lawati | 57 comments Its so good to be the older sister xD mother is not in the country so im bossing my sister about her outtings with friends !


message 1998: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Glad you're better, Noor.

I'm truly sorry that happened to your church, Sonya Heaney.


message 1999: by Ipshita (new)

Ipshita (miss_romanceaholic) | 1031 comments Sonya Heaney wrote: "Bad reviews? Ignore, ignore, ignore. It’s not often that an author can respond to a bad review and come out of it without losing fans and sales.

You have to think of your book as a product – it’s ..."


Looked like they all ganged up on you. For that matter, I don't think criticizing a book with a proper reason is anywhere near to author bashing.


message 2000: by Ipshita (new)

Ipshita (miss_romanceaholic) | 1031 comments Sonya Heaney wrote: "I haven't been in this group much recently. Today is not a good day: our Ukrainian church was trashed by Russians overnight.

People think about the situation with Vladimir Putin as something that'..."


That's so awful. I'm sorry that happened.


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