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message 1651: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Rats! ☺


message 1652: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Aww, Pamela! Sorry to hear that.


message 1653: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Thanks, LK. Just got back from the pool. Thunder so we didn't get to get in :(


message 1654: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments That was probably wise.


message 1655: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Okay, I'll try to be on here as I can but I must let you all know that it won't be as often as I normally am. We are down to 1 computer in the house and my daughter has decided to start playing a game online that means she wants the computer more than usual. As I said I'll pop in as I can. ☺


message 1656: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Sorry about your computer woes, Pamela.


message 1657: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Thanks, LK, but I feel fortunate that we have the one :)


message 1658: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Sorry to hear about your computer Pamela, I keep my fingers crossed mine keeps working.


message 1659: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Thanks, Melissa!


message 1660: by Sunny☼ (new)

Sunny☼ (sunny2) | 643 comments Will miss you Pamela but certainly understand. I know I have been in that same place several times before.


message 1661: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Thanks, Sunny!


message 1662: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments I just got an email from Goodreads telling me I'm in the Top 1% of reviewers. Cool! Did everyone get the email?


message 1663: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments That is cool! I didn't get one. I also don't review that often, so that's probably why. :)


Lisa - (Aussie Girl) | 13013 comments Pamela, I got one too. I was really amazed because I only review a couple a week or so and there are 20 million people on Goodreads. Now if they had said you are in the top 1% always on Goodreads, that would be a different thing. I spend WAY too much time on here, LOL.


message 1665: by Heather L (new)

Heather L  (wordtrix) I struggle with writing reviews, so while I always rate the books I read, and sometimes include a comment or two, I rarely review.


message 1666: by Marilyn (new)

Marilyn (mbk1857) I got one, too. Since I don't think I write that many reviews, I dismissed it as so much fluff.


message 1667: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments On the author side, I'd very much like to know why my book rated three or fewer stars, and I'd very much like potential readers to know why a reviewer gave it four or five stars. But I will admit that if a book already has a lot of reviews, I may not comment. :)


message 1668: by Melissa (new)

Melissa I try to write at least a little something about what I thought of a book, but It mostly is about how a book made me feel when I read it.


message 1669: by Melissa (new)

Melissa I'm so excited, my mom was moved from the hospital to the rehab facility this weekend. She was able to walk 50 ft today with the assistance of a walker. 3 weeks ago she could hardly move her left side at all.

This woman continues to amaze me every day!


message 1670: by Jacqueline (new)

Jacqueline Rhoades (jackierhoades) | 192 comments That's great, Melissa! I'll keep you and your mother in my prayers.

I'm with Abigail on reviews versus stars. As an author, I want to know why. But as an author/reader, I'm hesitant to criticize. I've heard too many stories of retaliation, so usually I just give stars at 3 and above and don't rate anything below. I usually don't bother with big name authors when my opinion has already been stated 300 times!


message 1671: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Great to hear, Melissa! I pray for her continued rehab!


message 1672: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments Melissa! That's fabulous!!!


message 1673: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Just an FYI, I've not been able to be on as much due to only one computer in the house and I apologise. But school starts in about 2 weeks so maybe I'll be able to get on a little more then.


message 1674: by Jacqueline (new)

Jacqueline Rhoades (jackierhoades) | 192 comments There's nothing like a good education for you children! LOL


message 1675: by Lisa - (Aussie Girl) (last edited Aug 05, 2013 09:45PM) (new)

Lisa - (Aussie Girl) | 13013 comments Melissa, I'm so glad for your family. Hope your Mum improves even more.

And Pamela... what we do for your kids, LOL. I've just brought my 26 year old daughter's washing in from the line. Not because I 'm a nice mother, oh no, but because I couldn't stand it being still there after three days, Sheesh!


message 1676: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Yes, she is spoiled and I have no one to blame but myself.


message 1677: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Wonderful, Melissa!


message 1678: by Leslie (new)

Leslie (chibilee02) So glad to hear your mom is recovering well Melissa ^_^


message 1679: by Melissa (new)

Melissa Pamela, Its amazing how much more things get done when they go back to school isn't it?


message 1680: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments I'm counting the days myself. I like spontaneity, but there is something to be said for routine.


message 1681: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments LMAO they aren't back to school yet where I'm from. You all should the look on your faces on the first day of school. You're positively gleeful looking to the teachers lol


message 1682: by Heather L (new)

Heather L  (wordtrix) Kids here aren't back in school until after Labor Day -- silly law about education interfering with tourism.

Melissa: Hope your mom continues to improve!


message 1683: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments I doubt it has to do with tourism. In North America school always let out for the summer months because the kids were taken out anyway because they were needed on the farms back in the day before it was the law to have your kids in school. At least, that was my understanding.

I thought some the States went back in August? Though it is rather early in the month so maybe not yet?


message 1684: by Jacqueline (new)

Jacqueline Rhoades (jackierhoades) | 192 comments Our kids go back on Aug. 21st. My kids all went to school here and I worked for the system for 20 yrs and I never did get used to starting before Labor Day. Of course, we used to go until mid to late June and these kids get out in late May.
This will be my first year NOT going back to school and I can't wait for the first day of school. I'm going to sleep in!


message 1685: by Pamela(AllHoney), Fairy Godmother (new)

Pamela(AllHoney) (pamelap) | 14528 comments Schools go back on Aug 19th here


message 1686: by Heather L (last edited Aug 08, 2013 12:11PM) (new)

Heather L  (wordtrix) Giulia~Bubbles ♌ wrote: "I doubt it has to do with tourism. In North America school always let out for the summer months because the kids were taken out anyway because they were needed on the farms back in the day before i..."

No, it really is a law here that schools can no longer start before Labor Day. Employers (supposedly) claimed that when schools started earlier it affected staffing for tourist sites over Labor Day weekend.

Some states do start school mid-August, but not here.


message 1687: by Sunny☼ (new)

Sunny☼ (sunny2) | 643 comments Ontario has several pilot programmes up and running to test the effectiveness in long term memory if the kids go back in August. So much of the classroom time is spent in review in Sept. just to get them back to where they were back in June. Both parents, kids and many teachers like the idea. The holiday time is the same. The time lost by going back in August is added on to the Christmas holidays. So that makes the tourism and retailers happy too.


message 1688: by Jacqueline (new)

Jacqueline Rhoades (jackierhoades) | 192 comments I think you both may be right. In the US, there is no school year standard - though the Feds are working on it. Each State or local district defines its calendar and I assume many are based on things like agriculture or tourism or even weather. It wasn't too long ago that schools around here would excuse students for up to two weeks for fall harvest. If you think about it, it's that harvest or tourism that raises the taxes to fund the schools.


message 1689: by Sunny☼ (new)

Sunny☼ (sunny2) | 643 comments You are so right Jacqueline. Follow the trail to the money.

In the school boards everywhere it is the parent to be listened to and the parent that every teacher reports to in the form of report cards.


message 1690: by Abigail (new)

Abigail Sharpe (abigailsharpe) | 2010 comments August in Florida, too. It started after Labor Day when I lived in Boston.


message 1691: by Sandra (new)

Sandra Hoover (sandrahoover) | 499 comments Our schools in the south start back around Aug.25. It used to always be after Labor Day in Sept. and originally was set up that way so students were home on the farm to help harvest crops such as tobacco. Since less of that is being done now, our opening school dates moved up by at least a couple of weeks. Ours moved up further than that to where kids started around Aug. 15 but parents & tourist cities had a fit because of loosing revenue from late vacations. Our state states that kids cannot start earlier than Aug. 25 and must get out the first week in June.


message 1692: by Jacqueline (new)

Jacqueline Rhoades (jackierhoades) | 192 comments Weather plays a role, too, I think. Our district didn't start pushing back its start date until all the buildings were air conditioned. Even in Sept. some of the classrooms would get above 100. A lot of old timers gave them the 'when we went to school in those buildings' routine, but they forget that they didn't live in an air conditioned world.


message 1693: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments Well, I'm in California and my nephews are in some school that is open year round. They have several off days. And they close for major holidays - since parents take their kids out then anyway. But not all schools in California do this.


message 1694: by Jacqueline (new)

Jacqueline Rhoades (jackierhoades) | 192 comments With so many families with parents working outside the home, this is probably the coming thing.


message 1695: by Lisa Kay, Tinker Bell (new)

Lisa Kay (lisakayalicemaria) | 21897 comments True.


message 1696: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments Wow, didn't realize how varied it was state to state in the US. Very interesting. I'm in Ontario and the city I'm in, one of the schools is piloting the balanced calendar sunny mentioned. They've been on that schedule for several years and I heard teachers like it too, but not sure what their studies are showing. I don't mind that idea myself to be honest, I think it would be more organized and balanced for everyone. I wish they had taken the time to do proper studies before they opened full day kindergarten. A lot of schools have been dealt with rude awakenings when it hit them.


message 1697: by Sandra (new)

Sandra Hoover (sandrahoover) | 499 comments We have a few "year-round" schools in N.C. Our county tried them but didn't like it so dropped it. Each district sets its open/close dates as long as they meet the state guidelines. Basically, that says No students in school before Aug. 25 and they must be out by June 5...of course, lots of holidays and 14 teacher workdays with no students scattered through out.


message 1698: by Sandra (new)

Sandra Hoover (sandrahoover) | 499 comments And our Kindergarteners go full day after the first 3 days. Of course, our pre-schoolers (4 yr. olds) do too.


message 1699: by Heather L (last edited Aug 09, 2013 11:20AM) (new)

Heather L  (wordtrix) Personally, I'm all for longer school years. Not only does it prevent "brain drain," it keeps kids out of trouble. NOT that I think of teachers as babysitters, because I don't, but having somewhere to be every day can make a huge difference in a kid's life. No country in the world has a longer summer break than the US, and it is so varied from state to state, district to district it's ridiculous.


message 1700: by Giulia (new)

Giulia | 1756 comments Our kinders are 4. But since full day is so new here, it's not been easy on anyone.


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