Problems with Life/Emos and Goths discussion
Love Life
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Troubles with guys
Yeah. . . The best I can do is wait I guess. . . But it's like dying every day. Wishing that you coupld be together, but hoping that he's still with her because if he isn't, he feels dead inside and the last thing you want.
Keep strong pyromaniac girl. Keep strong.
Ugh! I wish someone at least had a crush on me I liked someone a grade higher than me he got a girl Gossip going around they did something together...... Friends wont tell me what dont want me to get hurt
You really never know if someone has a crush on you until they tell you they have a crush on you. Most people don't show it...
I never really had a boyfriend I wish they didnt judge people so much. They always do, My Height, Hair, Eyes and Clothes.
Can anyone give me advice or at least sympathy.!PLZ I need it. :(
Im srry joyce. You know why people only have one true love? because if they had more than one, then there would have to be alot more nice people in the world. The right guy'll come. trust me.
I do in the bible it says Eve was Adams other half therefore we each have one but why wont mine come Quicker so he can be my perfect friend until im really ready for a relationship.
there is always a reason for everything; gods plans are a big puzzle that one can only see from the heavens.
Ugh! This is so impossible I love every one unconditionaly why cant someone love me that way (other than my family, your included in my family)
thanks. I consider you all my family too. Someone loves you that way, they just don't know it yet.
I really do hope so! Hope, finially! :)
they do. And hope is important. Im glad its found its way to u.
Yep guess I always knew, just felt devoided of it.
GTG... good night. Or morning, wherever you live...
How old are you two? Just out of curiosity?
It does matter - you shouldn't be worrying about finding true love this early in life. Things happen. People move away, you go off to college... Anything that happens in your love-life before you go to college doesn't matter, because it's all going to end when you go to college. The only way it wouldn't, is if you were going to the same college - only by coincidence. Honestly, I wouldn't want a girl that goes to a bad college just to be with me, and I sure as heck wouldn't do it for (nearly) any girl. You love some, you lose some, but there will always be someone waiting for you. Don't get caught up in the love game til at LEAST high school. I'm not saying "Don't date", even though I didn't til sophomore year, I'm just saying, don't let your heart get taken away from someone who's just going to leave you.
Thats what i was saying it doesnt matter he'll come when im older did you read the post?
Yeah, and you said you wanted him to come quicker. You're not even in HS yet, you shouldn't have TRUE love yet... Especially since it would end before college, if you manage to make it through HS together.
That's the problem Otto im never ready for a relationship thats why I want this relationship crap to stop happening to Me. I went out with my bestfriend and he broke up with me for his girlfriend for now 5 months, Im not dating until Im older , Im just saying the right guy so we can be friends then the other stuff thats how it always starts Right.
Plus I don't even have friends fureal in my school I have a friend in a different school than me.
You guys become friends, go through HS, then what? You go off to different colleges and different lives - you might not even see each other again. There's no point in asking for him now, 'cause if he comes now, he won't be there later.
So no friend for me huh? Has that situation happen to you didnt happen to my sister who is currently married to her HS and MS sweetheart they were friends at first got in highschool more than friends he got stationed in another state New Mexico while we were over here so now he came back they got married and are now living a new life in Mississippi your saying that cant and wont happen to me?
I'm just stating the general rule - just because there are a few exceptions, don't expect to be one of them.
I don't I just think she got lucky to met hers so early but she had a whole bunch of friends including him
Otto wrote: "How old are you two? Just out of curiosity?"
to be honest, 13. But please don't judge me because of that, I was born really late, and I hang out with kids older than me.... also, believe it or not, I have as much experience as a counselor, because of the fact that my mom is a retired counselor/social worker.... you can trust my advise....
to be honest, 13. But please don't judge me because of that, I was born really late, and I hang out with kids older than me.... also, believe it or not, I have as much experience as a counselor, because of the fact that my mom is a retired counselor/social worker.... you can trust my advise....
Dont worry Im just as old as you are and he still tells me not to worry about love doesnt matter though im not
I'm not judging you based on age, I'm just telling the both of you that you have your whole lives ahead of you - true love would just be wasted at such a young age. Not that there's anything wrong with love at a young age, it's just that things happen, and it could easily be taken from you too soon and leave you distraught and heartbroken - a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone.
Okay Otto your just looking out for us I get it.
Otto wrote: "I'm not judging you based on age, I'm just telling the both of you that you have your whole lives ahead of you - true love would just be wasted at such a young age. Not that there's anything wrong ..."
yeah, thnxs for looking out for us....
but still, my life has been like this every since i was little. I was sort of.... how do i put it.... corrupted....? I dunno.... I had a very mixed up and confusing childhood.... I remember trying to make sense of my mom's psychotic fits.... back then, it was common to have to get mommy to stop crying. These days, though, she's as hard as a rock and NEVER cries so yea..... I dont know, im confuzled about my past. I remeber certain things but then from age 6-9 i dont remeber anything....
yeah, thnxs for looking out for us....
but still, my life has been like this every since i was little. I was sort of.... how do i put it.... corrupted....? I dunno.... I had a very mixed up and confusing childhood.... I remember trying to make sense of my mom's psychotic fits.... back then, it was common to have to get mommy to stop crying. These days, though, she's as hard as a rock and NEVER cries so yea..... I dont know, im confuzled about my past. I remeber certain things but then from age 6-9 i dont remeber anything....
I think I have a crush on my bestfriend again. I mean we went out once and when he broke up with me- 2 days later- I said i'd just felt a brotherly feeling for him but its just.. I THINK I have a crush on him. And its akward when we walk from the bus stop and he goes "You still like me dont you". He and my best friend went out but that was nothing she just wanted a boyfriend. Now my other best friend is going out for him furreal and its serious- they've gone out for 5 months- I just feel so weird cause I really dont know my feelings for him. I feel like he's my bestie, whenever I dont see him for long I wonder what he's up to if he's kissing his Gf and sometimes she goes to his house and I never know what there up to I just feel a little jealous what should I do I mean compare 2 Days to 5 Months
It really is in my situtation I mean the girl he's going out with is my Best friend
Ugh.. so I could lose a best friend if this ever slipped and another best friend- the crush- and get made fun of by my- even though she true to me- bestest best friend I mean he happens to be shorter than me he's down to about my chin or neck
Dang that gotta suck I know my setutation make me look pathetic. I mean he's older than me and still shorter I hope he grows taller in the future so then... aw how am I kidding Today I saw him and got all excited
Ugh! This stupid heart of mine sure does know how to pick em
Ursula the Strigoi wrote: "i no. the guy i like all my friends hate. if i went out with him i mite lose every one"
well, if you really think this guy's worth risking your friends, then go for it. And if theyre rly ur friends, they wont care who ur dating.
well, if you really think this guy's worth risking your friends, then go for it. And if theyre rly ur friends, they wont care who ur dating.
Joyce wrote: "Ugh! This stupid heart of mine sure does know how to pick em"
Haha, not just yours, I assure you...
Haha, not just yours, I assure you...
All guys in my grade are assholes. None are bi or gay. And also, none would go for me.So my option is girls...not so good with them either.
Even though im heed over heels for one of them
im so sorry. its so hard to find love in a world where it hardly exists.... I just thought of this song, ive been listening to it because im so upset that KB might be dead. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQxY48...
KB's not dead KB promised not to do anything cause I would drown myself if she did
kb's not dead. she's been hanging out with me all week.
This breaks my hear..."
aww, honey, it sounds hard. But out of most of the cases ive heard like this, you are doing one thing right that many didnt: think about how happy they are together. That is major selflessness. this is very hard, but If they are truley happy together then it may be the case but it may not last 4ever