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Cheyenne
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Dec 12, 2010 06:43PM
i agree! the boy i was talking about before that i really liked is the biggest jerk in the world! i absolutly hate him! hes the biggest liar! god why cant boys be simple!?
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your probably right.
Cheyenne wrote: "god why cant boys be simple!?"
... Believe me, us guys (or at least every guy I know) aren't complicated. Girls just start putting everything we do into some system in their heads that break everything up into complicated little pieces. If we're mean to a girl, it either means that we really don't like her, have friends that don't like her (and we're trying to fit in), or we just don't want to admit we like her (to ourselves or a group of immature friends who will start messing with us). More often than not, you can tell just by the way we act with other people which of these is correct. But without being close to us, it's nearly impossible.
... Believe me, us guys (or at least every guy I know) aren't complicated. Girls just start putting everything we do into some system in their heads that break everything up into complicated little pieces. If we're mean to a girl, it either means that we really don't like her, have friends that don't like her (and we're trying to fit in), or we just don't want to admit we like her (to ourselves or a group of immature friends who will start messing with us). More often than not, you can tell just by the way we act with other people which of these is correct. But without being close to us, it's nearly impossible.
But I do have to ask, what did he lie about, and why is he the biggest jerk?
I'm stuck in a pickle now the guy I want to date is way to old for me ):
How old is he, and how old are you?
I now feel like its impossible to keep a smile on my face because im confused from what to believe and not to belive about the guy (joe ) who loves me more than anything but i havent talked to himin almost three months now :(
If you haven't talked to him in 3 months, then it's likely he doesn't love you more than anything. There's a chance he still cares about you, but it's nearly impossible to tell. Sorry to tell you like this. It's probably the last thing you wanted to hear.
my friend Lucas was my bf a few months ago but now hes my ex and I still like him and I told him that i did but hes being a jerk to me :(
I have a huge problem. My old best friend from my old school about 100 miles away from where I live now is like in freaking love with me. When were first met I thought I kinda had a crush on him but I didnt really let on because it turned out it was just my heart trying to get on from my crush. Then it turned out he knew my uncle and had met a few of my cousins. As soon as he found that out he started to ask if when my parent allowed me to date (both of our family's are kinda strict about that) I'd be his girl friend. When I told him that I didn't even know where I'd be living let alone who I'd want to date he said it didnt matter and that he thought we were meant to be. Then he would text me until 3 in the morning during summer vacation. And we would video chat and email and stuff. Around August I introduced him to my best friend where I live now via video chat and he kinda started to hit on her but just because thats the only way he really knows how to speak to girls and stuff, and he thinks he has like the worlds greatest pick up lines (they are all very lame.) During that time he called me beutiful about 13 times, he said that being with me would be like paradise, and called me a princess, all in about a month. Then me and my friend got in a huge fight with him because he was being a major a**. After not talking to him for months I finally emailed him one of those foreward on things that said send this to people that you dont regret meeting. On it I that I dont regret meeting him my regret was that fight. That made him feel really bad and stuff and he apologized and I forgave him and we were ok. Just a few weeks after I forgave him I still wasnt very happy with him so I didnt talk to him as often. One day we were im'ing and he started up again. But even worse. Instead of saying that I was gonna be his girlfriend in the future he's looking farther and thinks I will eventually marry him. I love him to death as my friend and stuff and I really dont want to hurt him. But he is starting to get on my nerves.
Hello im Sabore. My trouble is that im confused. Im not sure if im bisexual or not. When i think of guys I get really happy in an odd way, but I feel like I HAVE to like girls. I do not want to like guys not at all. I hooked up with one years ago. It felt amazing, but I regretted it ever since. Im not sure what path to take, straight or bisexual. I know being bi isnt bad. My friends know my struggled with it. Ive fallenf or two guys. Im so extremely and utterly confused.
Well, you commented in the Troubles With Girls thread, talking about a girl you really want to go out with, right? If you get with this girl, you would follow the Straight path - unless, of course, you wander...
Do you think these feelings for guys are stronger than your feelings for girls?
Do you think these feelings for guys are stronger than your feelings for girls?
Well idk. I like thinking of guys in ways more than girls but with girls im crazy about them and just need them. That one girl I love, Im crazy about...she means my world. But theres a guy and hes just so, so amazing to me. And I have a gut feeling hes bi or gay
So, it sounds like you're bi. Just go with what your heart feels. If you love the girl, pick her. If you love the guy, pick him. "Bi" or "Straight" are just labels, don't let them define you. Be who you are, and let someone else worry about labeling you.
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Guys im so confused! I NEED HELP!!!!!! Please! I keep thinkin bout that guy! HES AWESOME!! and also I hooked up with my friend twice this summer
i like this guy that i HAVENT met face to face!! feels like im in love, met him on goordreads, he is AMAZING but he doesnt talk much and i think he likes someone else :(((((( wut should i do bout it?
well first what is his name ??? well try and not push him to much , in time it will be ok
well im glad we are friends and that he doesnt hate me!!you know his name!
Alya (loveeees drama) X) wrote: "well im glad we are friends and that he doesnt hate me!!you know his name!"
inbox his name ...omg does it start with the letter i think it does ????
idk...just tell me who it is !! hahaaa
lol i saw :(
yep, i just saw your message too!!how r u feelin today? better?
Alya (loveeees drama) X) wrote: "yep, i just saw your message too!!how r u feelin today? better?"
im much better :)
Bipolar toad wrote: "Hey I am practically a robotI don't get love
2 of my guy friends want to date
I don't get that either and nobody ever explained it to me.
Help!!!"
aww
well love can be complicated.
yea my ex is making me mad right now :(
aww dont worry it will get better in time
awwww im sorry ..i know how u feel
yep !
Bipolar toad wrote: "Hey I am practically a robot
I don't get love
2 of my guy friends want to date
I don't get that either and nobody ever explained it to me.
Help!!!"
2 of your guy friends want to date you or each other? And what do you not get?
And about the friend you went out with... Who broke up with whom?
I don't get love
2 of my guy friends want to date
I don't get that either and nobody ever explained it to me.
Help!!!"
2 of your guy friends want to date you or each other? And what do you not get?
And about the friend you went out with... Who broke up with whom?
Rissy wrote "im much better :)" Yayyy!! this made me smile :D
Alya (loveeees drama) X) wrote: "Rissy wrote "im much better :)" Yayyy!! this made me smile :D"
well im more like worse again :(
Salad, they were talking to each other, neither comment was a response to yours.
Anyways, how could you say you don't get love? If you know people want to go out with you, obviously you have some right there. As for which boy you should go out with is completely up to you. Go for the one you like better - but don't expect too much. I'm assuming you're in HS or below, and I know most relationships in school don't last.
Anyways, how could you say you don't get love? If you know people want to go out with you, obviously you have some right there. As for which boy you should go out with is completely up to you. Go for the one you like better - but don't expect too much. I'm assuming you're in HS or below, and I know most relationships in school don't last.
Ah, that makes more sense.
Listen, if you ever figure love out, be sure to tell the world - because you're sure to be the first.
Listen, if you ever figure love out, be sure to tell the world - because you're sure to be the first.
i have a problem. My ideal guy is sort of not real. hes dead, not to mention made up in one of my phsycoic dreams. yes, when i off my meds i have weird yet pleasing dreams...
I'm just ignored a lot...I don't know true love yet...
((Now watch this comment get ignored....))
((Now watch this comment get ignored....))
hes... um.... nonexistent?
i have rly weird dreams...
i have rly weird dreams...
HOLY SH**!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WATCHED SALAD FINGERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM CRYING AND SHAKING RIHG TNOW!!!!! WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!? HOLY hioerhgieurhwtrgfuigsfjkabehdguwrbg,sdjfsdjkbghseghkdcbgdjbgjhsrbgjkbgnjbgnjkbfjkgbdgjkbnsbdjkfjd
i love it though... THANK OU SOOO MUCH!!! I LOVEHATE IT!!!
it actually makes since to me now.... in cage he seems almost like a normal person.... you know that if salad fingers is freaked out then somethings seriously screwed up
Alright, I'm just going to let everything out. I think I'm in love with a boy. His name is George. George has a girlfriend, and he really likes her and she really likes him. This breaks my heart everytime I think of him. And yet, I don't become a man-stealing b**ch when I'm with him, because I know that he's happy with her. And since I love him so much, I silently take my heartbreak because I know he's happy.
I care about him more than I do myself. We're amazing friends, he knows more secrets about me than my mother. And the closer we get as friends, the more it hurts to know that he doesn't look at me in a romantic light. I want him to be single, but at the same time, I don't, because I care about him.
I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should just let myself suffer, gamble our relationship as friends for one in romance or what.
I want you to friend me tell me your cats name! plz!
ジェシカ Pyromaniac Girl wrote: "Alright, I'm just going to let everything out. I think I'm in love with a boy. His name is George. George has a girlfriend, and he really likes her and she really likes him.
This breaks my hear..."
I feel like I can really relate, because this happened to me. The only difference was that it was more of a crush instead of love for me - I didn't know her well enough to call it love. I wish I could tell you that her boyfriend broke up with her and I was there to break her fall or some romantic crap like that, but it would be a lie. Nothing good came out of it for me, so I figured I should warn you if it happens to you.
I suffered - still somewhat suffering, though much less than before - for all that time. We had a class together, so I saw her nearly everyday, and everyday seemed like it was getting harder. Once, I thought I was over her - it sure felt like it at the time. The next day I saw her, I realized how wrong I was. She graduated early, so I haven't seen her in a while. It makes it easier in the long run, but at first it seemed like hell.
This may or may not make a difference, but how long have you felt this way? I liked this girl for a long time before getting a crush on her...
This breaks my hear..."
I feel like I can really relate, because this happened to me. The only difference was that it was more of a crush instead of love for me - I didn't know her well enough to call it love. I wish I could tell you that her boyfriend broke up with her and I was there to break her fall or some romantic crap like that, but it would be a lie. Nothing good came out of it for me, so I figured I should warn you if it happens to you.
I suffered - still somewhat suffering, though much less than before - for all that time. We had a class together, so I saw her nearly everyday, and everyday seemed like it was getting harder. Once, I thought I was over her - it sure felt like it at the time. The next day I saw her, I realized how wrong I was. She graduated early, so I haven't seen her in a while. It makes it easier in the long run, but at first it seemed like hell.
This may or may not make a difference, but how long have you felt this way? I liked this girl for a long time before getting a crush on her...
