Ok yall, i need some help😠so ive been dating my bf for the past 7 months and its been great. I love him so so much and were really happy together. We hang out almost every and yeah, were happy. My dad though… not so much. I dont really know why. Hes respectful, and hes super nice to my younger sister which i know they really like. But yeah. Anyway though, im like in a really bad mental state right now and my dad does not like it. Hes been talking about putting me on meds and shit like that. Hes had me talk to a lot of different therapists and counselors but non have really helped me at all. It sucks but i still manage somehow. Anyway though, last night my dad was telling i need to pull shit together😠and im like really really trying to. I have straight A’s, i still go to school every day even when i really dont want to, im starting to look for a job, and i am really trying to hold myself together but its really hard at times. My dads been telling me that if i cant get out of this state hes gonna have us break up and thats like the last thing i want😠My bf is one of the only now that make me happy and i feel myself and i really dont wanna break up. Before we met i was already dealing with stuff and meeting him really changed that for me. I felt happy again and i was enjoying life again. In may is when it all came back and it hasnt been fun. I told my dad about what has been going on a few nights ago at like 1 am and i really regret it. The past few days i feel like hes been mad at me and i dont know what to do. I dont want my dad mad at me and i dont wanna have to break up with my bfðŸ˜
So if anyone has advice i could really use some
Im sorry about the vent, ive just really have been needing to get that out
awww i’m sorry your going through that girl, i think try and focus on ur mental health and keep the positive things like ur boyfriend. maybe if you feel comfortable try and tell your dad how you feel about your boyfriend and open up to him or tell your boyfriend what’s going on or someone else you trust like a friend i hope it gets better for u and u figure things out :) xxx
Lyra wrote: "awww i’m sorry your going through that girl, i think try and focus on ur mental health and keep the positive things like ur boyfriend. maybe if you feel comfortable try and tell your dad how you fe..."
Hey girl, I’m so sorry to hear that. Please don’t shut your dad out because you need him and even rn if you don’t agree w him, you don’t want to fully lose touch. Also remember if it’s meant to be it will happen. Trust in Jesus because He will help you. I know this from my life how much the Bible helps. I’ll be praying for you! 😘
So if anyone has advice i could really use some
Im sorry about the vent, ive just really have been needing to get that out