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Last July a guy friend of mine did the thing only one other guy has done.
He called my dad in order to get my phone number..."
This is one of those times when i look at normal people and can't help but wonder what the hell is wrong with them.
I don't mean that to be offensive i just can't understand why you have a problem.
Firstly here is some advice and you really should take this to heart.
What do you want?
Once you know the answer to this, i want you to read what you said below and the consequences that it lead to.
Me and my crush had a big fight and didn’t speak to each other for weeks, I hated him. Months after the fight I told my mom (and to my horror) they made me talk to him.
After you have thought about that and the situation you are currently in. You should go talk to your mom, tell her what you want and why and then ask her advice on how you should move forward.
If you can't do that, then at least take the following to heart.
You want something and your making an assumption about what the other person wants without even speaking to that person.
You have no proof he is talking to someone else and even if he is, why should you care?
You can't just call dibs when it comes to love.
Decide what you want, act on it or you will live your whole life filled with regrets. (That means talk to him honestly about your feelings.)
Last July a guy friend of mine did the thing only one other guy has done.
He called my dad in order to get my phone number. (Note he first prank texted me and then I told him if he wasn’t to continue to text me he had to do that)
We continued to text few months and my crush on him grew.
A few months after our first text conversation one of my friends added me to a group chat which included him and one of his friends. (A past crush of mine) well weeks into the group chat. The other boy began to be a jerk and eventually that lead to both of them bullying me. Last November I ended our friendship when the bullying got out of hand. Me and my crush had a big fight and didn’t speak to each other for weeks, I hated him. Months after the fight I told my mom (and to my horror) they made me talk to him. After weeks of stressing over talking to this boy I still liked (ik maybe a bad idea) I finally pulled him aside after church.
The conversation went well. I apologized for maybe pressuring him or making him feel uncomfortable and he apologized for saying the things he had. Now almost a year after our fight we’re friends and get along well.
The sad fact is that as I attend not one but two homeschool co-ops with him and the feelings have returned. Even more sad is that as I have realized these feelings I have also realized that off all the boys in my small town, he is one of the few who have similar virtues as my family and (though his friends bring about a less kind side of him) he is an amazing person and so so sweet! His parents have raised him well.
Just two days ago I told my friend my intention to ask him to our dance that we’re having in December. Her response was not at all what I expected. She swore that this was a bad idea. Not just because she remembered our situation a year ago but because, apparently, (I was completely unaware of this) he is talking to another girl.
I now suffer from heartbreak (again) because of this boy.
Do you guys have any advice?