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Tell a trusted adult and cling to her until someone good does something about it get her help these things are hard but please stay with her she needs her friends now more than ever!!! <333You have got this i believe in you girl!!!
Hey, I just want to say thank you for opening up. It sounds like you’ve been carrying a lot for Anna, and that’s incredibly kind—but also really hard. You’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed.Supporting someone through suicidal thoughts and trauma is not something anyone should have to do alone. You’ve been there for her in ways that show how much you care, but it’s also important to protect your own mental health. You deserve rest, peace, and support too.
Maybe it’s time to help Anna connect with someone who’s trained to help—like a therapist, school counselor, or a crisis line. You can still be her friend, but you don’t have to be her only lifeline. That’s too much for one person.
If you ever need help figuring out how to talk to her about getting support, or how to set boundaries without feeling guilty, I’m here for you. You’re doing your best, and that’s more than enough.
Okay I know that you want to help her but this is clearly taking a toll on your mental health too, and some times you need to prioritize yourself more than others, I know harsh, but you can’t go down while trying to push someone up. Then you’ll both be down. Try to communicate with her that although you want to help her you can’t always be there because you have your own things to do but make sure you tell her even if you don’t respond you are always supporting her. I suggest maybe somehow telling her she needs professional help or just someone else to talk to. This is coming for someone that has been in her position and much later being in your position. Unfortunately I lost a couple of friends because of both reasons so I say it’s best to let her reach out to other people because if she doesn’t it’s going to get worst but the best way to start helping depression is to reach out to someone they trust. If not an adult then a friend and then slowly find an adult to trust Hope this helps <3 PM me if you need anything hon, you’re so strong for helping her and yourself :)
I’m so glad I could get this off my chest <333
ok so basically the main person in the story…let’s call her Anna, has been my friend for a year. she has been suicidal for a while now, and I seriously don’t know what to do. she makes comments in a gc with my friends who Anna says “are her only real friends” I have supported her for a while, told her it would be okay for so long. But it’s getting too much. She sends these whole paragraphs about how she feels like everyone hates her and everyone talks bad about her, she also told me a story abt how in third grade, some boy tackled her and held her down till she couldn’t freaking breathe. I really love her, and I want her alive. But every single time Anna sends me some paragraph, she always wants a reply. And if I don’t I feel like im letting her down. But I don’t have the time to keep answering, staying up late answering so she feels better. Please tell me what to do bc I don’t want to let her down.