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2 July Chapter 1-11 1-18% Melindam - 3P
3 July Chapter 12-19 18-37% Leslie Ann - ESB
4 July Chapter 20 - 30 37-55% Lisa AG - Sky
5 July Chapter 31 - 43 55-74% Amanda - Eiffel
6 July Chapter 44 - 52 74-88% Christina - OoA Ex
7 July Chapter 53 - 59 88-100% Erin - Belem
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nom: Melindan - 3P
Erin - Belem
Judith - Belem BU
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Leslie Ann - ESB
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Leslie Ann - ESB
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Erin - Belem
Lexi - Belem Ex
Lisa AG - Sky Ex
Rina - Liz
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Definitely up for DQs and throwing in another token! OoooA
Volunteering for DQs, back up for Belem tower and I'll add a token
Volunteering for DQ's for Team Sky and I'll add a token too.
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I will back up Leslie on Team ESB!!!!
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My library holds on this are like 10 weeks so I can’t volunteer, lol. Oh well.
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My questions will probably come in incredibly early, or rather late, especially depending on where you are, BUT I'll manage and they'll definitely be there at some point!! (:
Happy with my day, thank you!
Same answer as Christina! But I can do it
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Hey, Newbie here. Thanks for letting me join in. Im super keen to read this book 🙂
I can do anyone's day if they need. I have completed the book a bit early :)
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)
1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
No, this is my first read of Backman's. I think I have seen a bit of the movie A Man Called Ove when my husband's been watching it. So quite happy to reading one of his finally. But it's not my usual read.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
The Bezos wedding maybe, LOL.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
Mmm, yet I got this as well from the opening chapters. To be honest I found the beginning quite depressive and cynical. And wasn't sure I was going to like his writing, or the book. But as I read on it has improved.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I'm thinking this is going to be the main narrative of the story. Her relationship with Ted and how the acquisition of the painting changes her life.. for the better maybe. Or differently..
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
I love Pre- Raphaelites. Rosetti, Waterhouse and Millais. Have seen their works in the Tate, London and when they travelled to the National Gallery, Canberra. Gorgeous works.
ay 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have read one other book by Backman, Beartown. Not sure if I am a fan of his writing style.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
This is a crazy world we live in right now. I read to escape the chaos so this book isnt helping! lol
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
No I don't agree. I think everyone can enjoy art even though they maynot be an artist. Art is there for interpretation. Everyone can interpret and get different things from art pieces.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
Not sure.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
I really like Monet.
Day 2 July 3Chapter 12-19 18-37%
#5. Joar mentions that his mom thinks the best invention in the world are pockets. I have seen a Meme that says a woman, when complimented on her dress will reply “It has pockets.” I love a good pocket. How do you feel about pockets?
#6. I must admit I am confused and intrigued about the artist. Who do you think the artist is? What is his or her significance in the story?
#7. I am loving the banter between Louisa and Ted. Louise is so precocious. What do you think of their relationship? Any ideas of what is to come between the two?
#8. In Chapter #19 we find more about the mentioned Ali. What is your impression of her?Any guesses on what happens next?
#9. Fredrick Backman has a way of pulling at your heartstrings. In Chapter 19 I both cried and laughed. The children's stories are both heartbreaking and heartwarming. How are you feeling about the book so far? Are you enjoying it?
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have read most of his books. I love his characters. He has a way of bringing out the best of even the most grumpiest characters.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
Not really, I read to enjoy and not think about politics.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
No I don’t agree. I think there are many types of art to appeal to many different people.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I think she is in for a big adventure.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
Van Gogh and his sunflower paintings and of course Starry Night.
1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?I have read lots of his books. I love his writing, but admittedly enjoy some of his less violent books more than a few of his heavier novels (even though there's often so much wisdom in the heavy stuff). And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer was a very cathartic read for me after my dad's illness and death. I will always be a fan of his.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
Now that you mention it, it brings to mind a few recent political issues that I won't delve into here. It also feels similar to the SpaceX flights that cost millions of dollars.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I think he's just trying to get us to appreciate that art is its own type of genius. You might be unsuccessful in many other academic pursuits, but could still be an artistic genius. And I do think it's true that many artists see the world in a different way. I just read an article about how some people see sound as color (synesthesia) and how several famous artists are known to have the condition. It's not a disorder, just a neurological trait that makes the way they experience life different from most other people.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I'm hoping she ends up living with Ted and that the painting somehow makes that happen.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
I don't necessarily have a favorite, but I recently discovered Liuidmila Kondakova at an art gallery in California and I love her work. We were just discussing that while we can't afford an original of hers, maybe we want to buy a few prints.
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%) 1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have read two or three of his, and I do like his style. He is very good at making characters believable, and likable, and generally I find his writing gives me comfort. Or makes me cry.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now? Very many parallels to the weird and awful way the world is now, yes. Shocking to read about super-rich people who don't act well or see anything beyond their own needs. Shocking.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I know a lot of artists, and they are not "better" people in general. I remember going to the modern art museum in Paris when I was 12, and seeing a bunch of stuff that just didn't make any sense to me. Later, after I took a ton of art history classes, I was able to understand what I had previously seen. I still don't want to own most art that is out there, but I do have an appreciation for it. I also frame pictures for a living, so I see a lot of crap. And, some amazing things. I do find that there are some wonderful people who are artists or art owners, and some very much not wonderful people in the same categories. I find that there are fewer young people into art than I noticed in years past, and I wonder if it is a product of art being taught in schools less than it used to be.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
Not yet, but it will be important throughout the story.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
Too hard of a question to answer fully. I love the old greek sculptures from the Minoan fertility goddesses to the Nike of Samothrace that is in The Louvre. The Bronze Zeus (or Poseidon) that is in the Athens National Museum gives me chills. Botticelli is probably my favorite painter ever, but that list of favorites is long. (I painted a reproduction of Botticelli's Pallas and the Centaur when I figured out I would never be able to own the original.)
Francis Bacon, for when I feel like having a nightmare. Alma-Tedema for when I want gorgeous figurative art in my life,
My current two favorite contemporary artists are Leah Kiser (feathered kitties) and Ida-Katherine Graver (pointillism).
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have read most of his other books - just missing the last in the Beartown series. So you can probably guess, I love his writing style. I think his thoughts speak to me.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
I think it's pretty insightful about possessing something out of love for it vs. for bragging rights, investment, etc. It was neat seeing how Louisa was the only one who really understood the painting.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I didn't feel like that was what Backman was saying. I think he was more saying how art can really speak to people, whether or not they are an artist. They just need to find their "thing".
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I guessing she'll meet the surviving kids on the dock. I'm HOPING she'll become an artist, or at least find people who care about her.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
I've loved Michaelangelo's sculptures. Seeing them in person is amazing.
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have read quite a few of his books, including A Man Called Ove several times. I love his easy style of telling a story. It seems so simple, until suddenly it isn't.
2. In the first chapter we are introduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
I don't read enough news, so I don't know what you might be referring to.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I think it is is a generalization. I didn't get the feeling that Backman feels this way, but rather that he sees artists seeing/feeling this way.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I've read the whole book, so my lips are sealed!
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
Degas' ballerinas! And in total contrast to that, I have a well-loved Thomas Kinkade on canvas that I love to look at.
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#5. Joar mentions that his mom thinks the best invention in the world are pockets. I have seen a Meme that says a woman, when complimented on her dress will reply “It has pockets.” I love a good pocket. How do you feel about pockets?
They are an absolute necessity!
#6. I must admit I am confused and intrigued about the artist. Who do you think the artist is? What is his or her significance in the story?
I have finished the book, so I'll stay quiet on this one. Although I do remember feeling that knowing more about him was central to the story.
#7. I am loving the banter between Louisa and Ted. Louise is so precocious. What do you think of their relationship? Any ideas of what is to come between the two?
I love them. I was rooting for him to adopt her (not necessarily legally, but just to take her in) for the whole book.
#8. In Chapter #19 we find more about the mentioned Ali. What is your impression of her?Any guesses on what happens next?
I liked Ali. (view spoiler)
#9. Fredrick Backman has a way of pulling at your heartstrings. In Chapter 19 I both cried and laughed. The children's stories are both heartbreaking and heartwarming. How are you feeling about the book so far? Are you enjoying it?
It was one of my favorite Backman stories. I actually only rated it 3 stars at the time I read it, but I may go back and change that. When I read it I felt that the translation on this one was not as well done as previous books of his. I have recently learned that this is the first book he wrote mostly in English.
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
Britt-Marie Was Here & A Man Called Ove are my favourites by him. I also read Beartown, which was a compelling, but very heavy read for me. There is somethin gin his style that grabs me by the throat and pulls me in from the start.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
Just like Lisa, I thought of JB's wedding in Venice. :)
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I am not an artist, I am mostly a very prosaic person, and while I appreciate visual arts, music has the strongest effect on me. I can well imagine that people with a different nervous system may be more likely to become artists and have a different way to see and appreciate the world.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
Whatever happens to the painting, I hope that Louisa will find her kind of happiness! Although with Backman you never know.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
I have lots, from the visual arts, I have styles that touch me while there are those I just "don't get".
I particularly like the Pre-Raphaelites, the Impressionists and Art Nouveau.
For the more brain-confounding art, I like the Hungarian Victor Vasarely, who is called the grandfather of Op-Art.
https://vasarely.hu/mutargyak/15225/
David Bowie's 2nd studio album, featured his work on the cover. 😊
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_B...
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#5. Joar mentions that his mom thinks the best invention in the world are pockets. I have seen a Meme that says a woman, when complimented on her dress will reply “It has pockets.” I love a good pocket. How do you feel about pockets?
Pockets are good.. My favourite comic the awesome Sarah Millican did a whole routine about pockets in her dress and what they may or may not contain. 😁
#6. I must admit I am confused and intrigued about the artist. Who do you think the artist is? What is his or her significance in the story?
It is noticeable that the artist's real name is not divulged as yet. Is it ever going to be revealed? Does it matter? It's like he is an observer or narrator as the tale is being told. Interesting.
#7. I am loving the banter between Louisa and Ted. Louise is so precocious. What do you think of their relationship? Any ideas of what is to come between the two?
They are two sad and needy people looking for connection. Hope they find a home in each other.
#8. In Chapter #19 we find more about the mentioned Ali. What is your impression of her?Any guesses on what happens next?
Tragedy. Big time coming..
#9. Fredrick Backman has a way of pulling at your heartstrings. In Chapter 19 I both cried and laughed. The children's stories are both heartbreaking and heartwarming. How are you feeling about the book so far? Are you enjoying it?
This is one of those books where you can appreciate the writing, but is heartwrenching to read. Luckily there is a some wry humour between the sad parts or I would find it unbearable!
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have read three of his books and gave them all either a 4 or 5, so i would have to say I enjoyed his themes as well as realistic characters. His writing style works for me as well.
2. In the first chapter we are intfoduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
Unfortunately, yes, it certainly did; however, I try very hard not to think about the negativity in this world, especially not focus on it when I'm reading. I used to teach high school students and I always told them that it's easy to be negative, but being positive makes life so much more enjoyable and to focus on the positive. I TRULY remove myself from negativity.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another aspect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalization?
I totally disagree. I do believe that artists see the world and art work, perhaps, in different ways than non-artists; however, I think we each find meaning in art in our own ways and we use our own life experiences to interpret artwork however we see it. There will always be varied and unique interpretations from person to person.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I'm not sure what to think at this point, but I assume since it's such a focus of the story that it's going to be an important factor in her life. What happens to the painting? No good prediction.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
OK, I have to be honest and say that my favorite artists are two of my granddaughters. One is now 25 and she is AMAZING! She's won art contests for her school district when in high school and the things she can do has blown me away. My other is my 7 year old granddaughter who is obviously an artist in the making.
As to well-known / professional artists I would have to say the Sistene Chapel and The Last Judgment by Michelangelo. They are both breathtakingly gorgeous and they have such meaning in history.
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
This is actually my first book by Fredrik Backman, and I'm really happy this BOM finally makes me read him :)
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
I didn't really think about it beforehand but I agree with everything which has been mentioned so far lol. It's wild how rich people are so proud of spending so much (uneccessary) money withough considering anyone or anything else eg OUR PLANET.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I don't know if they are better people (probably not, let's face it) but I do think a lot of their minds work quite differently. Do we have any artists among us? 👀
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting. Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I don't think she'll end up selling it, but if she does I'm sure it'll find its way back to her again.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
Quite cliché but my favourite artist is Vincent Van Gogh and of course my favourite art piece is Starry Night ✨ since I'm Austrian I also quite like Gustav Klimt though, and even have a tattoo of Klimt's Judith with parts of Starry Night and Sunflowers surrounding it!
If we wanna go more contemporary though my fave is definitely Sophie Tea, I love her drawings and sculptures!!
Christina, have you read Christopher Moore's new book?
Klimt and Judith are characters in it.
My favourite paiting by Klimt is Danaè. :)
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I have not read anything by him before but if this continues how it's going for me so far that will change! I'm fully engrossed and so very much enjoying the writing style and characters
2. In the first chapter we are introduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
I mean, I pretty much always have an "eat the rich" mentality so this definitely brought up those thoughts lol.
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another aspect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I don't agree with artists being "better people" but I do think there's a pretty big divide just in thought. I'm not an artistic person at all and most art goes completely over my head, but my mom is an artist through and through. We can look at the same thing and see something completely different and I will never understand why she sees something different. I think it's fascinating.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting.
Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
Ooooh okay, wild guess. I think she's going to use it as Fish's gravestone.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
As aforementioned, I'm not really an artistic person and most if it just does not make sense to me lol
#5. Joar mentions that his mom thinks the best invention in the world are pockets. I have seen a Meme that says a woman, when complimented on her dress will reply “It has pockets.” I love a good pocket. How do you feel about pockets?I love pockets. I had them added to my wedding dress
#6. I must admit I am confused and intrigued about the artist. Who do you think the artist is? What is his or her significance in the story?
I think he was the glue of the friendship, but honestly until reading every one else's response I thought he was truly just one of "the boys". I'm more intrigued now
#7. I am loving the banter between Louisa and Ted. Louise is so precocious. What do you think of their relationship? Any ideas of what is to come between the two?
Love it so much! I think Louise desperately needs to be cared for and I think Ted desperately needs someone to care for. I think they're going to stay together unless Backman wants to rip out my heart
#8. In Chapter #19 we find more about the mentioned Ali. What is your impression of her?Any guesses on what happens next?
There's been foreshadowing of many deaths hitting us over the head so I'm assuming nothing good. But I kept thinking that Ted thought Louisa reminded the artist of Joar, but now I'm thinking it's probably Ali.
#9. Fredrick Backman has a way of pulling at your heartstrings. In Chapter 19 I both cried and laughed. The children's stories are both heartbreaking and heartwarming. How are you feeling about the book so far? Are you enjoying it?
I'm loving this so much!! I'm also sobbing a lot lol
Jenny wrote: "Christina, have you read Christopher Moore's new book? Klimt and Judith are characters in it."
Don't know if the book is for me but uff that cover!!!!! And I have to admit I had to look up Danaè, I don't even remember seeing it at the Immersive Experience /exhibition in Vienna a few years ago 😲
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#5. Joar mentions that his mom thinks the best invention in the world are pockets. I have seen a Meme that says a woman, when complimented on her dress will reply “It has pockets.” I love a good pocket. How do you feel about pockets?
Pockets in dresses are everything!!!! Pockets in women's jeans however? Basically useless the size they are.
#6. I must admit I am confused and intrigued about the artist. Who do you think the artist is? What is his or her significance in the story?
I don't know if the artist's name is important. He's dead now, and I don't think there have been any adults of significance (who he could be) been mentioned. I'm also fairly certain Louise and the artist met by chance, so he's not secretly related to her in any way.
#7. I am loving the banter between Louisa and Ted. Louise is so precocious. What do you think of their relationship? Any ideas of what is to come between the two?
I do like their banter as well but I wonder where their relationship is going. There's a fairly big age difference between them and while I don't think they'll end up in a romantic relationship (at least I would hope not 😬). Maybe he'll take her under his wing and they will form a proper friendship. He'll definitely support her in her drawing!
#8. In Chapter #19 we find more about the mentioned Ali. What is your impression of her? Any guesses on what happens next?
Confident young girl on the outside, broken inside like all of them. I would hope they just moved again, but that's probably not the case I'm afraid :/
#9. Fredrick Backman has a way of pulling at your heartstrings. In Chapter 19 I both cried and laughed. The children's stories are both heartbreaking and heartwarming. How are you feeling about the book so far? Are you enjoying it?
I do quite enjoy it, but somehow just like our last Adult BOM the book kinda reminds me of Taylor Jenkins Reid with the flashbacks. And I did get emotional as well although I have to say I don't even remember when/why oops.
DAY 3 DQ'S CHAPTERS 20-30 10. "Art is coincidence. Love is Chaos."
"Art is a small break from human despair."
Do you agree? Discuss these quotes in relation to the book and real life in general.
11. We still don't know the artist's real name and now we find out he isn't even in the picture! What do you think is the author's intention in regards to the Artist's role throughout the novel? And how about the significance of the title of the picture, " The One of the Sea instead of the Artist's thoughts it should have been called, The Boys and Her?
12. Louise asks Ted, "Were you two a couple?" In light of how the relationship is written were you surprised by his answer?
13. This novel is full of big emotions, real life hardships, death and tragedy but connected and possibly redeemed by the beauty in meaningful and fragile human relationships. The Artist and his friends, Christian and the Artist, Ted and the Artist, Ali and Joar, Ted and Louisa, Fish and Louisa... Which relationship has made the most impression on you? Which one do you think is pivotal to the storyline?
14. Chapter 30 - Louisa leaves the picture then gets off the train when Ted is asleep. Did you see that happening, what do you think will happen next? Ted and Louisa reconnecting or big tragedy? (More tissues needed!)
Day 1, Chapters 1-11 (1-18%)1. Warm-up question: have you read any other books by Fredrik Backman before? If yes, what do you like/dislike about his themes/style, etc?
I've read a couple. Loved A Man Called Ove and Things My Son Needs to Know About the World, didn't like Beartown as much as everyone else does.
2. In the first chapter we are intorduced to quite a memorable auction scene with super-rich people who all want to possess THE PAINTING, though their intentions are questionable. Did this make you think of some similar events happening in the world right now?
Not sure what you're referring to...
3. "Artists vs Normal People" - another apsect of these first chapters is the great divide between true artists and normal people. Backman seems to suggest that most people don't/cannot get true art and artists are so much more different (possibly better people?). Do you agree with this? Or is it a generalisation?
I didn't get that he was suggesting artists are better. But I do agree that artists see things differently than "normal" people.
4. In a sequence of weird events, Louisa ends up in possession of The Painting. Any guesses what may happen to her and to it?
I think she needs to sell it to live, since she has no money and is homeless. But it is important (sentimental) to her so I can also see her keeping it in the end.
Bonus Q: do you have a favourite artist or a favourite piece of painting/sculpture?
I like some of the classic impressionist artists like Monet and Van Gogh, but mostly like contemporary modern art. Can't say I have any favorites but I do enjoy and have an appreciation of all art.
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#5. Joar mentions that his mom thinks the best invention in the world are pockets. I have seen a Meme that says a woman, when complimented on her dress will reply “It has pockets.” I love a good pocket. How do you feel about pockets?
I rarely buy any clothing for myself that has pockets but it's not purposeful. If I do buy pants with pockets, I rarely use them. They're neither here nor there.
#6. I must admit I am confused and intrigued about the artist. Who do you think the artist is? What is his or her significance in the story?
Not sure who The Artist is, but I think the he might be the homeless man. The way they are bonding over art and how he seems to know and love art, it could be him. I think The Artist's significance is going to be the bonding over art itself and that the characters will find comfort in one another because they all seem to be grappling with depression over a life trauma of different sorts. They are what I'd call a Found Family.
#7. I am loving the banter between Louisa and Ted. Louisa is so precocious. What do you think of their relationship? Any ideas of what is to come between the two?
I love the kind of banter that occurs between them. It makes for a fun read. Ted seems more sharp and funny; whereas Louisa is more precocious, guarded and quick-witted. She's definitely trying to cover up her pain, and Ted is a bit patronizing. I think the main thing is they're going to become "healers" for each other by becoming friends who can commiserate with the other.
#8. In Chapter #19 we find more about the mentioned Ali. What is your impression of her? Any guesses on what happens next?
Ali is a little firecracker and she appears to me to be the boldest of the characters so far. I enjoy her sarcasm and how she is so transparent. I think she could somehow become the impetus for positive change in others. That seems to be her personality type.
#9. Fredrik Backman has a way of pulling at your heartstrings. In Chapter 19 I both cried and laughed. The children's stories are both heartbreaking and heartwarming. How are you feeling about the book so far? Are you enjoying it?
I am definitely enjoying the book so far and I agree that I've laughed and teared up / choked up. Hearing the stories of each one is so hard to hear (read about). I worry about Ali because she seems to come from the most unstable home, potentially unsafe home. I worry (but hope not) that she might die or something tragic will happen to her but I hope for a HEA.
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"The world is full of miracles, but none greater than how far a young person can be carried by someone else's belief in them."
Most people don’t even notice them—three tiny figures sitting at the end of a long pier in the corner of one of the most famous paintings in the world. Most people think it’s just a depiction of a wide expanse of sea. But Louisa, soon to be eighteen years old and an aspiring artist herself, knows otherwise. She is determined to find out the story behind these three enigmatic figures.
More than two decades before, in a distant seaside town, a group of teenagers find refuge from their bruising home lives by spending long summer days on an abandoned pier telling silly jokes, sharing secrets, and committing small acts of rebellion. These lost souls find in each other a reason to get up every morning, a reason to dream, a reason to love.
Out of that summer emerges a transcendent work of art, a painting that, after a chance encounter in an alleyway, will unexpectedly be placed into Louisa’s care. She embarks on a surprise-filled cross-country journey to discover how the painting came to be and to decide what to do with it. The closer she gets to the painting’s birthplace, the more anxious she becomes about what she'll find. Louisa's complicated life is proof that happy endings are sometimes possible, but they don't always take the form we expect them to.
Fredrik Backman's signature charm, humor, and attention to the poignant details of everyday life are on full display in this funny, moving novel. His most heartfelt and personal tale yet, My Friends is a stunning testament to the transformative, timeless power of art and friendship.
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nominator: Melindam
official page count: 448 pages