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guys i need help on rumours going round about me like 15/16+
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i also get that my problems aren’t as bad as some peoples on here but i genuinely feel like crap rn over this
oh darling that's a horrible thing to be going through and I'm so sorry that happened to you. He can go suffer and die, he deserves to be treated like shit for ruining your life, if I were there I would've stood up for you and fought him no matter what people think or say. I care about you and I don't like to see or hear that you're suffering and experiencing a tough situation/problem. You deserve so much better darling.If I were there next to you, I would hug you and tell you that I'll be by your side no matter what happens. That's what friend are supposed to do, be there for eachother.
I know I can't do anything and I'm not someone who can give amazing advice, but I'll try my best to be there for you and support you throughout the process.
We love you and we care about you a lot.
Lots of hugs and kisses.
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Xoxo
omg thank you so much that means literally so much to me rn i could cry. 💗💗
Seriously, bullying is never okay and I had to deal with that when I was in school as well. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this, and having to fight what people think about you. I am not great for advice but I can tell you that honestly, once you're out of school, everything stops mattering. When you hit 30 being a virgin or not is no longer even a thought, even if you are, because you start to realize that what other people think really doesn't matter. If you can, talk to the school. If he's spreading crap about you and you have anyone who will back you up, report the bullying. Tell someone because it needs to stop.
I am so sorry you are dealing with this and I really hope all of the stupid crap they are thinking passes soon, because the next big thing will catch their attention soon. Huge hugs to you. YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID and it MATTERS that you are being hurt. You matter.
georgia 🎧☁️ wrote: "guys i’m literally gonna have a breakdown even tho i feel like this isn’t even this serious 😭basically i’ve found out quite a few times over the past few weeks that my ex bf that i broke up with i..."
girl I need you to tell him that he has no right to do that and that he needs to stop because you guys are over and he needs to get on with his new gf instead of worrying about his Ex because you dont deserve to be treated like that no one does and the fact that he is treating you like that is so shitty but you need to ignore him or he will try to make things worse i know how you feel the same thing has happened to me like the EXACT thing and the best thing to do is to get him to prove over text that none of that happened and show it to the hatters so they know he is lying for attention the fact that he even had to do that is cruel and you cant just sit back and watch
I hope you take my advice I don't want anyone getting hurt also I know the chat says 15-16+ but I'm 13 😅
Also telling a teacher wont do anything you need to stand up for yourself!
oh my god hi georgia your situation really sucks i don't even think this is a small issue. i hope you're not beating urself up about it too much, i'm sending lots of virtual hugs ok? 🥰 you need to stay strong and stand up for yourself. those people who don't even know you and give u nasty looks are not worth your time, pretend like you didn't see those stares and keep going. i know it's hard but don't let it look like it's affecting you because that's what that guy wants. he wants a reaction out of you. but if u stay strong and make it clear to those busy bodies that what he's spreading is untrue it's up to them to believe it or not. you did your part. if your friends ask you about it i think it's good to explain this to them as well so they can stand up for you bc this is so unfair of that guy to say such lies about you what is wrong with him 😭 i hope this kind of helps and i'm sorry to hear that he got tgt with the girl he told you not to worry about (this feels like an olivia rodrigo song 😭) but right now what you need to do is keep on staying strong because you know the truth and that's what matters. don't let him get to you he's out for attention and probably enjoys this whole thing so you need to indirectly show him how childish he's behavior is by acting calm about it. i wish u all the best sweetheart if there are any updates do let us know 💞💞
thank you so much for the advice and support. i’m off of school currently for a week for the halloween break so i’m hoping everything may blow over 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hi Georgia I'm sorry that happened to you He's a dump shit and you got rid of him .......be happy abt that
Cuz he don't deserve kinda girl like you
He's trying to be the better guy infront of everyone cuz he's literally the opposite of it
He'll pay for it eventually.......god!! I really hope he does
Don't weaken yourself kaay .....be strong and ignore them
Be happy ......my prayers are with uu💖💖
Girl, I’m really sorry you’re go through that, I had a similar experience and it really sucks. First of all, if you’re having a breakdown because of it or it’s important for you then it’s not arbitrary and it does matter, no matter if you feel like other people’s problems are worse than yours. About your problem I’d recommend showing proof of what really happened BUT ONLY TO YOUR FRIENDS or people who you really care about what they think, because even if you didn’t have your v-card, it’s no one’s business, and if the people at your school prefer to believe random rumors about you instead of having critical thought or simply not giving a damn about other people’s lives (as it should be), that speaks more about them than it does about you. Please, try not to come crashing down for other people’s opinions, specially strangers! I know it’s hard to do, but once you start focusing only on yourself and friends that are actually worth it, you become ten times happier!!!kisses, and stay safe darling 🫶🏻🫶🏻
your ex sucks I hope he gets karma
Alice🎃˚୨୧⋆｡˚ ⋆ wrote: "your ex sucks I hope he gets karma"JEEZ!!!! your damn brutal...
@alice fr girl same here. praying he does get karma
also update i think i’m starting to get over what he’s said about as i know that it’s not true at all, and since i’ve got the next week off i’m praying that it’s all going to blow over by the time we go back. i’m defo going to focus on myself for a while now. thank you everybody for the advice and support it means so much to me ily all <333
i’m so sorry to anybody who’s also had to go through what i’m going through. boys are assholes 😭
What a bitch ass ex. I’m sorry I can’t help idrk I’ve never had a rumor very bad spread. I think I had one once and I just started crying and everyone made a switcharoo and a girl beat the shit out of the guy who spread it so u could try that 😊😊
georgia 🎧☁️ wrote: "i’m so sorry to anybody who’s also had to go through what i’m going through. boys are assholes 😭"I've gone through the same thing just get him to admit what he did over text and show it to the school or pretend that you don't give a shit and they all forget after a month.😃
why does your ex sound like a psycho
@vivían he is trust me he’s an ass. and was horrible to me and then made out i bullied him when i did nothing of the sort 😭😭
@georgia omg girly im so sorry ur going through this. he is such a loser for saying that, it's good that you left when you did :(((ik it's hard but try to ignore them and if you can't maybe tell someone in school? hopefully it will all blow over soon, but he deserves sm worse for this. sending hugs <333333
about your update, i'm glad that there is a break because that helps to let the whole situation blow over, soon there will be new tea and it's great that you're focusing on yourself now 😍 keep doing things that make you happy (like reading!!) and soon that stupid guy will be nothing but a memory. i agree with the others, he deserves karma to strike when he least expects it 😝
vivían . wrote: "why does your ex sound like a psycho"because they literally are
♡︎ L i l j a ♡︎ wrote: "Fuck him(SORRY BUT HE DESERVES IT) and yes boys are sooo stupid j hate them (that’s why I prefer girls🤭)"honestly I like both but girls are less drama
@alicia fr fr girls do have drama but it just blows over so quickly. genuinely why i like girls more 😭
hey guys thanks for the support and love it means the world to me. just wanted to give you guys an update that everything seems to have blown over nobody’s talking bout me anymore i’m still getting dirty looks but that normal for me now tbh. i’m still focusing on myself and my mock exams that are happening rn. 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
You’ve already told me everything about this Georgia but ugh he can go fuck himself im so glad everybody knows his real side now🤭
basically i’ve found out quite a few times over the past few weeks that my ex bf that i broke up with in july has been spreading rumours about me saying that i bullied him while we were dating when he was the one who treat me like crap and i suspect had another girl towards the end of when we were dating as he’s openly dating her now (the girl he told me not to worry about) and now i found out at lunch that he’s been spreading that we were having sex and making me out to be a slut. we never went that far and i’ve never done that with anyone. it’s pissing me off coz he’s literally spreading it through my school (1000+ people) and i’m getting dirty looks from people who don’t even know me. i’ve even had my friends asking me if i still have me v-card 😭 and it’s getting rlly personal rn coz i’m not that popular as it is and he has quite a few friends through so many years at my school that it’s going around so quickly.
i literally dunno what to do and i kinda feel like i’m taking it too personally 😭