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i’m trying to be positive and lovey with her but i’m scared when i’m with her because i see her getting tense and i’m scared she might hurt me
tell an adult. your parents, family, a guardian, and her parents. she isn't even a friend at this point, she's a danger to your safety and the safety of those around her. she needs serious help. PLEASE tell a trusted adult and STAY AWAY from her. wishing you the best.
i’m just scared because she’s pretty strong and told me she fantasizes about HURTING me and other people but ‘eSpEcIaLlY mE’ also it’s impossible for me to ghost her because she’s all lovey and open with me, then the next day she’s gone and ghosts me. and when she’s gone, especially after we’ve just been so close, i feel an empty pit.
she’s into psychology and has openly admitted it’s a manipulation tactic to get me hooked on her, and it’s working. i can’t leave
UMM. did you ever ask why she feels the need to hurt other people? and even if she is joking that's not something to play around with. and idk how young y'all are but if she threatens like that a lot she needs professional help.
but I agree with the others please tell someone.
okay but she only recently said it was a manipulation tactic and it’s been YEARS of this on and off behavior i never understood what i was doing wrong but apparently she just wanted me attached and infatuated with her or something
you should tell an adult. it sounds like you're in genuine danger. remove yourself
definitely tell someone that's not normal behavior and she needs someone who can mentally help her. no offense
Yeah, she needs professional help. But ghosting her wouldn't be a good idea, because until now she threatened you, who knows what she will do if she knew you're ghosting her? She would actually try to kill you and yeah, so don't try that.
Definitely tell someone, your parents, her parents if you can. And definitely minimize or completely stop contact if you feel like she's actually going to act on these urges. The main thing is to stay safe
That is NOT okay. What she's thinking isn't (and no offense) normal. No one should be fantasizing hurting their friend or killing them. You need to tell someone and get her help. I understand she's your friend but theirs certain things you gotta prioritize in life. In this situation, you need to prioritize yourself and your safety.Please, please be safe.
girl u go rn and tell your parents, and honestly idk if youre in school but if u are id consider telling the principal or whatever. this girl could actually be a threat to u and other kids.
hi! so this is actually insane ! If you have genuine fear about your own safety it is not okay to keep quiet and wait for things to possibly escalate. You should definitely inform an adult (be it parents, school councilor, teacher etc.) and you need to do your best to distance yourself away from this girl and definitely do not hangout with her alone
Hi! I used to study psychology so I know what I'm talking about. From the things you said, these are the symptoms of a psychopathic subject. It's a disorder and it's not her fault she's the way she is. It's too little to make assumptions, but I highly suggest talking with someone, because she can be a danger to herself and to other people. I don't know how old you are, but you must be aware that she might actually do what she says. I'm sorry to say this, but psychopathic subjects cannot feel emotions like we do; I don't think she loves you the way you love her, but just because she doesn't know what love is.Please, ask for help
im sorry but maybe you need to drop her. if your like the only person shes told this too and shes talking about doing bad stuff to you maybe being her friend isn't worth it
also yeah shes crazy and a threat to you and other people and maybe even herself she needs help ASAP
i tried speaking up a bit but everyone called me a liar.also she was so calm and nice today idk what switched then she tried gaslighting me into believing we never had that convo
she's a Psychopath probably, their good at manipulating people's emotions. Stay away from her, dont go near her or whenever your near her have an adult around
who did you speak too ? if she says these things on text ss them.
someone your age may not believe you but an adult would.
Please be careful around her , I’m not trying to be rude but she is acting like a psychopath and you need tell someone immediately before she does anything to you that can harm you’re life
Omg. That is delulu behavior. No offense but she’s crazy. U need to tell someone.
whoa whoa whoagirly what?! she sounds slightly psychotic, you need to tell someone and get help for her, she could be dangerous to herself and you/ others
please take care of yourself and get help, this sounds really serious
Whoaaa vivian ik everyone said the same but you really should keep the distance, maybe do it a bit slowly bcz who knows what would happen if you outright cut ties with her after being so close the day before, but m not well advised in these things so don’t rely heavily on my advice, maybe ask some people or look up the best way to cut ties because that girl is dangerous
a friend would not threaten you ,you should try and get help for both of you
Oh dear, so sorry that you're going through that. I'm worried for your safety. Regardless of how good of a friend or if whatever she says is true or not, I think it is affecting you. You should probably confide in a trusted adult or other friends who can keep a lookout for you! Cutting her off immediately sounds dangerous too. So perhaps, start expanding your social circle and slowly distancing yourself from her. Or you can always encourage her to seek help if she's willing.
Here’s my advice: If she was ever a good friend to you or you think that she deserves to get mentally treated (not sure if that’s the word for it), then you should definitely talk to her parents when she’s not around and tell them about everything that she says and does that’s terrifying you (If they don’t already know) and try to kindly mention that she needs to talk to a therapist or something and I guarantee that they would think about it straight away before you even mention it. Good luck!Ps: I’m only a teen so if u don’t find this helping then it’s totally fine.
vivían . wrote: "my friend and i were talking about the barbie princess movie when suddenly it becomes a discussion about her mental health and she told me ‘i have never felt empathy and i have urges to hurt people..."i think you should tell a very trusted adult about this stuff. id advise you to stay away from her because this isn’t something a normal person to do. maybe if you have a counselor or therapist or even the police honestly. just be safe with her, if you tell a trusted adult she would probably have to go through mental therapy and stay at a mental hospital.
she crazy fr hope she gets help and hope your okay ml <3
Zack wrote: "Girls like that need to be thrown into an all-male prison so they can clap her booty cheeks :p"wtlf is wrong w you dude
Vivian, you know that it's better to be safe than sorry right? So I think you should tell your parents or her parents or do anything you can to save yourself. Also, you said she openly talks about how she feels right? Maybe you should try to do the same and tell her that you don't like how she talks about hurting you, it's terrifying, tell her in a polite way so that you won't offend her but if you still wanna be friends with her, I would suggest that you should never be alone with her, be with her in some public place
okay so happy and long update!!-told my parents, they told her parents, she’s in therapy and counseling now
-the girl thanked me for telling someone because she didn’t know how to tell her parents and didn’t know how to get help for herself but she really wanted it so she thanked me for getting her help
-she’s doing better in therapy and began to understand empathy & its importance, however she’s only been to a couple sessions so far but she seems to be better at understanding emotions + impulse control so i genuinely hope the best for her because i think she truly wanted to change and understand people better
-she apologized for everything :) i’m still in contact with her which is how i know the one above this but obvs it’s going to take time for her to fully improve (she might never) but i think her actually wanting to be better really helps her progress
also to @zach:
why say that? what do you achieve by saying that? you realize you’re talking about A MINOR. right? she’s literally a MINOR and MULTIPLE YEARS UNDER 18 YRS OLD so respectfully stfu
(also, even if she WAS over eighteen, it’s still messed up because you can’t say stuff like that to ANYONE, regardless of age.)
i realized his comment is gone, so maybe he deleted it or was removed, so that’s good! i just wanted to express how messed up that was because she’s a real person who’s going through issues so the last thing she needs is some rando sxualizing her.
also the reason she only got counseling and not more severe rehabilitation is because of her age (we’re both fourteen turning fifteen this year, but she’s a couple months younger than i am) so they figured it’s better to get them therapy/help her while she’s still relatively young :))
Hey, you're really brave for all of this and I hope you and everyone involved is doing okay and continues to have patience, understanding, and most of all kindness. One takeaway from my extensive years in therapy is that it's not about "fixing" someone or "solving" their issues, setbacks, etc. People are not problems or projects.
It's more so about managing every day life and its challenges, discovering yourself, discovering the world and seeing it from other perspectives when the therapist creates and fosters the safe space to talk about such topics and pose questions for later reflection alone and in follow-up sessions.
That's what I think at least; that's not to say every experience is like my current one. I've had bad ones in the past too that made me reconsider seeking help and unfortunately I know people who have bad experiences. They don't go back oftentimes to try with another therapist.
Finding and fostering one's inner power, strength, and peace is a therapist's super power in a way! It's cool.
Anyway, didn't mean to rant, but I hope your friendship with her grows stronger through this. Human connection and self growth/improvement is important for healing and living a life of contentment, happiness, etc.
Hey, Vivian! So happy to read your update! It must have been really difficult for you to make that choice. It may not be an easy journey for your friend and yourself as her support system. It's wonderful that you care for her and I hope that while you continue to do that, you stay kind to yourself and put yourself first. Sending love and good vibes to you and your friend! 🙌🏾❤️
i ask ‘so you have dark thought about hurting people?’ she says ‘yes, but i only act on them 50% of the time. it’s small things like their pulling out hair strands or lightly punching them’
i was scared because she always pulls and plays with my hair. i ask her ‘what about bigger stuff?’ she looks at me straight and says ‘i’ve thought of throwing you out the window a bunch of times.’
then she threatened to actually kill me.
we talked a bit and i told her i trust her and i’m glad she trusted me enough to open up and she said ‘it’s hard, but thanks’
but now i’m scared because she texted me ‘actually, i want to strangle you tomorrow. can we meet up?’ and we talked over text about how she’s never allowed to feel her own emotions which made her indifferent to others. then we talked about her upbringing and she said ‘yeah il my parents, i just hate everyone’
so we talked more and she opened up and i told her i’m always there for her BUT IM AWKWARD IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS AND COMFORTING PEOPLE
and now i’m scared and walking on eggshells around her. she’s way stronger than i am. the more i think about it, the more she could hurt me. i wouldn’t be able to fight back. i’m scared because she keeps saying ‘i want to hurt someone rn’ randomly. help wwyd