At my school, every few years, classes are mixed, and this year, they were mixed. Two of my really good friends went out in a different class than mine, and before the year started, we were really upset both because of the classes themselves but also because we are not together. Long story short, they tried to transfer to my class but were told they had to start in their class before they could transfer. Two weeks ago the year started and I was really pleasantly surprised by my class! I was able to open up to people and make new friends. It really doesn't suit me because I'm usually really closed off and can't make new friends. Then I realized it's because I'm not in the class with them, and that I don't want them to move to my class... because I know that once they move, they'll expect me to be with them a lot, and don't get me wrong, I love them very much but I finally managed to open up, I don't want to miss it. And when I'm with them it's a bit closed... Now I believe that one of them will understand me if I talk to them about it, but the other one will be really offended and I'm 100% sure that she won't understand me and I don't know what to do. Because on the one hand I really love them, but on the other hand I don't want to miss this opportunity, it's the first time I really enjoy coming to school...
sorry it's so long♡ Also, English is not my first language, so I might have some mistakes
that's nice that you're making new friends that never really happened to me in hs rip. maybe you'll get really lucky and they won't move but if they do and that one girl is offended that's not your fault. you have the opportunity to make friends and meet new people. plus you never have to give people an explanation. if your currents friends can't except you making other friends (cus that's what human beings do) than oh well !
totally get that . i was friends with a girl a while ago and she was lowkey kinda my only friend at school besides 2 surface level friends but now that im not her friend ive became a lot more confident and made new friends. id suggest talking to the one u think will understand but if u think there holding u back then its not a beneficial friendship
sorry it's so long♡ Also, English is not my first language, so I might have some mistakes