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Savannah
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Sep 09, 2024 07:56PM
Me too. I wish I could just leave the house. But with the potential situation happening rn, idk if that’s even going to be an option.
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it’s good to know, I also was getting worried <3
For those of you who haven’t seen my other post, I think I’m pregnant.
@lilja we did but idk smth might have happened
Savannah, Look I don't know about you, but I've read that stress can actually delay your period. So...
@grey it’s never been late before, it’s always been regular. I’m pretty sure, but I’m going to buy a test after school today.
Savannah my love you’re 13, it hasn’t been thaat long since you had your first period! Your cycle can definitely change! Even if it’s always been regular, most girls have cycle changes at some point! Actually i remember when i was exactly 13 my cycle had shortened suddenly one day and it stayed like that for years and then at 16 it suddenly changed back to how it was at first! Your period can get late because of stress, or if you’re ill, or if you had gained or lost weight! Def do a test but don’t panic!
Well It’s been exactly the same for three years, so idk. And why would it have skipped last month?
In case you guys haven’t seen my other post, I’m pregnant.
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The topic is OMGGGGG and a bunch of random letters I don’t jv the patience to type out. She mentioned it there
Guys idk what to do. Everyone’s talking about me, and I don’t know who to trust anymore. I just wanna kms
Go to a therapist and seek professional help. stop just asking random ing people on Goodreads for help as much as we care about you this is not the correct or healthy response to the trauma you have been through. You are 13 and I can see you making poor decisions in all areas of you life. You need help. Sorry for being blunt.
@sofi well sorry that this is how I cope, and sorry that very decision I make is poor. If you don’t approve of this, stop wasting your time and stop commenting
@sav she was just saying you need help. everyone can benefit from therapy it sure has helped me and opened me to new perspectives. killing yourself isn't the answer you have so much to live for. you may not see it in the moment but you do. new people to meet. places to see. new foods to try. adventures awaiting. there are good things ahead.
people will talk. nothing you can do about it but don't let it get to you. block out the noise.
Sav All of us will try to help you as much as we can and remember we are here for you but maybe a therapist can help you way more than we can, if you don’t want a therapist don’t worry and I’ll try to help you as much as I can, don’t kill yourself love I would miss you very much <3
Savana shouldn’t you already be in therapy since your visit to the hospital after a failed attempt? And sorry for being blunt but I am concerned for your well being. Your mental health is obviously not the best and as you have said you don’t have a strong relationship with your parents. You just had an abortion and then relapsed. I’m sure a therapist would be the least that you need. Please seek professional help.
plus a therapist never tells any information to your parents which is so nice. I never went to my parents (still don't) for stuff. but it felt so nice to talk to an adult and they just listen. it's their job. it was so nice just releasing all of my tension that was bottled up.
@savannah I really understand what you’re going through! When people everywhere are being so negative and hateful, it just messes with your mind! I know it makes you just want to scream all the time (i know also what you’re going through at home, and the abortion makes you feel like that too) and people are so infuriating, but there are also people who are angels on earth, but that’s not the topic, i know it’s not one bit easy, but you know what??? If you just give up, or you end your life, you’re letting them win!!! But that’s not even the main reason you must live! Savannah, tell me honestly, do you want your last moments in life to be such dark depressing ones??? Do you want this to just be it? To die knowing only pain? Because let me tell you, there is more to life than simply pain! Please fight with everything you have to give yourself a life where happiness is not something you feel just from time to time, but something that you feel most of the time even when there is sadness, and i know it’s impossible to imagine that you will get out of the unending dark, that there is some life out there that is better and you will get to live it, but let me assure you that you will find it! There are so many survivors out there, of all kinds, and there are survivors of assault, domestic violence, loss of loved ones, who will tell you that it’s worth it to keep going! That life indeed gets better even if you don’t believe it will! There are so many who will tell you that if they had the chance to do it again, they wouldn’t change much! You know why? Because it was all worth it at the end! (And trust me i know exactly how unrealistic that sounds rn)
Sorry for writing such a long comment but i hope you read it❤️
@ella my old therapist always told my parents 😭
@sav really ? well maybe if it was something life threatening then maybe. but usually they shouldn't tell your parents.
yeah im pretty sure there only supposed to tell your parents if its abt sh or wanting to kys if you talk abt it
Well she told my lol everything I said
Hi Savannah, I’m Evie. I’m 15. I was suicidal for a long time, and I’m going to be honest with you, I’m definitely not fully better yet. But I am still here. I only just found this thread but I’ve read every one of these messages and I’m so freaking sorry. You absolutely DON’T deserve these feelings or the people who have made you feel like there’s no hope. Please listen to all of the people who have commented here. From what I can tell, you’re brilliant, funny, kind and the world needs really more people like you. I know people have already offered, but please DM me if you feel comfortable. I have gone through what you’re going through and I want to help you because you DO deserve that. You really really do. You deserve to get better and you deserve people who will willingly walk with you on that journey. I’d be thrilled to be one of those people. Please love, don’t give up.
aww that's real sweet ^ (I would've put heart emojis but these app unfortunately doesn't allow emojis)
