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first of all, a true friend wouldn't do that and i think if u continue to be their friend will only hurt you more (if they did this before, no doubt it will still happen in the future) but i know ending a friendship can be difficult and hurt. i think you should talk to them and say how you feel and i believe better friendships will come to you in the future <3 (also sry for any mistake, english is not my first language too :')
I agree. I had a friend of 8 years who was very toxic and I had a lot of trouble unfriending them because they would do something to win me back. Recently I officially unfriended them after trying 3 other times this year, and I have never felt more free. My advice is to get rid of them, real friends are there for you no matter what and will stand by you!!
exactly ending 14 years of long friendship isn't easy and they are my classmates I have to face them everyday. but thanks everybody meant a lot. I'll surely try to stay away from them.
As someone who had toxic friends (not all, but my first friends were toxic and I didn't know), they were my classmates and I had to deal with them inviting me to go to stuff then purposefully ignoring me or putting me down on things I was good at. What I eventually did was go to the library and slowly just used that as an excuse to not go to whatever they were inviting me over for. For you, it may not be a library, it could be some place else that you'd actually spend a lot of time and maybe get to know the people there instead. If my toxic friends wanted to talk to me during or between classes, I'll be reading a book and say short responses back; if they asked what was wrong, I'd say nothing's wrong just trying to read. It was a slow process so they wouldn't feel I was avoiding them on purpose. Eventually they just moved on, stopped asking for me cause they figured I'd say no, and that was that. I don't know if this was helpful, but the healthiest way to help both you and them from hurting you is for you to make the move to no longer be around them. It'll be difficult, especially since 14 years is such a long time, and at times you're going to think that maybe you were crazy or something, that you were exaggerating and it really wasn't that bad. I was there, I cried because they were my first ever friends, but I'm telling you it'll be the best thing you did for yourself. People like that, as sad as it is because we love them, aren't so easily changed. Sometimes they get worse as they get older and that's not something you should expose yourself to, even if you love them.
Hope this was somewhat helpful to you
CUT THEM OFF. Life is way too short to deal with people who are not true to you. I am no longer friends with people who I was friends with for 10 or more years. My life has become so much more peaceful and easy going. I have a very small group of good friends and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
DROP. THEM. i had a friend once who would talk shit about me behind my back all the time and deny it. i forgave her, she did it again. we weren't friends, she still did it. we were friends, she did it. she talked shit about me to my face sometimes as well. short story, me and her aren't friends anymore and my mental health has significantly improved... i advise you to do the same
just remove them and find new ones honestly... theyre not worth your time dealing with
I need some advice on how to deal with toxic friends because my bff's whom I have 14 years long of friendship talks shit behind me and Idk what to do.
I feel so left out. This is not the first time they did this. Help me
Sorry if any words are wrong English is not my first language.