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Reading smut isn't a sin right?
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May 17, 2024 10:21PM

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Read all the smut you want. Watch all the porn you want. Eat all you want. Be greedy. "Sin" is an outdated notion.
You are not committing a crime. People only have a right to judge you if you commit a crime. "God", if he exists, only has a right to judge you if you commit a crime. Otherwise, you wouldn't be able to pay for your sins with money and prayers and be forgiven by a priest. "Sin" was created so religions could profit of human nature.
Other people's opinions about you and what you read don't matter.

To me, no. It's a book that you enjoy. That's good.


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I don't really think about it either or but I'd say it's fair what you said, makes sense to me.


But if you feel free to make up your own mind, I don't see reason for it to be.
Reading smut helps you liberate libido and function as a healthy human being, as well as taking you on a ride to a fantasy world with lots of sex scenes.
Of course, it's +18. If you're under that age, I would advise you to stop and wait until you're a bit older to keep exploring this topic.
Through reading Smut, you assimilate the perspective of both main characters, becoming more apt to perceive the power struggles they go through.
Also, it is a good way of reflecting over sexuality, something we don't get to do often by ourselves.
So, IMO, smut can be good food for thought. It will also help you getting more comfortable with your own sexuality and sexual desires. Getting to know what arousals yourself better is good, because then you can choose a partner that will fulfill your sexual desires.
Seeing the bad patterns of behaviours in obviously "wrong" couples will also strengthen your morals and it will become more and more obvious to you what you like and dislike.
It's a rich experience to have.
But everything out of proportion is not good. Thinking smut is a reflection of reality is not good, and becoming addicted can make you feel more isolated than satisfied.
Moderation is needed, since sexuality can be inebriating at so many times.


learning is important
good point!

Diane made a great point. Read what you want. Go buy a Colleen Hoover bestseller and tell yourself it is because you like her ability to craft a thriller. There are disingenuous people everywhere you look. Escapism through reading is self defense if you ask me.

learning is important
good point!"
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But even if it were considered a sin, it's bizarre that anyone would seek moral guidance from book that considers cotton-poly blend a sin and worships a megalomaniac entity who drowned the entire world and ruined his most devoted followers life on a bet.
Read as smutty or unsmutty of books as you want.




“For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.”
Galatians 5:13 ESV
God sets rules FOR OUR GOOD, not just to keep us from having fun. And we should follow those rules out of a love for him.

I recommend young women and men are encouraged to read some of the less-spicy romance as an antidote. The sort of thing written by Emily Henry, Ali Henderson and Alyssa Cole. Yes, there is sex, but it's all centred on the woman's experience, it is all consensual, its not degrading. It gives a far better model of what a healthy sexual experience could / should be, than the porn they are exposed to.