How is it to have a reader bf?

[Kosar]

Hi girls. If any of you ever had a reader bf I would love to hear about your experience ♥️

[Evie]

Yes please! I’ve never had one, but I’d love to know what it’s like too! ❤️

[kenz]

I wish I would love to know as well

[kenz]

💗

[Ash ♡]

I would also, LOVE to hear because I fucking wish

[Viki (semi-hiatus, cause I broke my phone)]

I'm manifesting a reader bf

[kat]

please somebody tell us about their experience!!!

[ᴍᴀ́ʀᴄɪᴀ]

My boyfriend doesn't like to read. But must be so good have someone that likes to read... So close to you ☺️.

[Hannahtagada]

my boyfriend doesn't read but he loves to listen to me during/after I read a book sooo it is nice even if he sometimes doesn't understand my excitement over a book lol.
I wish he was a reader though (btw I just joined de group!! hiiii my name is Hannah and I am French, feel free to add me xoxo)

[Fawn]

Men don’t read they are stupid💔

[Cherry]

Fawn wrote: "Men don’t read they are stupid💔"

LMAO

[☆ Sofia ✧*。]

how has nobody actually answered the question yet 😭

[ava]

Fawn wrote: "Men don’t read they are stupid💔"
this is real, i fear

[olivia]

A guy I used to date was a reader, he read a lot of sci-fi. We used to spend our evenings on either side of the bed like a married old couple. It was definitely nice to have someone understand the impact a book can have on one’s self, and discuss those things with someone (besides with my best friend ofc lol)

I would say that the overall experience was 8.5 out of 10. This guy I dated unfortunately was a bit misogynistic, I don’t know if he was it on “purpose” or if it was formed by the way our society is structured (I like to believe it’s the latter). But he gave me snide remarks about romance not having any literary meaning and so on.

Haha it was nice but he bullied me for being a romance reader 🤪🫶🥰 so choose your men with care. And keep reading those romance books because your standards with men will rise to the top. Don’t settle for less girlies ❤️

[Kt]

i wish!! i have a video gaming boyfriend so it is nice that we can sit in a room together & he can play & i can read & we’re still spending time together (: he does enjoy reading occasionally but he has to “be in the mood” as people say (idk im always in the mood) so it’s not like he never reads (:

[Rachael]

It's nice :)
We read together before bed (we live together), and we like going to the beach to relax and read too. We talk to each other about the books we're reading. He reads different genres and is not as big as a reader as me but he would pick up books I recommend to him. It's nice having someone to have complex discussions about the plot etc. He always gets me books as birthday or Christmas gifts too :') He knows to look at my 'want to read' shelf on goodreads when picking gifts.

[Aria Nichole]

My husband and I are avid readers. We have hobbies like board game nights with friends and weekly movie nights at the theatre for $5. We listen to audiobooks while we drive, cook, etc. We read a lot. We read the same books and different books, mostly different books though, as he doesn't read romance, and I read a lot of romance.

He will play video games and I will read during our downtime. We both read before bed. We talk about books over dinner, when we wake up, when we greet each other, and in the car. We go on dates to bookstores and hang out in the library. If we're both really invested in our books, we'll go to a cafe or go out to eat and sit there and listen to our audiobooks or just read and enjoy the ambiance of a place, and each other's company.

Our home has a mix of fandom posters, fandom funko pops, a lot of bookshelves and a whole beautiful shelf dedicated to board games. We have anime posters, fictional world maps, lego sets, and other nerdy stuff on display. Some of it is his. Some of it is mine. He buys me fandom clothes and we go to Anime Conventions and Geekway and other fandom-related conventions/events. We buy matching cosplay costumes and plan out our Halloween outfits months in advance. We watch cartoons and anime and other "nerdy" shows together and generally spend a lot of our time together enjoying the same media.

Our lives are very much centered around our interests. We have been married 2 years, together for 5. He is also not misogynistic or racist or ableist or an asshole at all. His least favorite scenes are sex scenes written by men. They give him an ick. He enjoys Fantasy/Sci-Fi and he mostly plays games as women because he likes playing dress up with them. Their outfits are so much cuter and it is fun for him. It's like me when I play the SIMS. I could just spend hours changing my SIMS hair, makeup and clothes.

This man is romantic, considerate, generous, and affectionate, makes a lot of money, and spoils me and our two dogs endlessly. He is a wonderful partner. He cooks, he cleans, and he folds my laundry. He is my best friend and my soul mate.

He is a diamond in a world full of coal. But men like him are out there. I think some women would call him "sassy" because we get our nails done together and he is a very soft-spoken, gentle person who enjoys dancing and cooking and is not afraid to tell his friends he loves them and give them hugs. He is such a wonderful and sweet man who just follows his heart and spends his time on the activities he loves with the people he loves.

I hope everyone can find a man like him. Y'all deserve love like him. I have told him from the beginning he is a man written by a woman. XD He says it's because he was raised by his mother and grandma. So maybe that's the secret?

[Nana]

I would consider my boyfriend a reader. He’s more into comics and manga but he spends hours reading them, and I love when he goes on about what is happening in the book he’s reading.

[Angela✨]

Mine only reads the Bible so it may be different. When we get the time to read together, we quietly sit/lay together and enjoy our books and each others presence. Every once and I while I hook him into a book and he wants to know the story lmao.

[aubrey🎀]

GUYS HE ONLY READS FOR SCHOOL😭😭😭😭should i get him into reading????

[Kar]

@Aubrey, YES!! deffinently

[aubrey🎀]

@Sophie AHH I CANT WAIT TO READ WITH HIM

[kiki]

Fawn wrote: "Men don’t read they are stupid💔"

i agree wholeheartedly

[Alaura]

my ex boyfriend of a year didn’t read but he would let me sit there and ramble to him ab books and tell him all ab it and he would actually be engaged in the conversation and thought fantasy books with maps were the coolest thing ever 😹 but he cheated on me so he’s not as perfect as it seemed ig 😭

[nani]

Alaura wrote: "my ex boyfriend of a year didn’t read but he would let me sit there and ramble to him ab books and tell him all ab it and he would actually be engaged in the conversation and thought fantasy books ..."

Almost perfect :(

[Storm The Gremlin Child]

Me and my bf are both readers. Its amazing because sometimes on call I go on little bookish rants about what I read and he sits there and listens. Anytime we get new books we show each other what we got

[Bode]

i have an ex boyfriend who was a reader. he loved romance books and i thought it was adorable. but he ended up cheating on me after like 2 months dating so ig the book thing didnt rly matter HAHA

[Bode]

Aria Nichole wrote: "My husband and I are avid readers. We have hobbies like board game nights with friends and weekly movie nights at the theatre for $5. We listen to audiobooks while we drive, cook, etc. We read a lo..."

thats such goals

[nani]

Im talking to someone who reads
but mostly games
hes everything ugh I Love him so much

[Laura]

I wouldn't know but it's my dream lol like my ideal date is sitting in silence and reading together

[nani]

My dream is to read while laying on him while he games

[Valeria]

I can just have one of this in my dreams

[Emma]

I wish my bf was a reader bf😭 All my bf does is playing video games, and I mean I love video games but sometimes I wish I could read with him😞

[Nikolai !!]

My boyfriend reads only when he has free time, which hasn't been recent. I got him into AGGGTM and has bought him a few books, he's done the same with me. Last year we went to our school's book club and he also had us get a book fair in the spring. I'm really lucky to have him :)

[Nikolai !!]

We've also went to Barnes & Noble multiple times, which were fun dates! Theres moment where he had to take my books away because I was balling my eyes out so much (He calls it 'sad book ban')

[❥ Nathalie]

my bf started reading more to spend more time with it. He’s mainly a hardcore gamer, which helps me read books while i wait for him to play. we read completely different genres where he is non-fiction to sci-fi & i’m fantasy, romantasy, romance girly.

It’s cute because we would read on the patio of his farm & read in the sun. i would get so many books read insanely fast compared to him where it takes him forever to read. It’s nice have to rant to him about my books and he listens because i’m interested in it.

he also buys most of my books because it controls how much i spend or buy, but it is fun where i have no limit sometimes. He’s planning to build me a library in our home when we move in together ♥️

[wiktoria (taylor’s version) 🎀]

lol it’s my dream

[⋆✿Grace✿⋆]

I have a reader crush. We both like reading a lot, and we have playful fights when talking about the Hunger Games. (I think Katniss should be with Peeta, but he thinks Gale.) We both like to rant and rant about books. (He have a similar-ish taste.) I don't think he likes me though, lol. I wish I had a reader boyfriend.

[ʚ manvi°•✮•°]

it just feels like "IMAGINATION"
(if you could understand the sarcasm) :)

[Eleni]

Aria Nichole wrote: "My husband and I are avid readers. We have hobbies like board game nights with friends and weekly movie nights at the theatre for $5. We listen to audiobooks while we drive, cook, etc. We read a lo..." wow this is beautiful! Thanks for sharing

[Je'vache]

oh I have one of these! we met when we were 6 and 7. I got him into reading when we were 9 because it was my safe space and he wanted to respect that while also being able to understand so I gave him my favorite book and it was annotated so randomly with little pictures and random mismatched sticky’s. he ended up finding a genre of his own which is fantasy, thriller, and sometimes romance (although he keeps saying it’s just his research) and ended up giving me his own favorite book a year later saying he took a year to annotate it.

now we kind of just exchange annotated books and like to highlight certain words in color codes as though we’re speaking to one another like letters. we constantly have hours of us sitting in silence just laying with each other and either reading our own books or one together. he surprises me with book dates and loves to feed/ tease my childhood addiction of fairytales when he plans a surprise and is the sweetest most fictional character coded guy. he’s written by a woman I stg.

he’s reserved but is so captivating people love to talk to him. he has reading glasses that he only wears when he’s home alone and dresses old money like messy suits, turtle necks, brown leather jacket type and the boy has a French accent with words of a poet. He taught me French when we were 7, loves to sit around and look at stars, knows the most obscure facts about random things and is a golden retriever boy with smiles incomparable to the sun. it’s like I found a raven in a field of crows.

[vivie♡ {hiatus}]

@Je’vache
you’re so lucky😭😭😭
that sounds amazing

[Sumi]

Yap I wish, do boys even read?