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Possession by Celia Fremlin (May 2023)
Celia Fremlin has been a find, hasn't she? I am hoping Margaret Kennedy will be the same and I am delighted that RC suggested some Bowen. Am loving her first novel.
And I love the way we're spreading the news about Fremlin via this group.
Possession sounds great, slight shade of Psycho in that mother?
Possession sounds great, slight shade of Psycho in that mother?


I had such hopes too but, unfortunately, was unable to find an affordable copy of Possession. It started out at about $22 new in my Amazon cart and then over the past 5 month rose to over $30. Even used ones in good condition were going for more than I would pay. So I won't join this read ... at least for now.
However, I learned from my "Possession" experience. Today I just received my mail order from ThriftBooks of used copies of three Fremlins I hope to read with this group in the future:



For new editions on Amazon,


These are the Fremlins left to read, counting this month's:
1969 – Possession
1972 – Appointment with Yesterday
1975 – The Long Shadow
1977 – The Spider-Orchid
1980 – With No Crying
1982 – The Parasite Person
1990 – Listening in the Dusk
1991 – Dangerous Thoughts
1993 – The Echoing Stones
1994 – King of the World
Since we've read The Long Shadow already, I now have copies of the next two Fremlins in publishing order.

Gosh, those are crazy prices! Especially as they're under 200 pages each. I was lucky enough to find an armful of unread Fremlins in my local Oxfam so scooped them up. I know I definitely have The Spider-Orchid - and Possession. They've been republished in the UK by Faber or Bloomsbury but presumably not in the US?

Yes, it's the Faber ones that are so expensive - they are the ones I discussed in my post with Possession at $30 and the other two at $19+ dollars. I even show the Faber covers for Appointment & Spider.
I could not find new editions of the Faber Finds ones cheaper, as most book sites, including British sites such as Blackwells, don't even carry them. Even $19 seems expensive for what you get - and I do like Fremlin a lot.
I haven't started this yet, but downloaded it on kindle. It is £7.99 on kindle - £12.99 for the paperback. Quite steep in both countries I guess.

Yes, I know that US members have said before that Fremlin is not available on kindle. We have similar issues with other authors here, which are kindle in the US but not the UK. It's also annoying when some books by an author are there, but others in a series missing.
Very annoying - I always assumed that Kindle editions were available internationally. Even so, 8 quid is not cheap for such a short book.
Still, I have this one and love the sound of it so will definitely be reading it.
Still, I have this one and love the sound of it so will definitely be reading it.
Off-topic but, Susan, are you planning to read Barbara Pym's Excellent Women this month? It's wonderful and I think you'll like it - very different from Quartet in Autumn which I abandoned. On the strength of this book alone I'm eager for more Pym!



I use WOB too and even have a used copy of The Stars Look Down that is "in transit" from them now. I looked at their Fremlins too but ordered from ThriftBooks as it had the next in line Fremlin Appointment With Yesterday.
My memory of reading The Long Shadow is that it was the best Fremlin I had read of the three I had read at the times and couldn't understand its low 3.46 GR rating. Hope you enjoy it too.

I have to admit I was rather put off by Barbara Pym, RC. I am very behind with my reading at the moment, but I will have a look if I get time.
Fremlin is expensive, but I do love her work and I am always nervous that books will suddenly vanish. I've had that experience before, when you are collecting an author's work and suddenly they are no longer in print. I find kindle more comfortable on my ageing eyes, so I will try to buy one of her books every now and again. I was happy that the rest of Edmund Crispin's Gervase Fen books appeared on kindle finally and nabbed them quickly!
Fremlin is expensive, but I do love her work and I am always nervous that books will suddenly vanish. I've had that experience before, when you are collecting an author's work and suddenly they are no longer in print. I find kindle more comfortable on my ageing eyes, so I will try to buy one of her books every now and again. I was happy that the rest of Edmund Crispin's Gervase Fen books appeared on kindle finally and nabbed them quickly!

That's good to know. I only started using WOB and ThriftBooks this year and don't have enough experience yet. Until recently I didn't order that many used books, but I currently seem to be running into books where that is the better option.
Susan wrote: "I have to admit I was rather put off by Barbara Pym, RC. I am very behind with my reading at the moment, but I will have a look if I get time."
If you don't have time this month, there's a second change in June with her Some Tame Gazelle. Really, Excellent Women is so different from dreary Quartet which I couldn't bear to read! I really loved her humour and characters in this one, it's very dry and a bit sly.
If you don't have time this month, there's a second change in June with her Some Tame Gazelle. Really, Excellent Women is so different from dreary Quartet which I couldn't bear to read! I really loved her humour and characters in this one, it's very dry and a bit sly.
Yes, I really didn't get on with Quartet. I know you shouldn't be put off by one book, but I guess I am behind, so it makes me less willing to try again!
I understand so no pressure! I just think it's a book you'll enjoy, and it feels so sunny and delicious :)

I have started Possession now and I am immediately drawn in. This was published in 1969 and so there is lots about highly unsuitable boyfriends before the young man, with the obsessive mother, appears.
This may well be my favourite Fremlin so far. It was published the year after the suicide of her daughter and her husband, which is surprising as it is about a mother and her daughters, so must have been terribly difficult for her to write.
Susan wrote: "This may well be my favourite Fremlin so far."
That's a high bar, Susan! I hope to start over the long weekend.
That's a high bar, Susan! I hope to start over the long weekend.
Glad you are enjoying it, Jill. It's excellent so far. I am really invested in the characters - I love the way that Fremlin makes them come immediately to life.
It really is. I am working all day today, but hoping for some reading time this evening. I love Clare and Peggy and the comments about mothers are so, so true...
I couldn't stop reading and finished it almost in one go! So gripping. I think I'm on to Fremlin's tricks now but she pulls it all out for this one. That ending!
Will wait before saying more but yes, definitely one of her best.
Will wait before saying more but yes, definitely one of her best.
I love everything I've read by her and hope to get to this one. I'm also hoping the price might drop at some point. In any event, I'm a tad over committed to read it right now, but keenly anticipate the moment my eyes gaze upon page one

I finished last night but will wait to reveal spoilers until some of us have finished. I am already thinking of the next one - she is just brilliant. I love all the hippy-ish boyfriends and her friend Liz, with their son's who just won't leave. It has such a late Sixties feel, a 'Bless This House,' feel for older, British readers. Of the adults escaping, like Sid and his neighbour to the shed, while the kids are beyond their understanding!
Yes, that thing about the parents dying for their kids to leave was hilarious, and the sons who just keep returning!
I also think Clare is interesting as she's so hung up on being 'modern' and understanding Freud, and not being 'possessive' that she almost goes too far in the other direction, though unintentionally.
And the ineptitude and helplessness of men is jaw-dropping. When Clare has to rush out and her husband can't even manage to take a baked potato out of the oven for himself!
At what time do men start to realise that cooking for themselves and even their families on odd occasions is ok?
That said, when I was a child my dad rarely cooked and when he did it would be things like eggs and bacon or his famous omelette that was actually a cross between an omelette and scrambled eggs!
I also think Clare is interesting as she's so hung up on being 'modern' and understanding Freud, and not being 'possessive' that she almost goes too far in the other direction, though unintentionally.
And the ineptitude and helplessness of men is jaw-dropping. When Clare has to rush out and her husband can't even manage to take a baked potato out of the oven for himself!
At what time do men start to realise that cooking for themselves and even their families on odd occasions is ok?
That said, when I was a child my dad rarely cooked and when he did it would be things like eggs and bacon or his famous omelette that was actually a cross between an omelette and scrambled eggs!
My dad never cooked. I can't ever recall him doing anything like that. If we went away with my grandmother, he ate in cafes. I just don't think men did those things then - I am sure many also resented it in some ways, because they weren't taught to care for themselves and many must have had to do so.
Fremlin's books are set in that era when you never saw men at the school gates or in the kitchen, but it was definitely a generational thing.
The ending is SO creepy. I loved Peggy and Liz and the comedy of those kitchens and girlfriends and constantly frying bacon.
Fremlin's books are set in that era when you never saw men at the school gates or in the kitchen, but it was definitely a generational thing.
The ending is SO creepy. I loved Peggy and Liz and the comedy of those kitchens and girlfriends and constantly frying bacon.

What is our next Fremlin? Whatever it is, I hope it’s soon!

Since the continual Fremlin Buddy Read is following the reading plan proposed by Susan, she should final say over the book and month.
But since we can provide 'input' to Susan, I will second Wndy's request that we do a Fremlin fairly soon, but will add the caveat that it not be too soon. I am fully scheduled for both June and July, But any month from August on looks good although I also have 3 RTTC reads in August.
Perhaps Appointment With Yesterday in September and then The Spider-Orchid in November or December or even January? In between those two, if she wants, Wndy could arrange a Buddy Read with those who missed the The Long Shadow read.
Interestingly, the 6 reads already scheduled for September through December are all by female authors while the 6 reads already scheduled for January to June of 2024 are by male authors. Ok, just 2 male authors, but it still looks to me like that period of 2024 could really use some Fremlins and/or Highsmiths scheduled for balance.
September sounds good for me if that works for everyone else?
Yes, we could have some Fremlin - and possibly Bowen - for the New Year, although I don't really think about whether an author is male of female to be honest.
Yes, we could have some Fremlin - and possibly Bowen - for the New Year, although I don't really think about whether an author is male of female to be honest.

I do when I can use it for my own purposes to foster the reading of books I want to read. I'll have to remember your author sex blindness when making future attempts to influence.
But RC is intentionally reading more woman this year so I can still try using that approach on her.
And I mentioned Highsmith not Bowen. While you're always free to schedule Bowen I'm still waiting to read The House in Paris to see if my evaluation of Bowen improves.
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A few of us have really enjoyed reading through Fremlin's catalogue and this is the next on our list.
Possession was Celia Fremlin's seventh novel, first published in 1969. Middle-class mother Clare Erskine initially thinks it a great stroke of luck when her 19 year-old daughter Sarah becomes engaged to a young man with a steady job. However Clare's betrothed, Mervyn Redmayne, has a notable black mark against him: a widowed mother with a petulant, inescapable grip on her son.
Looking forward to this one. Everyone is welcome to join in.