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Buddy Reads > Possession by Celia Fremlin (May 2023)

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Susan | 14231 comments Mod
Welcome to our May 23 buddy read of Possession Possession by Celia Fremlin first published in 1969.

A few of us have really enjoyed reading through Fremlin's catalogue and this is the next on our list.

Possession was Celia Fremlin's seventh novel, first published in 1969. Middle-class mother Clare Erskine initially thinks it a great stroke of luck when her 19 year-old daughter Sarah becomes engaged to a young man with a steady job. However Clare's betrothed, Mervyn Redmayne, has a notable black mark against him: a widowed mother with a petulant, inescapable grip on her son.

Looking forward to this one. Everyone is welcome to join in.


WndyJW I’m in!


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
Looking forward to more Fremlin this year.


WndyJW Me too!


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
And me!


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
Celia Fremlin has been a find, hasn't she? I am hoping Margaret Kennedy will be the same and I am delighted that RC suggested some Bowen. Am loving her first novel.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
And I love the way we're spreading the news about Fremlin via this group.

Possession sounds great, slight shade of Psycho in that mother?


WndyJW I hope to find an affordable copy of Possession. For someone relatively unknown her books are worth a fortune now.


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments WndyJW wrote: "I hope to find an affordable copy of Possession.."

I had such hopes too but, unfortunately, was unable to find an affordable copy of Possession. It started out at about $22 new in my Amazon cart and then over the past 5 month rose to over $30. Even used ones in good condition were going for more than I would pay. So I won't join this read ... at least for now.

However, I learned from my "Possession" experience. Today I just received my mail order from ThriftBooks of used copies of three Fremlins I hope to read with this group in the future:
Appointment With Yesterday by Celia Fremlin Appointment With Yesterday; Spider Orchid by Celia Fremlin Spider Orchid; and Listening in the Dusk by Celia Fremlin Listening in the Dusk. All three are in very good condition and cost $19.77 for all three, with free shipping.
For new editions on Amazon, Appointment with Yesterday by Celia Fremlin is $19.50 and The Spider-Orchid by Celia Fremlin is $19.95

These are the Fremlins left to read, counting this month's:
1969 – Possession
1972 – Appointment with Yesterday
1975 – The Long Shadow
1977 – The Spider-Orchid
1980 – With No Crying
1982 – The Parasite Person
1990 – Listening in the Dusk
1991 – Dangerous Thoughts
1993 – The Echoing Stones
1994 – King of the World

Since we've read The Long Shadow already, I now have copies of the next two Fremlins in publishing order.


WndyJW Every now and then I search used book sites to see if there are any Fremlin available. We need an nyrb or Virago type publisher to reprint her catalogue.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
Gosh, those are crazy prices! Especially as they're under 200 pages each. I was lucky enough to find an armful of unread Fremlins in my local Oxfam so scooped them up. I know I definitely have The Spider-Orchid - and Possession. They've been republished in the UK by Faber or Bloomsbury but presumably not in the US?


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments Roman Clodia wrote: ".They've been republished in the UK by Faber or Bloomsbury but presumably not in the US?.."

Yes, it's the Faber ones that are so expensive - they are the ones I discussed in my post with Possession at $30 and the other two at $19+ dollars. I even show the Faber covers for Appointment & Spider.
I could not find new editions of the Faber Finds ones cheaper, as most book sites, including British sites such as Blackwells, don't even carry them. Even $19 seems expensive for what you get - and I do like Fremlin a lot.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
I haven't started this yet, but downloaded it on kindle. It is £7.99 on kindle - £12.99 for the paperback. Quite steep in both countries I guess.


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments There is not a Kindle version of it available on Amazon U.S. I went on the Amazon UK site I saw the prices you mentioned for the Kindle and paperback. But when I logged into my account the Kindle was not available to me. And the paperback price increased. It said I had to get my kindles from Amazon US which has no Kindle of Possession.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
Yes, I know that US members have said before that Fremlin is not available on kindle. We have similar issues with other authors here, which are kindle in the US but not the UK. It's also annoying when some books by an author are there, but others in a series missing.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
Very annoying - I always assumed that Kindle editions were available internationally. Even so, 8 quid is not cheap for such a short book.

Still, I have this one and love the sound of it so will definitely be reading it.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
Off-topic but, Susan, are you planning to read Barbara Pym's Excellent Women this month? It's wonderful and I think you'll like it - very different from Quartet in Autumn which I abandoned. On the strength of this book alone I'm eager for more Pym!


WndyJW These Fremlin books aren’t cheap, but if I pay around $20 I feel the reading experience was worth the cost, even at under 200 pages. I do realize I’m in a privileged position of not having to choose between an overpriced book or a meal.


WndyJW I just found about a dozen Celia Fremlin on World of Books www.wob.com for less than $14. I ordered The Long Shadow and The spider-orchid for $11.80 including shipping.


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments WndyJW wrote: "I just found about a dozen Celia Fremlin on World of Books www.wob.com for less than $14. I ordered The Long Shadow and The spider-orchid for $11.80 including shipping."

I use WOB too and even have a used copy of The Stars Look Down that is "in transit" from them now. I looked at their Fremlins too but ordered from ThriftBooks as it had the next in line Fremlin Appointment With Yesterday.

My memory of reading The Long Shadow is that it was the best Fremlin I had read of the three I had read at the times and couldn't understand its low 3.46 GR rating. Hope you enjoy it too.


WndyJW I find ThriftBooks is hit and miss with the condition of the book. A friend said she always has good luck with them though.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
I have to admit I was rather put off by Barbara Pym, RC. I am very behind with my reading at the moment, but I will have a look if I get time.

Fremlin is expensive, but I do love her work and I am always nervous that books will suddenly vanish. I've had that experience before, when you are collecting an author's work and suddenly they are no longer in print. I find kindle more comfortable on my ageing eyes, so I will try to buy one of her books every now and again. I was happy that the rest of Edmund Crispin's Gervase Fen books appeared on kindle finally and nabbed them quickly!


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments WndyJW wrote: "I find ThriftBooks is hit and miss with the condition of the book. A friend said she always has good luck with them though."

That's good to know. I only started using WOB and ThriftBooks this year and don't have enough experience yet. Until recently I didn't order that many used books, but I currently seem to be running into books where that is the better option.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
Susan wrote: "I have to admit I was rather put off by Barbara Pym, RC. I am very behind with my reading at the moment, but I will have a look if I get time."

If you don't have time this month, there's a second change in June with her Some Tame Gazelle. Really, Excellent Women is so different from dreary Quartet which I couldn't bear to read! I really loved her humour and characters in this one, it's very dry and a bit sly.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
Yes, I really didn't get on with Quartet. I know you shouldn't be put off by one book, but I guess I am behind, so it makes me less willing to try again!


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
I understand so no pressure! I just think it's a book you'll enjoy, and it feels so sunny and delicious :)


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Nigeyb | 15900 comments Mod
I replied on the Excellent Women thread (message 75)...


https://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/...


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
That's specific, Nigeyb :) I'll have a look.


WndyJW Quartet and Excellent Women almost don’t feel like they were written by the same author.


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments Wndy, I presumed that having publishers rejecting your books for 15 years and a stroke will change both you and your writing themes and approach.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
I have started Possession now and I am immediately drawn in. This was published in 1969 and so there is lots about highly unsuitable boyfriends before the young man, with the obsessive mother, appears.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
This may well be my favourite Fremlin so far. It was published the year after the suicide of her daughter and her husband, which is surprising as it is about a mother and her daughters, so must have been terribly difficult for her to write.


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Jill (dogbotsmum) | 802 comments I am starting this and already it has captured me.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
Susan wrote: "This may well be my favourite Fremlin so far."

That's a high bar, Susan! I hope to start over the long weekend.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
Glad you are enjoying it, Jill. It's excellent so far. I am really invested in the characters - I love the way that Fremlin makes them come immediately to life.


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
I've started and oh yes! it's brilliant :)


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
It really is. I am working all day today, but hoping for some reading time this evening. I love Clare and Peggy and the comments about mothers are so, so true...


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
I couldn't stop reading and finished it almost in one go! So gripping. I think I'm on to Fremlin's tricks now but she pulls it all out for this one. That ending!

Will wait before saying more but yes, definitely one of her best.


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Nigeyb | 15900 comments Mod
Sounds fab


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
She is a real find. I am loving it so far.


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Nigeyb | 15900 comments Mod
I love everything I've read by her and hope to get to this one. I'm also hoping the price might drop at some point. In any event, I'm a tad over committed to read it right now, but keenly anticipate the moment my eyes gaze upon page one


WndyJW I’m only half way, but I just love Fremlin. If I have to mortgage my house I will have every novel she wrote. I love that she unapologetically celebrates the life of the traditional housewife and mother and the housewife striving to be a modern woman and modern mother who is not Possessive with a capital P. I love the catty gossip and petty jealousies and competitions between the mothers. Fremlin books are campy and fun and she succeeds in building tension.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
I finished last night but will wait to reveal spoilers until some of us have finished. I am already thinking of the next one - she is just brilliant. I love all the hippy-ish boyfriends and her friend Liz, with their son's who just won't leave. It has such a late Sixties feel, a 'Bless This House,' feel for older, British readers. Of the adults escaping, like Sid and his neighbour to the shed, while the kids are beyond their understanding!


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
Yes, that thing about the parents dying for their kids to leave was hilarious, and the sons who just keep returning!

I also think Clare is interesting as she's so hung up on being 'modern' and understanding Freud, and not being 'possessive' that she almost goes too far in the other direction, though unintentionally.

And the ineptitude and helplessness of men is jaw-dropping. When Clare has to rush out and her husband can't even manage to take a baked potato out of the oven for himself!

At what time do men start to realise that cooking for themselves and even their families on odd occasions is ok?

That said, when I was a child my dad rarely cooked and when he did it would be things like eggs and bacon or his famous omelette that was actually a cross between an omelette and scrambled eggs!


Roman Clodia | 12017 comments Mod
*Very* creepy ending!


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
My dad never cooked. I can't ever recall him doing anything like that. If we went away with my grandmother, he ate in cafes. I just don't think men did those things then - I am sure many also resented it in some ways, because they weren't taught to care for themselves and many must have had to do so.

Fremlin's books are set in that era when you never saw men at the school gates or in the kitchen, but it was definitely a generational thing.

The ending is SO creepy. I loved Peggy and Liz and the comedy of those kitchens and girlfriends and constantly frying bacon.


WndyJW This was my least favorite, but I still love reading it. I too loved the Hardwicks!

What is our next Fremlin? Whatever it is, I hope it’s soon!


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments If it's the next in chronological order, according to the Wikipedia list I posted in Message 9, it would be Appointment With Yesterday

Since the continual Fremlin Buddy Read is following the reading plan proposed by Susan, she should final say over the book and month.

But since we can provide 'input' to Susan, I will second Wndy's request that we do a Fremlin fairly soon, but will add the caveat that it not be too soon. I am fully scheduled for both June and July, But any month from August on looks good although I also have 3 RTTC reads in August.

Perhaps Appointment With Yesterday in September and then The Spider-Orchid in November or December or even January? In between those two, if she wants, Wndy could arrange a Buddy Read with those who missed the The Long Shadow read.

Interestingly, the 6 reads already scheduled for September through December are all by female authors while the 6 reads already scheduled for January to June of 2024 are by male authors. Ok, just 2 male authors, but it still looks to me like that period of 2024 could really use some Fremlins and/or Highsmiths scheduled for balance.


Susan | 14231 comments Mod
September sounds good for me if that works for everyone else?

Yes, we could have some Fremlin - and possibly Bowen - for the New Year, although I don't really think about whether an author is male of female to be honest.


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Brian E Reynolds | 1129 comments Susan wrote: "Yes, we could have some Fremlin - and possibly Bowen - for the New Year, although I don't really think about whether an author is male of female to be honest...."

I do when I can use it for my own purposes to foster the reading of books I want to read. I'll have to remember your author sex blindness when making future attempts to influence.
But RC is intentionally reading more woman this year so I can still try using that approach on her.
And I mentioned Highsmith not Bowen. While you're always free to schedule Bowen I'm still waiting to read The House in Paris to see if my evaluation of Bowen improves.


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