What's the Name of That Book??? discussion
SOLVED: Children's/YA
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SOLVED. "obedient" children who are actually misbehaving--humor [s]
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Tales for the Perfect Child by Florence Parry Heide seems to match your description.
"Vignettes of children whose less than desirable behavior is masked in insidious but acceptable ways."
"Vignettes of children whose less than desirable behavior is masked in insidious but acceptable ways."
It was about how to appear to be the perfect kid ....or something like that. I read it to my children in the 90's.