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message 51: by Alicja (new)

Alicja (140177766-alicja) K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use some other vendor that allows ..."

book depository has free postage, also you can send an anonymous email and ask them


message 52: by Daydreamer (new)

Daydreamer | 76 comments K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use some other vendor that allows ..."
Are they ebooks or physical books? if they are ebooks for kindle you can use Smashwords too. you should only check the book is in MOBI format


message 53: by K. (new)

K. | 29 comments Daydreamer wrote: "K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use some other vendor t..."

Ebooks are kindle yes, but when I'm searching in Smashwords they don't come up. Thanks for the advise about mobi file, maybe wouldn't have thought of that. I'll keep looking.
Then there are the ones listed as physical books, that I thought was a mistake at first, but it doesn't look that way anymore.

This is why didn't join secret santa before, I was afraid that international gifting would be an issue and I didn't even think about shipping physical books.


message 54: by Daydreamer (new)

Daydreamer | 76 comments K. wrote: "Daydreamer wrote: "K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use ..."

Don't worry and don't feel bad about it, If you want I could help you search for an alternative. I'm from Argentina and there's a lot of content and offers not available to me too, so I know how you feel. DM me if you want me to help you. Ve


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Daydreamer wrote: "Hi, I have this situation
The person I sent the gifts is not responding to the Elfster questions and also the gifts I sent remain unclaimed.
I noticed the wish list hasn't been actualized since 20..."


send me a message!


message 56: by Daydreamer (new)

Daydreamer | 76 comments Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "Daydreamer wrote: "Hi, I have this situation
The person I sent the gifts is not responding to the Elfster questions and also the gifts I sent remain unclaimed.
I noticed the wish list hasn't been ..."

I messaged you on Elfster bc GD doesn't allow me to message you. Thanks for the help


message 57: by Aղցela W. (new)

Aղցela W. | 481 comments K. wrote: "Daydreamer wrote: "K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use ..."

You can also just send them a gift card


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use some other vendor that allows ..."

Let me help- send me a message with your elfster name and I'll take a look!


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use some other vendor that allows ..."

I think I figured out your match- I sent a message!


message 60: by K. (new)

K. | 29 comments Heather K (dentist in my spare time) wrote: "K. wrote: "My match has a wishlist that only lists books on amazon, where I can't gift books since we are in different countries. I tried. So I'm wondering if I'm allowed to use some other vendor t..."

I sent you a message on elfster.


Leelah🍁♋️ Orion | 14 comments Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to start gifting but now many things they wanted have been purchased already. Now what?


message 62: by Aղցela W. (new)

Aղցela W. | 481 comments Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to start gifting but now ..."

You could send them a message asking them to add more books or see if they have a wishlist on there shelf here


message 63: by Cadiva (new)

Cadiva | 173 comments Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to start gifting but now ..."

There's only one Secret Santa per person but there are lots of other generous Elfs who randomly gift people throughout the Exchange.


message 64: by Hemmel M. (last edited Nov 17, 2021 05:16AM) (new)

Hemmel M. | 402 comments Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to start gifting but now ..."

On elfster, in your giftee's wishlist, you can click the button 'marked as purchased'. That way the item is no longer listed for others browsing the wishlist. Then you have time to purchase and send to your own convenience.


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Cadiva wrote: "Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to star..."

This! A lot of people randomly gift to others in addition to their match.


message 66: by Ami (new)

Ami (amie_07) | 332 comments Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to start gifting but now ..."

Nudge the person to add more to the list. At these events there so many other "elves" who buy books for other people too, not just the one they are "assigned" with


message 67: by K. (new)

K. | 29 comments Hemmel wrote: "Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went back today to star..."

This is my first time doing secret santa and I have a question about the wishlist. When I look at my own wishlist i see no mention that some of my wishlist books have been gifted to me already. So does it look like that to others as well?(view spoiler)if so, then should I remove those books from my wishlist?What do people do?

I looked at other people's wishlists and did see books marked purchased. My own looks the same as when I first made it.


message 68: by Daydreamer (last edited Nov 18, 2021 03:31AM) (new)

Daydreamer | 76 comments HI K, You can't see what people bought on your own list- THat way it'll be a surprise. Others can see what gifts are already bought for you, but you cant


message 69: by Hemmel M. (new)

Hemmel M. | 402 comments K. wrote: "Hemmel wrote: "Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went bac..."

K, to me your wishlist sais several books are purchased.
Enjoy!


message 70: by K. (new)

K. | 29 comments Daydreamer wrote: "HI K, You can't see what people bought on your own list- THat way it'll be a surprise. Others can see what gifts are already bought for you, but you cant"

That makes sense. Thanks for answering :)


message 71: by K. (new)

K. | 29 comments Hemmel wrote: "K. wrote: "Hemmel wrote: "Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted...."

:) I will once I have finished my bingo book;)


message 72: by M'rella (new)

M'rella (mrella) | 792 comments I am not sure why Elfster has this urge to constantly change their layout. It's super annoying.

For the easy email view I added it to the name of my Christmas list:
Christmas List for ****@hotmail.com


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
M'rella wrote: "I am not sure why Elfster has this urge to constantly change their layout. It's super annoying.

For the easy email view I added it to the name of my Christmas list:
Christmas List for ****@hotmail..."


Same- I already messaged the Elfster tech to complain (feel free to do the same!!)


message 74: by Jenn (not Lily) (new)

Jenn (not Lily) | 111 comments M'rella wrote: "I am not sure why Elfster has this urge to constantly change their layout. It's super annoying.

For the easy email view I added it to the name of my Christmas list:
Christmas List for ****@hotmail..."


I put mine as the first line in my home address


message 75: by Pam (new)

Pam | 195 comments K. wrote: "Hemmel wrote: "Leelah🍁♋️ wrote: "Do people have multiple secret admires? When I first got my secret person I checked out what they had on their wish list so I could see what they wanted. I went bac..."

K, it's still a good idea to delete any books you've received off your wish list. Sometimes people forget to mark them so it can definitely be helpful to clean up the list from your end as well


message 76: by Corinne (new)

Corinne Colbert (cocothegeekyyogi) | 33 comments Elfster is not the easiest website ever created. I had to do a password recovery and now that I’m in I have no wish list. I’ve tried clicking in from links in these threads, and I can’t get in and I’ve tried clicking links in emails and I get an error that the links are expired. I can’t even get into my match. I’m really struggling here


Debra ~~ seriously slacking on her reviews ~~ (debrae) | 245 comments M'rella wrote: "I am not sure why Elfster has this urge to constantly change their layout. It's super annoying.

For the easy email view I added it to the name of my Christmas list:
Christmas List for ****@hotmail..."


Good idea! I changed mine and complained as well


message 78: by Hemmel M. (new)

Hemmel M. | 402 comments Corinne wrote: "Elfster is not the easiest website ever created. I had to do a password recovery and now that I’m in I have no wish list. I’ve tried clicking in from links in these threads, and I can’t get in and ..."

I am sorry your first year is difficult. Try again tomorrow, fresh? Or can a friend look what you do wrong and help you?


message 79: by Hemmel M. (new)

Hemmel M. | 402 comments Corinne wrote: "Elfster is not the easiest website ever created. I had to do a password recovery and now that I’m in I have no wish list. I’ve tried clicking in from links in these threads, and I can’t get in and ..."

I found your profile. Your wishlist contains 11 items and your email address is added.


message 80: by Pam (new)

Pam | 195 comments Corinne wrote: "Elfster is not the easiest website ever created. I had to do a password recovery and now that I’m in I have no wish list. I’ve tried clicking in from links in these threads, and I can’t get in and ..."

Oh that's no good. I would PM Heather for sure.


message 81: by Daydreamer (new)

Daydreamer | 76 comments Hi everyone, I see you can still check the email account if you click on "Ask a question".
hope is useful


message 82: by Pam (new)

Pam | 195 comments My view keeps switching back and forth between the old and the new, and I can't figure out if there's any rhyme or reason to it!!! Does anyone know? I much prefer the original format


message 83: by **Kαчcєє** (new)

**Kαчcєє** (slavetoromance) | 223 comments Question: if we live in the US, is it possible to buy a book from Amazon UK? Will it work so someone in Europe can get a book from Amazon?


message 84: by Kristy (new)

Kristy Johnston | 220 comments Pam wrote: "My view keeps switching back and forth between the old and the new, and I can't figure out if there's any rhyme or reason to it!!! Does anyone know? I much prefer the original format"

Pam - It's doing it to me too. Yesterday I could get to the old view from the 'participating' list, but today that seems to be updated to the new version. I just ended up on an old version but I can't figure out what I did to get there. LOL


message 85: by Pam (new)

Pam | 195 comments Kristy wrote: "Yesterday I could get to the old view from the 'participating' list, but today that seems to be updated to the new version. I just ended up on an old version but I can't figure out what I did to get there. LOL"

Me too, but I thought I did it by going through the participating list, so who knows!!


message 86: by Pam (new)

Pam | 195 comments **Kαчcєє** wrote: "Question: if we live in the US, is it possible to buy a book from Amazon UK? Will it work so someone in Europe can get a book from Amazon?"

No, but you can buy a gift card through the international Amazons. I usually send a GC with a note about which book I wanted to buy with it. (It's kinda fun trying to navigate Amazon in a different language. It's like solving a puzzle :)


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Corinne wrote: "Elfster is not the easiest website ever created. I had to do a password recovery and now that I’m in I have no wish list. I’ve tried clicking in from links in these threads, and I can’t get in and ..."

I see your whole wishlist- I can help if you message me :)


Roger - president of NBR United - (roger_presidentofnbrunited) | 316 comments Grrrr hate that they tried to fix what wasn't broke. Think you can do a mass pm for the group letting everyone know that people aren't able to find email to gift them. Please Heather.


message 89: by Sheri (new)

Sheri | 646 comments Roger - president of NBR United - wrote: "Grrrr hate that they tried to fix what wasn't broke. Think you can do a mass pm for the group letting everyone know that people aren't able to find email to gift them. Please Heather."

I agree and feel your frustrations!
Check your inbox Roger, Doc H sent one on the 22nd :)


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Sheri wrote: "Roger - president of NBR United - wrote: "Grrrr hate that they tried to fix what wasn't broke. Think you can do a mass pm for the group letting everyone know that people aren't able to find email t..."

Yup, I sent a message!


message 91: by Aղցela W. (new)

Aղցela W. | 481 comments They changed elfster back


message 92: by Zuzu (new)

Zuzu (zuzu4141) Aղցela W. wrote: "They changed elfster back"

Thank goodness. It was awful. 😂


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Aղցela W. wrote: "They changed elfster back"

YAY! Off to check now!


Dana ~ The Dirty Smut'atter (dirvine77) | 18 comments I got an Amazon.ca gift card, but live in the US. Any ideas how to get the gift card to the US Amazon site?


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Dana ~ The Dirty Smut'atter wrote: "I got an Amazon.ca gift card, but live in the US. Any ideas how to get the gift card to the US Amazon site?"

contact amazon customer service and they'll be able to help you out!


Dana ~ The Dirty Smut'atter (dirvine77) | 18 comments Heather K.....what a mess Amazon was not helpful and said they are 2 different companies. I have to buy for the .ca store and then call tech support to have the books migrated to my .com account. I will give it a try tonight and report back.


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Dana ~ The Dirty Smut'atter wrote: "Heather K.....what a mess Amazon was not helpful and said they are 2 different companies. I have to buy for the .ca store and then call tech support to have the books migrated to my .com account. I..."

Oh yikes. Sorry!


Dana ~ The Dirty Smut'atter (dirvine77) | 18 comments Heather K........well the solution from Amazon.com didn't work. I logged into my account with the Amazon.ca site and it will not allow a US user to purchase kindle books. in the end the only thing I could do was buy myself a single paperback book and shulip it to myself in the US. I have done this gift exchange for years and have enjoyed it. I might take a break after this year and this gift card mess......I know you work like crazy to set this up. Just crazy how difficult Amazon can be on what should be a simple thing!!!!


Heather K (dentist in my spare time) (dentistinmysparetime) | 2075 comments Mod
Dana ~ The Dirty Smut'atter wrote: "Heather K........well the solution from Amazon.com didn't work. I logged into my account with the Amazon.ca site and it will not allow a US user to purchase kindle books. in the end the only thing ..."

It's just really odd that they wouldn't just convert the gift card for you. I haven't heard of that issue.


message 100: by Teeny (new)

Teeny (teenykins) anyone knows how to exchange a gifted ebook for a gc or credit from amazon? do I accept it first and then? what do i do?


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