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[Vita]

Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Good morning all. How is everyone?"

Good morning
I’m fine mostly
..."

Aww, Mary, that was actually very sweet to hear. I wanted to help people feel even a tiny bit appreciated? Cause the directors do nothing.

[Unknown]

Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Vita wrote: "Good morning all. How is everyone?"

Good morning
I..."

Aww..I hope you received your deserved appreciation 💕

[Unknown]

Hello everyone

[Unknown]

I wanted to rant about my sob life

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "I wanted to rant about my sob life"

pls do
I'm here for it :'')

[Unknown]

So, for context..
I live in a strict family with 3 sisters, no brother
I’m the third one and the most spoiled one

[Unknown]

The thing is,
My elder sisters suffered the most by our strict parents.
The eldest one the most
Then the other elder one
Then me and then my little sister

It’s better now but my parents were very strict..
They didn’t even allow us mobiles

[Unknown]

And my elder sister always went through a phase (late teens) where they used to fight with our mother a LOT
Like a sort of rebellious stage.

And she used to compare us with them.
‘Why can’t you be more like them ?’ (Me and my younger sister)

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "So, for context..
I live in a strict family with 3 sisters, no brother
I’m the third one and the most spoiled one"

So your family has mom, dad and four girls including you?

[Unknown]

I used to feel so validated and I used to think
‘I would never act like them’ 🙄

[Unknown]

Elena wrote: "Unknown wrote: "So, for context..
I live in a strict family with 3 sisters, no brother
I’m the third one and the most spoiled one"

So your family has mom, dad and four girls including you?"

Yup

[Unknown]

Now, my sisters are married and settled somewhere else and I’ve realized…
What they went through now
…well, not now..more like in my late teens

[Elena]

hmm this is kind of true for my brother as well, like i'm the younger one and I feel bad for him when he gets compared to me

[Unknown]

My mother shout and scream at us for LITTLE things
Like so minor, it just makes me feel so frustrated

[Unknown]

I listen to her all the time, I do everything she says,
But the one in 50 times I somehow make a mistake…

She points it out and makes it seem like I never listen to her

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "I listen to her all the time, I do everything she says,
But the one in 50 times I somehow make a mistake…

She points it out and makes it seem like I never listen to her"

aksdjlaskd that must be so frustrating i can't-

[Unknown]

She keeps screaming
‘Why are my kids like this ? Why don’t they listen to me?’

And whenever I try to argue back
She’s like

‘I’M YOUR MOTHER’

[Elena]

Can you maybee confront her about it?

[Unknown]

Elena wrote: "Can you maybee confront her about it?"

And then suffer x100 😭 and listen to her taunts the whole week.
I’ve never seen her accept her mistakes

[Unknown]

It’s becoming to the point where I’m like
‘Maybe I should do something REALLY bad, then maybe she won’t shout at be for the barest thing’

[Unknown]

Sometimes she scolds me for things which aren’t even my fault

[Unknown]

Like, my sister made a mess of our room.

She was like
‘How are you ok with her making a ness like that ? Aren’t you her older sister ? Why are you letting her so this ?
Don’t you feel bad seeing your room this messy?’

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "She keeps screaming
‘Why are my kids like this ? Why don’t they listen to me?’

And whenever I try to argue back
She’s like

‘I’M YOUR MOTHER’"

But you are, you are listening to her *cries*

[Unknown]

Sometimes it’s so suffocating
Like I’m so close to tears sometimes

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Elena wrote: "Can you maybee confront her about it?"

And then suffer x100 😭 and listen to her taunts the whole week.
I’ve never seen her accept her mistakes"

It must be really frustrating living like that, I'm so sorry 😭😭

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Like, my sister made a mess of our room.

She was like
‘How are you ok with her making a ness like that ? Aren’t you her older sister ? Why are you letting her so this ?
Don’t you feel bad seeing ..."

YOUR SISTER made a mess, not you oh lord

[Unknown]

No , that’s a lie…
I cry 80% of the time, and get mocked and scolded for THAT too

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Sometimes it’s so suffocating
Like I’m so close to tears sometimes"

I understand :(

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "No , that’s a lie…
I cry 80% of the time, and get mocked and scolded for THAT too"

You don't scold someone and expect to not be affected by it, you are scolding them to affect them in the first place wth

This is giving me same energy as "if you die, I will kill you" smh

[Unknown]

I remember one time, my older sister (smaller a) was coming to live us.
She defended my little sister over a very minor issue (she got accused of misplacing a marker and got hit for that)

And my mother taunted smaller a for the WHOLE week

[Unknown]

Elena wrote: "Unknown wrote: "No , that’s a lie…
I cry 80% of the time, and get mocked and scolded for THAT too"

You don't scold someone and expect to not be affected by it, you are scolding them to affect them..."

‘Why are you crying ? What did I do ??
Don’t you be ashamed for crying like that ? You’re an adult’

my mom after shouting at me for literally nothing

[Unknown]

Hehe….
End of rant

Thanks a lot for listening to me, Elena.

[Unknown]

I really appreciate it 😭

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "I remember one time, my older sister (smaller a) was coming to live us.
She defended my little sister over a very minor issue (she got accused of misplacing a marker and got hit for that)

And my m..."

wow your mom seems so ..... angsty and angry all the time 😭

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Elena wrote: "Unknown wrote: "No , that’s a lie…
I cry 80% of the time, and get mocked and scolded for THAT too"

You don't scold someone and expect to not be affected by it, you are scolding them ..."

Yeah yeah you are deprived of tears and they become dry the day you tune 18 that's why we've never seen adults cry YAY

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Hehe….
End of rant

Thanks a lot for listening to me Elena"

Unknown wrote: "I really appreciate it 😭"

aww it's ok, I'm always here if you need to rant <33

[Unknown]

Eh…I think I exaggerated a bit

[Unknown]

Tbh, I’m the one in the family who has it the least worst.
Because I’m my parent’s favorite

[Unknown]

That’s why my sisters alienated me a lot 😌

[Unknown]

Nah, it’s more like

Bigger A and smaller a are SUPER close to each other..
And M is close to the extended family (cousins)

And I’m close to no one 🙂

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "That’s why my sisters alienated me a lot 😌"

that sucks....

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Eh…I think I exaggerated a bit"

it's ok. we all do that sometimes

[Unknown]

So, what’re you doing now ?

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Nah, it’s more like

Bigger A and smaller a are SUPER close to each other..
And M is close to the extended family (cousins)

And I’m close to no one 🙂"

YOU HAVE PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET AND WE LOVE YOU

[Unknown]

Elena wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Nah, it’s more like

Bigger A and smaller a are SUPER close to each other..
And M is close to the extended family (cousins)

And I’m close to no one 🙂"

YOU HAVE PEOPLE ON THE INTE..."

Hehe…thanks.
But would you take a grenade for me ? 🤔

[Vita]

Mary, it is exhausting when parents are like this. It's the whole "You're an adult, act like one and I'll get angry if you don't. Buuuuut I'm also gonna treat you like a child and discipline you like one too"

I hope you're okay.

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "So, what’re you doing now ?"

I'm in class and reviewing things for the test we have tmr
It's Monday so I'm a bit tired and worn out but I'll be ok once I eat sandwiches my mom's gonna make
Also I don't feel like reading at all, i'll just watch lawless laywer

[Elena]

Unknown wrote: "Elena wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Nah, it’s more like

Bigger A and smaller a are SUPER close to each other..
And M is close to the extended family (cousins)

And I’m close to no one 🙂"

YOU HAVE PEOP..."

I'll take anything for you so suree

[Elena]

Vita wrote: "Mary, it is exhausting when parents are like this. It's the whole "You're an adult, act like one and I'll get angry if you don't. Buuuuut I'm also gonna treat you like a child and discipline you li..."

EXACTLY!!

[Unknown]

Vita wrote: "Mary, it is exhausting when parents are like this. It's the whole "You're an adult, act like one and I'll get angry if you don't. Buuuuut I'm also gonna treat you like a child and discipline you li..."

Oh my god !! Thanks for putting into words !!

There’s actual other reasons too though.

Like, this might sound crazy. But her relationships were her sisters is being reflected in her relationship with us,

She’s..like me somehow, cast out and alienated a bittt by her sisters.
And they kinda..boss her around

So, I think she wants to feel superior at home or something

Hehe..
This is all theory