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Unknown Reader’s nook of ✨positivity✨
impulsvbtch wrote: "I say burn the cousin.or not.. but seriously though, go on your phone or ignore her if she isn't interested in talking to you?"
Omg…lol
I wish I could. But it’s still awkward when she’s silently judging you.
Idk about you but I can’t freely look at my phone when I’m with other people who I’m not comfortable with
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "You’re ready to endure with talking about things you’re not interested in but conversations dry up VERY QUICKLY and it gets awkward very fast.What do you do now ??"
not talk to her"
Hehe…. I would prefer that so much 😭
But it’s still awkward.
Ok, change of topics…It’s another hypothetical situation I was thinking of having a poll at.
Actually two…
Choose one
A
Or
B
I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but particularly this one cousin. we went out together all the time, she constantly came over to mine and I went over to hers, and it was fun. but then as we grew older I started noticing how very different we are. conversations started to always fall flat, and even when we had a common topic to talk about, we had completely different opinions (which I didn't mind but I can't say the same for her) so yeah, we just don't force it anymore
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I say burn the cousin.or not.. but seriously though, go on your phone or ignore her if she isn't interested in talking to you?"
Omg…lol
I wish I could. But it’s still awkward..."
I get that, tbh. I hate when they start getting all nosy like mind your own fucking business
Unknown wrote: "Ok, change of topics…It’s another hypothetical situation I was thinking of having a poll at.
Actually two…
Choose one
A
Or
B"
yes yes yes!!!!
impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but particularly this one cousin. we went out together all the time, she constantly came over to mi..."YES !
it’s the exact same for me.
The worst thing is all my paternal cousins are close to each other and I get isolated (and my sister but she’s more social )
It sucks 🥲
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Ok, change of topics…It’s another hypothetical situation I was thinking of having a poll at.
Actually two…
Choose one
A
Or
B"
yes yes yes!!!!"
No, like A or B ?
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but particularly this one cousin. we went out together all the time, she consta..."my mom's close with her siblings as well but i'm not with any of their kids so don't feel pressured, I say the best solution to this is to try and find something that you enjoy doing that'll keep you occupied whenever she's around
impulsvbtch wrote: "B"Hmm,,wait, It’ll take a while to type it up.
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but particularly this one cousin. we went out together all the ..."Hehe…
Social customs and fear of isolation stops me from that,
On a plus side, I see here Very rarely.
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "B"Hmm,,wait, It’ll take a while to type it up."
take your time! :)
you know if she's not interested in talking to you then you should act like you're not interested too. she has no right to judge you when she can't even cooperate with you.
Hmm…Person A and person B are related to each other. Person A has helped person B a lot in the past, so they want to return the favor. Person A is ok with not getting anything in return but when asked repeatedly, she requests some very expensive high brand items which are 20x the price of normal items.
Now, person B knows that A is not financially well off and probably can’t tell the difference between the normal items and the High brand ones. So they buy her good quality copies which looks exactly like the High brand ones but are 70% cheaper
While the 70% of the money goes to the benefit of person A in the form of a gift in future.
Now, assuming that person A never finds out the truth her whole life. Is person B in the wrong here ?
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but particularly this one cousin. we went o..."you gotta work on that babe
I'm sure you can make something up about how you can't leave your room or risk being distracted because of this really important assignment that you have very little time left to complete
Ishika wrote: "you know if she's not interested in talking to you then you should act like you're not interested too. she has no right to judge you when she can't even cooperate with you."Ishika…
I’m very weak willed person who can’t stand conflicts 🥲
I’m gonna sound like a suck up, but if I do that, I’ll forever be isolated from my other paternal cousins, some of them who I have good relationship with.
Unknown wrote: "Hmm…Person A and person B are related to each other. Person A has helped person B a lot in the past, so they want to return the favor. Person A is ok with not getting anything in return but when ..."
damn, fuck. wait. I gotta think about this one
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but particularly this one c..."Yes, that’s a good solution.
But she came to my house and I’m not ready to her my time ??
Is what she’ll think and that makes me hella guilty.
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Hmm…Person A and person B are related to each other. Person A has helped person B a lot in the past, so they want to return the favor. Person A is ok with not getting anything in ..."
Really ??
I really wanted to make neutral one. So you think this will get polar responses ? Becuse I feel like all my situations are getting a clear majority.
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my cousins but par..."who cares what a judgemental bitch thinks
besides, she isn't even interested in talking to you so she literally has no right to be upset now that you're returning her energy. you have nothing to feel guilty about
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "Hmm…Person A and person B are related to each other. Person A has helped person B a lot in the past, so they want to return the favor. Person A is ok with not ..."
my morality has a few grey spots and I think you just hit one of them
but anyway, yeah I feel like this is neutral
because person b probably just wanted to make person a happy in return which they did, by lying? so I don't know if they're in the wrong for this. more like smart
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of close to some of my..."Yes,
The only bright side is that I don’t see her often.
I really wish we were as close as before.
But she doesn’t like me now (of course I feel the same)
But we have to pretend and the first one to admit would be the ‘villain’
Let’s forget about this, I’ll figure something out.
i believe person B is not wrong. they bought a cheap item and ik that it's wrong but person A never wanted the gift in the 1st place. but it really depends upon what the product/gift is.
impulsvbtch wrote: "because person b probably just wanted to make person a happy in return which they did, by lying? so I don't know if they're in the wrong for this. more like smart"No !! Choose one.
Ishika wrote: "i believe person B is not wrong. they bought a cheap item and ik that it's wrong but person A never wanted the gift in the 1st place. but it really depends upon what the product/gift is."right
also wtf does it matter if the price's low
the quality's good so *shrugs* it's a win win
and also, person A will eventually get the rest of the money in another gift
Ishika wrote: "i believe person B is not wrong. they bought a cheap item and ik that it's wrong but person A never wanted the gift in the 1st place. but it really depends upon what the product/gift is."I want to make this as neutral as possible.
Do you think I should erase the part where she says she doesn’t want a gift ?
What do you mean ‘depends on what the product/gift was’ ?
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "because person b probably just wanted to make person a happy in return which they did, by lying? so I don't know if they're in the wrong for this. more like smart"No !! Choose..."
fine, person b is not wrong
impulsvbtch wrote: "Ishika wrote: "i believe person B is not wrong. they bought a cheap item and ik that it's wrong but person A never wanted the gift in the 1st place. but it really depends upon what the product/gift..."Again, to make this as neutral as possible, do you think I should erase the part where she’s getting the 70% back in another gift ?
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing up, I was sort of..."alright
but also, you're allowed to dislike other people
doesn't make you a bad person or a "villain"
some people just don't vibe together and thats okay
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "because person b probably just wanted to make person a happy in return which they did, by lying? so I don't know if they're in the wrong for this. more like smar..."Person b is lying though,
Isn’t that deception ?
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Ishika wrote: "i believe person B is not wrong. they bought a cheap item and ik that it's wrong but person A never wanted the gift in the 1st place. but it really depends upon w..."maybe? wait ask for a third opinion
impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situation because growing u..."Oh no
I don’t feel guilty in disliking her
My family situation is….complicated.
So, I have to be careful of what I speak.
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "I used to be in a similar situati..."ah I see
hmm ok. so if the gift was for example some cheap copy of a book instead of hardcover or collector's edition then it doesn't matter. if the gift was for example some fake branded clothes or sonething then person b is wrong.
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "because person b probably just wanted to make person a happy in return which they did, by lying? so I don't know if they're in the wrong for ..."it is
but no harm is being caused
again, morally grey area for me
Ishika wrote: "hmm ok. so if the gift was for example some cheap copy of a book instead of hardcover or collector's edition then it doesn't matter. if the gift was for example some fake branded clothes or soneth..."
branded clothes is what I had in mind.
But why is person B wrong ?At the end, isn’t it the same effect ?
She’s happy either way.
Ishika wrote: "hmm ok. so if the gift was for example some cheap copy of a book instead of hardcover or collector's edition then it doesn't matter. if the gift was for example some fake branded clothes or soneth..."
I feel like so many people miss the point of hypothetical questions because they're looking at it wrong
the question's about the morality about this kind of deception
so details like those are meaningless
impulsvbtch wrote: "or second"It’s late..
And you’re both the only ones here.
Unknown wrote: "But why is person B wrong ?At the end, isn’t it the same effect ?
She’s happy either way."
that's what I'm saying
then person b is wrong because person a was expecting branded clothes and if their financial condition is weak then that branded clothes matter a lot to them.
impulsvbtch wrote: "Ishika wrote: "hmm ok. so if the gift was for example some cheap copy of a book instead of hardcover or collector's edition then it doesn't matter. if the gift was for example some fake branded cl..."
I know !!
I’ve seen so many comments where people try to point out stuff which is out of the questions and make judgement on that.
I think that’s one of the reason, I get a clear majority.
if you took away the 70% part I wouldn't change my mind but i feel like other people might tbh, so I guess yeahexcept, what if your audience's very against deception and that ends up getting more people to vote against b?
Ishika wrote: "then person b is wrong because person a was expecting branded clothes and if their financial condition is weak then that branded clothes matter a lot to them."I never said their financial situation is weak 😅.
I just said they weren’t well off.
There’s a difference.
But if my finances situation was weak, wouldn’t something other than branded clothes benefit me ?
Remember they are good copies, they will last long enough.
impulsvbtch wrote: "if you took away the 70% part I wouldn't change my mind but i feel like other people might tbh, so I guess yeahexcept, what if your audience's very against deception and that ends up getting more ..."
I know !!!
I never know what the audience is thinking.
I just want to keep it as neutral as possible, so that both the opinions are in a way equal.
Unknown wrote: "impulsvbtch wrote: "Ishika wrote: "hmm ok. so if the gift was for example some cheap copy of a book instead of hardcover or collector's edition then it doesn't matter. if the gift was for example ..."
yep, definitely
I've seen this in your poll comments section a lot
like bro stop tailoring the question to your liking, you're missing the entire point
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What do you do now ??"
not talk to her