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My copy came last night, so I think I'll try to start this evening or tomorrow if it's a quick read. Trying to get some books done while I have the motivation.

But if there are any readers out there with alexithymia or are otherwise neurodivegent and have positive experiences with the book, I'd be interested to hear them!
(Sorry for always being such a downer when it comes to novels involving disabled characters, but poor/harmful portrayals of disability really get on my nerves.)


I've actually got alexithymia too(and dyspraxia too but the main character doesn't have that) but it's milder than the character in the book, and I think it affects females and males differently like a lot of neurological conditions (?). Knowing that, I still ended up comparing myself to the characters and wondering how I found have felt in those situations.
I also didn't like the way that alexithymia is described in the book. Generally, the word is used to describe people that often know that they are experiencing an emotion but don't know which emotion it is. In the book, however, it was described as a brain disorder - if I remember correctly it said that the person's Amygdala is smaller. This can be the case but doesn't have to be for someone to have Alexithymia. It also often mentioned that the main character can't feel any emotions at all which kind of annoyed me because it's not like that for the majority of people with Alexithymia.
So like if Alexithymia would have been explained better I would have like it more, but to me, the author just tried to make it seem more extreme than it is.

I've actually got alexithymia to..."
I am really glad you described this issue so well, Matylda. I am not a psychologist or any sort of expert in medical matters, but the book felt rather superficial to me whenever mental health was involved.
Other elements have been very over the top as well (like the many gruesome scenes which I will skip here), so I generally distrusted the author. I am quite surprised that a book like this can make an international best seller tbh, especially when so many superior novels are available.

I'm wondering if part of the problem with authors' who aren't own voices including themes like this in their work is the medical labelling of the condition? If alexithymia hadn't been mentioned and Yunjae had just been referred to as neuro-divergent, it wouldn't be mis-representing or leading readers to believe everyone who has that is exactly like this one character.
I think it's a really difficult discussion, because at the end of the day, it is just fiction and I am very against the "fiction writers should only write what they know about" argument, because then it isn't fiction. It's non-fiction.
But, aside from that rant I can also seem the damage it can do, people take things at face value and don't do their own research, learn about the realities, talk to people...
I'm sorry if any of that comes across as rude, I'm a bad explainer, but this type of conversation really interests me because I love to hear other people's views, and it gives me headaches because it's so complicated.


Oh, I know they have consequences. I'm definitely not trying to disrespect anyone's thoughts or feelings either. It just absolutely amazes me, in the worst way possible, that people get their facts and world views from fiction. Without putting any extra time into learning.

Really? I suppose it doesn't surprise me in that way at all. From a very young age we're introduced to stories, we learn to process the world in terms of narrative, so it doesn't seem very odd that narrative fiction, or non-fiction, should continue to be central to many people's approach to understanding the world around them. Plus this is realist fiction not SF or fantasy so the author is claiming a direct connection with reality.




You are right, I'm sorry and I very much apologise if I have upset anyone. I just wanted to hear more views about an issue that comes up a lot that I don't have an answer for.


I really loved it too, I gave it 4.5 because Dora felt a bit, pointless. Like shoehorned in just to give some love interest.