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[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

This is where you can talk about a problem, maybe depression, family problems, advice, or just someone to talk too. Someone here will help you.
Hope you are all safe ^^

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

Aja wrote: "Anyone have any advice about what to do when someone {i.e. me} has suicidal thoughts?"

Here's mine...Take it from someone who still has suicidal thoughts. Sure suicide might seem the best option, No more cruel world and people...But what about the people who actually care for you, You'll be killing them as well. this is just a temporary problem, don't worry. You are An awesome person who deserves to live. Don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise. You do have friends who care.

[Debbie]

Here is mine... Take it from me who has been bullied all through life and has been through traumatic things. I have had these thoughts about ending myself and it was not healthy. It seems like your only option but trusts me it's not. Which seems cliche to say. I won't be Cliche but I can tell you what helped me through my mental health state.
- Talk to someone (Its cliche it but it worked)
- I made sure my suicidal thoughts didn't have power over me and made sure that I had power over them (takes practice) but I talked to a bully who bullied me and I made sure they had no power over me. The bully didn't know what I was going through (might not all be like that but its good to not let someone hold 'power' over you)
- Journalling helped.
- I had therapy apps
- I did some counseling
I say don't end your life because someone brings down their negativity on you. You deserve to live and tell your story to spread more positivity (The world needs more light)
I am always available to talk if you need a friend do not hesitate to contact me through goodreads.
Take care Aja Things will get better.
-Debbie

[Debbie]

Any time :)

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Any advice to do when you lost a BFF who is actually a bit of a screw up?

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

PotatOtter wrote: "Any advice to do when you lost a BFF who is actually a bit of a screw up?"

how did you lose them first of all if you don't mind me asking

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Oh its fine. Same person as Aja, and she was calling everyone bad words. She's kind, I'm just swelled up I guess

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

Oh dear wolves, First of all, What is wrong with this girl and second, like I told Aja just don't talk to her, the past is in the past. You should just ignore her negative environment. She might come around sometime, but right now she isn't

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1. You know her, like really know her I think
2. Alright, thanks Wolfscar!! You are so helpful!!

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

I hate toxic environments and people, what good does it do them?

[[deleted user]]

Me too

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

PotatOtter wrote: "1. You know her, like really know her I think
2. Alright, thanks Wolfscar!! You are so helpful!!"

And your welcome, Anything to help a friend

[[deleted user]]

: )

[[deleted user]]

Hey soo my BFF wants to be my friend again (personal life, not on gr) and I'm not sure whether to accept or decline. . .

[Debbie]

i say do what u feel is right :) its pretty vague but what ever you feel is right is right. trust your gut :)

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Debbie wrote: "i say do what u feel is right :) its pretty vague but what ever you feel is right is right. trust your gut :)"

OK thanks!

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Aja wrote: "PotatOtter wrote: "Hey soo my BFF wants to be my friend again (personal life, not on gr) and I'm not sure whether to accept or decline. . ."

Maybe tell them you need a little time to trust them ag..."

alright, thank you!

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

I really need advice, Some of you might already know, but one of my best friend kill himself and This really hit me hard and I'm heartbroken. I actually liked him.....I feel so numb and lost without him. My parents don't know about this and didn't know him. Idk what to say to them since they noticed me crying a lot. Can someone help me..what should I do?

[[deleted user]]

I think you should tell them, they can help. We are here whenever you need us : )

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

ӾӾ_₳Ⱡ₱Ⱨ₳ ₩ØⱠ₣₴₵₳Ɽ_ӾӾ wrote: "PotatOtter wrote: "I think you should tell them, they can help. We are here whenever you need us : )"

Yea, ig you're right and Thanks

[Debbie]

I think you should tell them. I went through a loss with a love one due to suicide and I think your parents can really help you and guide you. I am really sorry about your loss. If you need anything feel free to message me or talk in this group with all these amazing people.
I am here for you! Please take care of yourself. grieve takes time.

Sending all my love,
Debbie.

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

@Debbie and @Aja
Thanks for the advice^^, It really helps

[Debbie]

Anytime Always there for a friend in need :) Take care.
My inbox on Goodreads is always open if you need a friend to chat.

[Debbie]

Hey Guys... So I um... Wanted to talk...
Uhhh this is hard. Okay, here it goes. I am anxious. anxious about school with all my heavy courses dumped on me with tests, quizzes, assignments layered on top of each other.
I am anxious... About if I will be able to fit into the clothing. To have the "desirable" body I am in. I am scared. What if I push myself too hard I will burn out and fall.
But most of all I am tired. tired of overworking day and night balancing out my heavy school workload with my personal workload. And at the end of the day, I need to get things done. Sometimes I don't sleep just to finish chores or read just to have the satisfaction that I am done.
My mental health is alright. I am just anxious and worried I will never get things done... Thanks for listening and take care.

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

Debbie wrote: "Hey Guys... So I um... Wanted to talk...
Uhhh this is hard. Okay, here it goes. I am anxious. anxious about school with all my heavy courses dumped on me with tests, quizzes, assignments layered on..."

I get you Debbie, School is definitely a place where stress is common as well as loads of work. It's normal to feel anxious and worry Maybe if you try to calm down a bit before class and think about how you're going to plan your day It will help. Usually for me to take a little five min break between class to go drink water, stretch and do other simple daily things like that.
Hope this help and stay safe^^

[Debbie]

@Alpha wolf Scar thank you!!! It feels good checking off things on my to-do list it is very satisfying. Got any tips for how I should study if my professor doesn't teach me? We get thrown textbooks with very bad descriptions about calculating chemicals.

[Ꞩȼⱥɍ , Insignificant Scarred Wolf who howls at the stars]

Debbie wrote: "@Alpha wolf Scar thank you!!! It feels good checking off things on my to-do list it is very satisfying. Got any tips for how I should study if my professor doesn't teach me? We get thrown textbooks..."

Hmmm...Well you should find your own way to study from research and videos or maybe you could ask for a better explanation from your Professor

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Hey, so my friend isn't my friend anymore (different person) and she said it was because I was taking the blame for everything that goes wrong. I dunno what to do now at this point because I want to be her friend so so so badly its just she isn't really. . .her anymore. . .